Is this cappy guy ditching me??

Hi.......I am requesting all 2 gv me some suggestions 2 deal wd my cappy man.We first found each other from a matrimonial site.Then we started chatting,talking on phone ......and gradually we fell in love wd each other.He confessed his love to me many times(ofcourse not everyday as dats not cap trait!!).We met personally 4 months ago and we saw each other for the first time.....I quite liked him and when I asked him later he also confessed his likings(He's bit shy 2 express his feelings....but smtimes out from the blue he expresses his affection 2wards me).Our parents agreed on our marriage in 2012 and along wd my parents I moved back 2 my country as we belong 2 different nations.Now ....from the beginning of 2012 he has been facing some probs such as argument wd family,labour prob in his company and our marriage is being delayed.For last 1 week I am asking him to know the exact docs needed 4 registration in case of marrying a foreigner but everyday whenever I asked him abt it.......he said..he had sm prob in company but he wud surely get the info.Day before yesterday he was supposed 2 gather the info n inform me....but he msged dat he had 2 leave 4 friend's marriage party,he'll b back next day @ late night and then he will hv talk wd me.The next night means tonight I waited 4 his msg....but dd'nt get any msg 4m him.I ddn't msg him as I knw he hates clingy ppl.Now I am confused....

1)Is he really interested 2 marry me?.....Often we talk abt our life after marriage or plans 2 b executed after marriage.2 days b4 he said He really loves me...n loves only me.My heart says he is being honest 2 me n he is really interested in our marriage.His family like me very much n I know cappy man prefers 2 marry d gal approved by his family.
2)What sud I do at this point?....sud I push him again 2 get the info needed 4 marriage or wait?
3)I hv heard once a cappy man confesses love ,he keeps loyal 2 d gal.....but donno y smtimes I get worried dat he might b ditching me as he is delaying our marriage...how 2 know dat he is ditching me at all?

Please help......m a virgo sun,capricorn moon.

Posted by CapGal
Do you speak like how you write? Maybe you confuse him 😛 🙂

Is my post really confusing??......:-p.....ddn't realize.Lemme knw which part sounds confusing 2 u......n It'll b gr8 if u can gv sm suggestions.

Its hard to say. Caps get really busy with their jobs and can be easily distracted. If I'm distracted, I would rather wait to talk about something important until I can relax, be fully attentive and really talk. Maybe message him and ask him directly? Caps do like honest, straight forward people.

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@ Truecap.....I hv msged him asking hw is he.....but he ddnt reply.He usually share stuffs wd me but donno wat happ ds time.As I told b4 dat my heart says he is loyal 2 me n he will get back 2 me....as d same time my brain is being suspicious abt him.Wat u suggest me 2 do now?He is a sun capricorn,moon cancer.

Seems like you barely know each other. Maybe second thoughts? I can't tell you what you should do. Myself, wouldn't get married without knowing someone better.

He could be questioning his actions..

Sometimes Caps make decisions, and than they have to process it,.. ALONE..

@canceriangoddess......Ok I get ur point,may b he is processing some decision but he cud reply my msg atleast saying dat he will keep busy 4 next few days..........watever b his decision abt marriage....can't I expect 4m him dat He declares it 2 me ?....At ds stage.....I really don't think he needs 2 run away 4m me without saying a word.Anyway m nt gonna msg him or contact him anymore but I never thought he is such a coward dat He does not have guts 2 face me.I really hope there must b something important going on in his life n he is busy wd it n he will b back 2 me soon.

Most cap men i know hate confrontation, they like everything to be peaceful. They can be as misunderstood as cancers which is prolly why i get along with Caps so well. I Have my cap man, and my cap sister and cap brother in law living next door,and usually always here hangin out.. LOL.. Trust me!!! He is not being a coward, give it a few days, text him that you miss him and love him and that your worried but you understand he needs his space and you will be there waiting for him to return... giving up on him, will show him your like every other woman and he wont waste his time coming back... and he will feel like if you cant get through this that you are not marriage material as marriage can make bigger bumps than this can

@canceriangoddess............Thanks a lot dear!...U donno me personally yet u found out time 2 help me out.So kind of u!...I hv a confusion in my mind abt cap guys.On one hand....if I msg him everyday wont he think m clingy n m nt giving him space n time?I msged him yesterday but no reply......tonight sud I msg him again or wait 4 2mrw?..I really care 4 him...Hhope he understands it n come back 2 me soon!

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