I think I have been friend zoned

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by ladylibra21 on Friday, October 7, 2016 and has 2 replies.

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@ladylibra21
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Wouldn't Capricorn be more careful about telling me how he is feeling if he liked me romantically? This guy always tells me where his emotions are and we talk about his family and his worries. Do you think that means he just trusts me as a friend and thing more? Are you guys more careful with your life if you like someone?

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A whole lot of factors go in to this. I generally only open up to people I trust- deeply. Whether that means he sees you as a romantic interest? Hard to say. I have a few very close female friends who I discuss my emotions, relationship problems and seek advice from. There is no hint of a romantic connection with them (particularly on my end). If he talks to you about other women, then I would say that doesn't bode well for him seeing you romantically. Additionally, there are the kind of romantic interest that grow on us and the kind we go after. The latter wouldn't have to question my interest. Not sure if you have done this but, I f the ambiguity is really bothering you then try having a frank discussion with him about how you feel.

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Posted by Capri-sun
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You lost me. I don't have friends & I dislike talking emotions...

Why would you expect him to be more guarded? If he trust you & is opening up to you...isn't that a good thing?!?

Of course it is and I want him to feel like he can come to me anytime no matter how I feel about him even if he doesn't feel the same way i do about him, but I am wondering if he feels that comfortable he may not see me as a romantic partner.