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Posted by CapTivatingI don't like cats 😛
*Lays head on incandescent shoulder and hands over a kitten* "Here pet my cat that will make you feel much better". 😛

Posted by CapTivatingI feel absolutely fine, I don't sweat the small stuff.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingI don't like cats 😛
*Lays head on incandescent shoulder and hands over a kitten* "Here pet my cat that will make you feel much better". 😛
Ehh.. me neither lol just trying to help, hope u feel better soon.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingI feel absolutely fine, I don't sweat the small stuff.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingI don't like cats 😛
*Lays head on incandescent shoulder and hands over a kitten* "Here pet my cat that will make you feel much better". 😛
Ehh.. me neither lol just trying to help, hope u feel better soon.click to expand

Posted by CapTivatingThe world is full of lovely women, I am not worried.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingI feel absolutely fine, I don't sweat the small stuff.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingI don't like cats 😛
*Lays head on incandescent shoulder and hands over a kitten* "Here pet my cat that will make you feel much better". 😛
Ehh.. me neither lol just trying to help, hope u feel better soon.
Yes, because their is always a grander picture ..click to expand

Posted by incandescentcancer
Ton of messages this morning about how I am doing and sorry that she missed my call....blah blah.
Are you guys for real? So now, I can't move on with my life in peace and she will continue not communicating. The fuckery is complete.

Posted by CapTivatingBut something intuitively told her that I had thrown up my hands and was about to let go. I will probably talk to her and see what gives.Posted by incandescentcancer
Ton of messages this morning about how I am doing and sorry that she missed my call....blah blah.
Are you guys for real? So now, I can't move on with my life in peace and she will continue not communicating. The fuckery is complete.
You just need some one who realizes how their actions affect you, she is oblivious.click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingBut something intuitively told her that I had thrown up my hands and was about to let go. I will probably talk to her and see what gives.Posted by incandescentcancer
Ton of messages this morning about how I am doing and sorry that she missed my call....blah blah.
Are you guys for real? So now, I can't move on with my life in peace and she will continue not communicating. The fuckery is complete.
You just need some one who realizes how their actions affect you, she is oblivious.click to expand

Posted by CapTivatingI am not because she has confused me so much. She made me feel like she didn't give a damn and now it seems like she does....lol.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingBut something intuitively told her that I had thrown up my hands and was about to let go. I will probably talk to her and see what gives.Posted by incandescentcancer
Ton of messages this morning about how I am doing and sorry that she missed my call....blah blah.
Are you guys for real? So now, I can't move on with my life in peace and she will continue not communicating. The fuckery is complete.
You just need some one who realizes how their actions affect you, she is oblivious.
You don't seem very certain.click to expand

Posted by CapTivatingAll kinds of mixed signals and lack of communication...what can I say....Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingI am not because she has confused me so much. She made me feel like she didn't give a damn and now it seems like she does....lol.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingBut something intuitively told her that I had thrown up my hands and was about to let go. I will probably talk to her and see what gives.Posted by incandescentcancer
Ton of messages this morning about how I am doing and sorry that she missed my call....blah blah.
Are you guys for real? So now, I can't move on with my life in peace and she will continue not communicating. The fuckery is complete.
You just need some one who realizes how their actions affect you, she is oblivious.
You don't seem very certain.
lol damn women!click to expand

Posted by incandescentcancerCommunicate to her that you need more communication. If she doesn't give you that than wash your hands of it.Posted by CapTivatingI am not because she has confused me so much. She made me feel like she didn't give a damn and now it seems like she does....lol.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingBut something intuitively told her that I had thrown up my hands and was about to let go. I will probably talk to her and see what gives.Posted by incandescentcancer
Ton of messages this morning about how I am doing and sorry that she missed my call....blah blah.
Are you guys for real? So now, I can't move on with my life in peace and she will continue not communicating. The fuckery is complete.
You just need some one who realizes how their actions affect you, she is oblivious.
You don't seem very certain.click to expand

Posted by LadyNeptuneShe's not a child, I think she should know this considering the effort I am making.Posted by incandescentcancerCommunicate to her that you need more communication. If she doesn't give you that than wash your hands of it.Posted by CapTivatingI am not because she has confused me so much. She made me feel like she didn't give a damn and now it seems like she does....lol.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingBut something intuitively told her that I had thrown up my hands and was about to let go. I will probably talk to her and see what gives.Posted by incandescentcancer
Ton of messages this morning about how I am doing and sorry that she missed my call....blah blah.
Are you guys for real? So now, I can't move on with my life in peace and she will continue not communicating. The fuckery is complete.
You just need some one who realizes how their actions affect you, she is oblivious.
You don't seem very certain.
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Posted by CapTivating... I know it can be tough, I just don't think she sees what's inside of you. Also how old is she you know caps age in reverse.She is in her late 20s. I understand the reverse aging process, I have moon in Capricorn. I was far more serious as a child than I am now.

Posted by CapTivatingShe may be not a child, but she does not understand how this is making you feel. Ask you self this are you happy? Do you trust her? Do you feel completed?If the relationship continued on like this, would you become bitter? I wouldn't settle for mediocre. But that's just me.there is no relationship here so to speak. I am running behind a girl who is doing strange things, at this point I am not fussed about it whichever way it goes.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingShe may be not a child, but she does not understand how this is making you feel. Ask you self this are you happy? Do you trust her? Do you feel completed?If the relationship continued on like this, would you become bitter? I wouldn't settle for mediocre. But that's just me.there is no relationship here so to speak. I am running behind a girl who is doing strange things, at this point I am not fussed about it whichever way it goes.
Personally, every eventual relationship has a breakthrough moment, that's when either things turn out awesome or it ends. I know I am at that point, I have put in the effort that I have to and I plan to o anything more. Now it's upto her.click to expand

Posted by CapTivatingStrange because she is blowing hot and cold in a confusing manner, I would be more than happy if she just said she doesn't wish to speak with me. Anyway this discussion is moot, I am done.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingShe may be not a child, but she does not understand how this is making you feel. Ask you self this are you happy? Do you trust her? Do you feel completed?If the relationship continued on like this, would you become bitter? I wouldn't settle for mediocre. But that's just me.there is no relationship here so to speak. I am running behind a girl who is doing strange things, at this point I am not fussed about it whichever way it goes.
Personally, every eventual relationship has a breakthrough moment, that's when either things turn out awesome or it ends. I know I am at that point, I have put in the effort that I have to and I plan to o anything more. Now it's upto her.
Wow, so because the girl is not throwing herself at you she's doing strange things?click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingStrange because she is blowing hot and cold in a confusing manner, I would be more than happy if she just said she doesn't wish to speak with me. Anyway this discussion is moot, I am done.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingShe may be not a child, but she does not understand how this is making you feel. Ask you self this are you happy? Do you trust her? Do you feel completed?If the relationship continued on like this, would you become bitter? I wouldn't settle for mediocre. But that's just me.there is no relationship here so to speak. I am running behind a girl who is doing strange things, at this point I am not fussed about it whichever way it goes.
Personally, every eventual relationship has a breakthrough moment, that's when either things turn out awesome or it ends. I know I am at that point, I have put in the effort that I have to and I plan to o anything more. Now it's upto her.
Wow, so because the girl is not throwing herself at you she's doing strange things?click to expand

Posted by CapTivatingExactly...peace out...Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingStrange because she is blowing hot and cold in a confusing manner, I would be more than happy if she just said she doesn't wish to speak with me. Anyway this discussion is moot, I am done.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingShe may be not a child, but she does not understand how this is making you feel. Ask you self this are you happy? Do you trust her? Do you feel completed?If the relationship continued on like this, would you become bitter? I wouldn't settle for mediocre. But that's just me.there is no relationship here so to speak. I am running behind a girl who is doing strange things, at this point I am not fussed about it whichever way it goes.
Personally, every eventual relationship has a breakthrough moment, that's when either things turn out awesome or it ends. I know I am at that point, I have put in the effort that I have to and I plan to o anything more. Now it's upto her.
Wow, so because the girl is not throwing herself at you she's doing strange things?
duces!click to expand

Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingExactly...peace out...Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingStrange because she is blowing hot and cold in a confusing manner, I would be more than happy if she just said she doesn't wish to speak with me. Anyway this discussion is moot, I am done.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingShe may be not a child, but she does not understand how this is making you feel. Ask you self this are you happy? Do you trust her? Do you feel completed?If the relationship continued on like this, would you become bitter? I wouldn't settle for mediocre. But that's just me.there is no relationship here so to speak. I am running behind a girl who is doing strange things, at this point I am not fussed about it whichever way it goes.
Personally, every eventual relationship has a breakthrough moment, that's when either things turn out awesome or it ends. I know I am at that point, I have put in the effort that I have to and I plan to o anything more. Now it's upto her.
Wow, so because the girl is not throwing herself at you she's doing strange things?
duces!click to expand

Posted by NostalgicCappyJust remember what I told you from my first post. Maybe you should try that one last attempt, and then if that doesn't work, truly forget about it and her. I'm only saying this, because you made it clear how much you are into this girl.She is a nice girl with many good qualities. That said, I also have my pride and I should stand my ground. I made the last effort to reach out to her, the ball is in her court, it's upto her now what she wants to do about this.

Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by NostalgicCappyJust remember what I told you from my first post. Maybe you should try that one last attempt, and then if that doesn't work, truly forget about it and her. I'm only saying this, because you made it clear how much you are into this girl.She is a nice girl with many good qualities. That said, I also have my pride and I should stand my ground. I made the last effort to reach out to her, the ball is in her court, it's upto her now what she wants to do about this.click to expand


Posted by CapricornCutieI don't know why everyone seized on the traditional wife part, it was a joke between me and another poster who was talking about general roles. I am not looking for a traditional stay at home wife...lol.
Speaking from the same point, Im Sun cappie, moon in cancer. Humor is a big things for me at least, so if you can make her smile and laugh then it's good brownie points for sure. Traditional wise, being a wife and a mother is something I think every woman wants in some point, but Capricorn make the home firm and stable. We like for our family to know that home is a safe place, a place to let loose and relax. Hope all goes well! Å Å


Posted by Everything_ Naaaaw sorry I hadn't seen that the thread was this long when I first wrote.I can only do something about it, if she is willing to talk about it. If you stay shut up like a clam, I really can't do much, can I?
Hmmm you seem so kind. I have total respect for your feelings. I've had them too. Listen to your gut instincts. It shouldn't hurt. Like Dalai Lama says: give until it hurts. When it hurts you know it's wrong. If she never calls you that could actually be considered a bit strange. Maybe she has trust issues. Like myself. I know it's silly but I'm really scared of giving of myself to a man. It's silly and unrealistic but I almost need to feel that he would prioritize me before a lot of other things, I need to know he really wants me and only me. I just need to trust him. And if I do I can call him. If I like him. If I don't like him it would be unfair of me to lead him on. If I were you I think that I'd ask what she's thinking/feeling of me. Unless you have perfect intuition and are pretty sure you know what's happening. But we often think we know even if we don't.
If the world is filled with wonderful women like you said then maybe she could be right. That attitude doesn't say she's especially interesting. It just says she's one Amongst others.

Posted by Everything_My Mars can't deal with people with no initiative. I have a very impulsive mars...lol
Yes of course. Honestly that sounds a little annoying. I've said it before: people who lack initiative are difficult for me. You seem reasonable. Don't even think you need our help 🙂 sounds good. It'll become what it becomes. Just focus on other stuff.

Posted by Everything_Gemini, he wants to do 20 different things at any given point....lol
What - sag?

Posted by CapricornCutieUntrue. Not every woman dreams of being a wife and babies. *raises hand
Speaking from the same point, Im Sun cappie, moon in cancer. Humor is a big things for me at least, so if you can make her smile and laugh then it's good brownie points for sure. Traditional wise, being a wife and a mother is something I think every woman wants in some point, but Capricorn make the home firm and stable. We like for our family to know that home is a safe place, a place to let loose and relax. Hope all goes well! Å Å

Posted by Everything_I have mercury (12 degrees) and mars (7 degrees) conjunct in Gemini. The Gemini bit keeps me interesting...lol
"He" Haha 🙂 funny unless you're schizophrenic
What degree? Omg cancer Suns with Gemini moons. Aren't you a handful? : ) in theory a Gemini Mars would be perfect for my sag Mars and Gemini moon but I can't help but be scared of any man who's got Gemini in him „ I know it's a silly prejudice. But that's just how it is.

Posted by Everything_Because of my Mars/MErc conj. I am very aggressive and to the point in my speech.Posted by incandescentcancerLol someone really loves them self. Cancer's are interesting in their cancerness. You don't need any extra spice really. Interesting that you have gemini mercury as well. I wonder if the gemini moon is worst or the gemini merc in terms of having focus on 100 places in the same time and in terms of ranting forever about things no one cares about. I'm in a study group with a cancer with aries moon and gem mercury. We don't get each other communicatively. I really like her though. It's like we speak different languages. We fight pretty often but we're both really kind in our cores so we mellow out and forgive each other. At least I hope she does hahaPosted by Everything_I have mercury (12 degrees) and mars (7 degrees) conjunct in Gemini. The Gemini bit keeps me interesting...lol
"He" Haha 🙂 funny unless you're schizophrenic
What degree? Omg cancer Suns with Gemini moons. Aren't you a handful? : ) in theory a Gemini Mars would be perfect for my sag Mars and Gemini moon but I can't help but be scared of any man who's got Gemini in him „ I know it's a silly prejudice. But that's just how it is.
But are you flakey as a person? And a little unloyal maybe? Hungry eyed? I'm not here to judge i'm just generally curious.click to expand



Posted by capricornflowerNothing ever happened, I haven't heard from her in two weeks. I made two attempts to call her and I got no response. Well, there is a point in time when you have to move on, no matter how much you may like someone. It's a pity but such is life.
Made an account mainly because I'm intrigued by how much of your time and interest you've put into this woman. Plus I really wanted to know what's happened with your cappy gal? I'm quite curious!!

Posted by CrabMan13There is no me and her.....lol. It's dead, time to move on.
hi @incandescentcancer How are you and your cap lady?
Posted by incandescentcancerWhat a shame, she'll sure be missing out. I was captured by just everything you wrote and she's an idiot for not going ahead and just keeping in touch. Good luck and may you find a woman who'll appreciate you, I'm certain you won't have trouble.Posted by capricornflowerNothing ever happened, I haven't heard from her in two weeks. I made two attempts to call her and I got no response. Well, there is a point in time when you have to move on, no matter how much you may like someone. It's a pity but such is life.
Made an account mainly because I'm intrigued by how much of your time and interest you've put into this woman. Plus I really wanted to know what's happened with your cappy gal? I'm quite curious!!click to expand

Posted by capricornflowerThanks for saying that. I try not to think too much about this whole episode since I was pretty convinced that there was scope for a solid relationship. Goes to show you how differently two people can perceive the same thing 🙂.Posted by incandescentcancerWhat a shame, she'll sure be missing out. I was captured by just everything you wrote and she's an idiot for not going ahead and just keeping in touch. Good luck and may you find a woman who'll appreciate you, I'm certain you won't have trouble.Posted by capricornflowerNothing ever happened, I haven't heard from her in two weeks. I made two attempts to call her and I got no response. Well, there is a point in time when you have to move on, no matter how much you may like someone. It's a pity but such is life.
Made an account mainly because I'm intrigued by how much of your time and interest you've put into this woman. Plus I really wanted to know what's happened with your cappy gal? I'm quite curious!!click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by capricornflowerNothing ever happened, I haven't heard from her in two weeks. I made two attempts to call her and I got no response. Well, there is a point in time when you have to move on, no matter how much you may like someone. It's a pity but such is life.
Made an account mainly because I'm intrigued by how much of your time and interest you've put into this woman. Plus I really wanted to know what's happened with your cappy gal? I'm quite curious!!click to expand

Posted by CapTivating I know you kicked me off your conversation.... 😄 ....but I am sorry to read that she still never attempted to contact you. It really makes you think of all the miss opportunities that you have in life and don't even realize it. This could have been her happily ever after, and she seems oblivious but anyways... keep your head up incandescent.LOL! I didn't kick you out of anything 😄.
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivating I know you kicked me off your conversation.... 😄 ....but I am sorry to read that she still never attempted to contact you. It really makes you think of all the miss opportunities that you have in life and don't even realize it. This could have been her happily ever after, and she seems oblivious but anyways... keep your head up incandescent.LOL! I didn't kick you out of anything 😄.
I am not too overly worried, these things happen and you can't force anyone to like you.
The double whammy this week was that another woman I was close to (a Virgo) told me she got married recently...so boom...lol.click to expand

Posted by CapTivatingWe are still close. I just ran into a lot of women who seem to like me but things don't seem to work out for whatever reason.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivating I know you kicked me off your conversation.... 😄 ....but I am sorry to read that she still never attempted to contact you. It really makes you think of all the miss opportunities that you have in life and don't even realize it. This could have been her happily ever after, and she seems oblivious but anyways... keep your head up incandescent.LOL! I didn't kick you out of anything 😄.
I am not too overly worried, these things happen and you can't force anyone to like you.
The double whammy this week was that another woman I was close to (a Virgo) told me she got married recently...so boom...lol.
Haha ha lol ok, well maybe not literally but its alright. You seem to be having a terrible time with women right now were you and the Virgo woman very close?click to expand
Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivatingWe are still close. I just ran into a lot of women who seem to like me but things don't seem to work out for whatever reason.Posted by incandescentcancerPosted by CapTivating I know you kicked me off your conversation.... 😄 ....but I am sorry to read that she still never attempted to contact you. It really makes you think of all the miss opportunities that you have in life and don't even realize it. This could have been her happily ever after, and she seems oblivious but anyways... keep your head up incandescent.LOL! I didn't kick you out of anything 😄.
I am not too overly worried, these things happen and you can't force anyone to like you.
The double whammy this week was that another woman I was close to (a Virgo) told me she got married recently...so boom...lol.
Haha ha lol ok, well maybe not literally but its alright. You seem to be having a terrible time with women right now were you and the Virgo woman very close?click to expand

Posted by CapTivating I know exactly what you mean, kind of going through the same thing. It's like it's right there chemistry is amazing but nothing ever happens or something silly ruins it. It's frustrating. I think dating in your thirties is difficult regardless, but I do think you'll end up with a better quality relationship well at least for me any ways, I think back relationships I had in my twenties and I am really thankful that I didn't settle lol.I agree with your sentiment, when I think back I feel the same. But I also have the strange feeling that something is not quite right or maybe in your 30s, everyone just gets too picky. Don't know what it is to be honest.
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I can't deal with this anymore.
All you lovely caps who took the time ti respond to this thread, thanks a lot, I appreciate it.