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3 days not a word, no response to a text message.

It's quite possible that she's busy and I can understand that fine.

But this is exactly what makes Cancer jittery, we expect to hear back. Atleast a one liner......

Is she going to do this all the time?
We can get oblivious to things, especially when we're buried into our work. But if she keeps doing this, let her go, she's not that into you.
I will, ultimately I won't stand for disrespectful behavior.

That said, I was communicating with her using a platform she doesn't use. The problem is that she still is not initiating anything and that I cannot tolerate forever.

When we're interested in someone we put in effort, even if small if that's all we have, no matter how busy we get. We wouldn't want to lose a good thing.
What do you suggest? How can I find out?
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you should change your date to location McDonalds with out telling her and see if she answers after that.
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Posted by GreenteaI don't wamt to come off sounding bad. When someone just sends me a text that doesn't merit a response, i would probably respond (unless I domt know what to say) because I want to keep his interest. I may not respond right away but I will soon enough, its either im busy at the moment or thinking of a response. . If I don't like or have any interest I will just look at the text and go back to whatever I was doing and not put another thought to it. If I like somone, I won't forget.
I do the same, I respond to very few texts.

That said, she has been responding within the hour to my text since I started sending phone texts. The only problem I have now is the lack of initiation.
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Posted by GreenteaI don't wamt to come off sounding bad. When someone just sends me a text that doesn't merit a response, i would probably respond (unless I domt know what to say) because I want to keep his interest. I may not respond right away but I will soon enough, its either im busy at the moment or thinking of a response. . If I don't like or have any interest I will just look at the text and go back to whatever I was doing and not put another thought to it. If I like somone, I won't forget.
I do the same, I respond to very few texts.

That said, she has been responding within the hour to my text since I started sending phone texts. The only problem I have now is the lack of initiation.
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Oh, lol..ya, good luck on that.
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3 days not a word, no response to a text message.

It's quite possible that she's busy and I can understand that fine.

But this is exactly what makes Cancer jittery, we expect to hear back. Atleast a one liner......

Is she going to do this all the time?
We can get oblivious to things, especially when we're buried into our work. But if she keeps doing this, let her go, she's not that into you.
I will, ultimately I won't stand for disrespectful behavior.

That said, I was communicating with her using a platform she doesn't use. The problem is that she still is not initiating anything and that I cannot tolerate forever.

It is kind of odd that you've been on 3 dates and she doesn't call at all. Does she think your just hanging out?
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I don't know what she thinks, it's possible.

I am ok with us being friendly and hanging out for a while till we get to know eachother well. I don't want to rush this and screw it up.
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its ok and yes I am a Capricorn. I just think you missed the point where he's been trying to contact her with the wrong medium. He's not been texting her phone when she found out, she said "you must have thought I was ignoring you". No you are right they are not committed they are still trying to work through their communication difficulties. No one knows how she truly feels at this point, but if she were to find out about another woman we all know how she will feel. you said it your self you would loose interest. So solely in my opinion I feel he should get through the communication difficulties before he goes adding some one else to the equation. Sorry for red flagging your post.



Trust me, I totally understand about not talking to other women as I am the same way when I'm into a guy. But, that's also when they are receptive and showing the same interest in me. I did tell him last night that now that they have established the communication channels, to look at it as a new beginning. I also said, that him saying he wasn't going to talk to other women was perfect. So, I see your point for sure, just hope you see mine too fellow Cappy, 🙂

yes I sure do 🙂 and I'm glad we agree lol I know just how a fellow cap can be when it comes to proving her point! if you don't mind me asking which part of California are you from. I always get a little home sick when I meet people from there.



Us Caps sure are stubborn sometimes, huh 😉

Don't mind at all. I'm from San Clemente, in Orange County. Where in Cali are you from originally?

lol just a little 😄...but I came from San Luis Obispo up past Santa Barbra and then I lived in the bay area for a while. I do have family in Anaheim that's also in Orange County right?



Oh wow, that's so cool. San Luis Obispo is a nice area. Yes, Anaheim is in Orange County. It's actually only about 30 minutes from me. 🙂

Awesome! its really nice to meet a cap from Cali..
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Yeah, it really is a small world. You should also let me know if you ever come visit your family in Anaheim, (OC), I love meeting new cool people.
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3 days not a word, no response to a text message.

It's quite possible that she's busy and I can understand that fine.

But this is exactly what makes Cancer jittery, we expect to hear back. Atleast a one liner......

Is she going to do this all the time?
We can get oblivious to things, especially when we're buried into our work. But if she keeps doing this, let her go, she's not that into you.
I will, ultimately I won't stand for disrespectful behavior.

That said, I was communicating with her using a platform she doesn't use. The problem is that she still is not initiating anything and that I cannot tolerate forever.

It is kind of odd that you've been on 3 dates and she doesn't call at all. Does she think your just hanging out?
I don't know what she thinks, it's possible.

I am ok with us being friendly and hanging out for a while till we get to know eachother well. I don't want to rush this and screw it up.
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.
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3 days not a word, no response to a text message.

It's quite possible that she's busy and I can understand that fine.

But this is exactly what makes Cancer jittery, we expect to hear back. Atleast a one liner......

Is she going to do this all the time?
We can get oblivious to things, especially when we're buried into our work. But if she keeps doing this, let her go, she's not that into you.
I will, ultimately I won't stand for disrespectful behavior.

That said, I was communicating with her using a platform she doesn't use. The problem is that she still is not initiating anything and that I cannot tolerate forever.

It is kind of odd that you've been on 3 dates and she doesn't call at all. Does she think your just hanging out?
I don't know what she thinks, it's possible.

I am ok with us being friendly and hanging out for a while till we get to know eachother well. I don't want to rush this and screw it up.
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Well depending on your interaction with her, she might only get friend vibes...the scorpio I'm crushing on made it very clear that he wanted me to himself. We can be a little dense when picking up on people who have an interest in us...well me. Lol
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.
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she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
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3 days not a word, no response to a text message.

It's quite possible that she's busy and I can understand that fine.

But this is exactly what makes Cancer jittery, we expect to hear back. Atleast a one liner......

Is she going to do this all the time?
We can get oblivious to things, especially when we're buried into our work. But if she keeps doing this, let her go, she's not that into you.
I will, ultimately I won't stand for disrespectful behavior.

That said, I was communicating with her using a platform she doesn't use. The problem is that she still is not initiating anything and that I cannot tolerate forever.

It is kind of odd that you've been on 3 dates and she doesn't call at all. Does she think your just hanging out?
I don't know what she thinks, it's possible.

I am ok with us being friendly and hanging out for a while till we get to know eachother well. I don't want to rush this and screw it up.
Well depending on your interaction with her, she might only get friend vibes...the scorpio I'm crushing on made it very clear that he wanted me to himself. We can be a little dense when picking up on people who have an interest in us...well me. Lol
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What kind of date did you have for her to pick up friend vibes is what I want to know.
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
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Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.
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k .. and because I've never looked into it.
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Posted by CapTivating What kind of date did you have for her to pick up friend vibes is what I want to know.
Opera, theatre and dinner

It sounds like you guys are doing fine. Why are you hung up on the her not initiating is that a cancer trait?
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Yes, we want to feel wanted. Someone calling us makes us feel good, that they think about us and want us.
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

k .. and because I've never looked into it.
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You need humor in your life.

You should watch Archer.
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Posted by CapTivating What kind of date did you have for her to pick up friend vibes is what I want to know.
Opera, theatre and dinner

It sounds like you guys are doing fine. Why are you hung up on the her not initiating is that a cancer trait?
Yes, we want to feel wanted. Someone calling us makes us feel good, that they think about us and want us.
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don't you get the want you part from your interactions.
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

k .. and because I've never looked into it.
You need humor in your life.

You should watch Archer.
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I have every archer dvd that's one of my favorite shows
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

k .. and because I've never looked into it.
You need humor in your life.

You should watch Archer.

I have every archer dvd that's one of my favorite shows
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I am waiting for "phrasing' to make a comeback in the next season. Every cancer boy's relationship with his mother looks like Archer's.
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Posted by CapTivating What kind of date did you have for her to pick up friend vibes is what I want to know.
Opera, theatre and dinner

It sounds like you guys are doing fine. Why are you hung up on the her not initiating is that a cancer trait?
Yes, we want to feel wanted. Someone calling us makes us feel good, that they think about us and want us.

don't you get the want you part from your interactions.
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I don't know. She is excited, laughing etc.
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

k .. and because I've never looked into it.
You need humor in your life.

You should watch Archer.

I have every archer dvd that's one of my favorite shows
I am waiting for "phrasing' to make a comeback in the next season. Every cancer boy's relationship with his mother looks like Archer's.
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lol is archer a cancer?
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Posted by CapTivating What kind of date did you have for her to pick up friend vibes is what I want to know.
Opera, theatre and dinner

It sounds like you guys are doing fine. Why are you hung up on the her not initiating is that a cancer trait?
Yes, we want to feel wanted. Someone calling us makes us feel good, that they think about us and want us.

don't you get the want you part from your interactions.
I don't know. She is excited, laughing etc.
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..
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yeah we can be cold lol but we also want to be wanted as well. I think I'm looking at the grander picture and your micro managing.
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..

yeah we can be cold lol but we also want to be wanted as well. I think I'm looking at the grander picture and your micro managing.
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In the grander picture I should just chill, kick back and enjoy the ride.

Maybe we will be friends, maybe more or maybe nothing at all, but that's life. I need a California moment....😄
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..

yeah we can be cold lol but we also want to be wanted as well. I think I'm looking at the grander picture and your micro managing.
In the grander picture I should just chill, kick back and enjoy the ride.

Maybe we will be friends, maybe more or maybe nothing at all, but that's life. I need a California moment....😄
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precisely! Relax and enjoy it. Sounds like a great idea, get ur mind off of it NostalgicCap is out that way she can probably show you around.
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..

yeah we can be cold lol but we also want to be wanted as well. I think I'm looking at the grander picture and your micro managing.
In the grander picture I should just chill, kick back and enjoy the ride.

Maybe we will be friends, maybe more or maybe nothing at all, but that's life. I need a California moment....😄

precisely! Relax and enjoy it. Sounds like a great idea, get ur mind off of it NostalgicCap is out that way she can probably show you around.
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I know, I just need to chill a bit.

I am in cold and fast NY, we are all a bit cuckoo like this. 😛
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..
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I once read some where that sex is a MAJOR factor in cap cancer couple it's supposed to be the best sexual match, very sensual. It must be how we ground you. I know I can get some pretty dirty thoughts in my head lol
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..

I once read some where that sex is a MAJOR factor in cap cancer couple it's supposed to be the best sexual match, very sensual. It must be how we ground you. I know I can get some pretty dirty thoughts in my head lol
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Sex is generally a major factor with Cancers, it's our way of feeling close to someone.

Your Gemini rising is probably the cause of those thoughts, I have Mars in Gemini so I can relate....lol....
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Do at least let her know that you like her but that you want to take it slow. I hang out at places with guys that are just friends. With our generation it's better to be specific, since a lot have friends of both genders.

But if she's smiling and full of laughter when you're with her it is a good sign. Sadly Goats don't wear their heart on their sleeve.
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You don't go to private dinners at expensive restaurants with your friends, do you? But fair point, I do however want to take some time to get to know her before I turn this into all or nothing. I want to be more easy on this and not lay it on too thick.
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..

I once read some where that sex is a MAJOR factor in cap cancer couple it's supposed to be the best sexual match, very sensual. It must be how we ground you. I know I can get some pretty dirty thoughts in my head lol
Sex is generally a major factor with Cancers, it's our way of feeling close to someone.

Your Gemini rising is probably the cause of those thoughts, I have Mars in Gemini so I can relate....lol....
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lol I can only imagine...
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.
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boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
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Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?
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cancer pices, aqua
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?

cancer pices, aqua
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Airy lover as well with that aqua Venus. Yet you look for a watery man with Mars in Pisces. Interesting.
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?

cancer pices, aqua
Airy lover as well with that aqua Venus. Yet you look for a watery man with Mars in Pisces. Interesting.
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is that a bad thing?
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?

cancer pices, aqua
Airy lover as well with that aqua Venus. Yet you look for a watery man with Mars in Pisces. Interesting.

is that a bad thing?
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No. Its just complicated. You like an emotional lover but you're not one yourself. When he shows you emotions, your first instinct will be to run
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?

cancer pices, aqua
Airy lover as well with that aqua Venus. Yet you look for a watery man with Mars in Pisces. Interesting.

is that a bad thing?
No. Its just complicated. You like an emotional lover but you're not one yourself. When he shows you emotions, your first instinct will be to run
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so when I get what I want I won't want it any more?
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Maybe she's just not an initiator that's not a normal Capricorn trait. I bet if any cappy lady has been on three dates over the course of a month or when ever this began we'd have at the very least called once. If I thought your were just my friend I would have even called you more.
So she thinks I am a bad person? 😛

She is very friendly when we talk to eachother, there seems to be no issue at all.

Btw, I think her Moon is in Cancer.

she probably thinks your very very bad person, who knows, maybe she will call you and tell you. Idk what moon signs mean
Literally how are you on an astro website without knowing what a moon sign is?

I have no response to that.

boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?

cancer pices, aqua
Airy lover as well with that aqua Venus. Yet you look for a watery man with Mars in Pisces. Interesting.

is that a bad thing?
No. Its just complicated. You like an emotional lover but you're not one yourself. When he shows you emotions, your first instinct will be to run

so when I get what I want I won't want it any more?
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When you get what you want you don't know what to do with it.
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Posted by CapTivating boom! Well.. I'm an aqua moon now what lol 😄.. No but foreal can u tell me what it means I'm new at this lol
Airy moon, that's why you reacted badly to his gift. Air signs find it hard to handle emotions.

What's your ascendant, Mars and Venus?

cancer pices, aqua
Airy lover as well with that aqua Venus. Yet you look for a watery man with Mars in Pisces. Interesting.

is that a bad thing?
No. Its just complicated. You like an emotional lover but you're not one yourself. When he shows you emotions, your first instinct will be to run

so when I get what I want I won't want it any more?
When you get what you want you don't know what to do with it.
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That's no very good... sounds like I need to get started on my cat collection 😢 What's yours?
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..
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But if her moon is in cancer could be she is yearning for the same thing, to feel wanted.

There could be many other reasons as to why she is not initiating contact. She might have been schooled by her mother to wait for the man to initiate contact, or perhaps past experience has taught her to be cautious about appearing too forward and initiating early on.

Hint that you enjoy speaking with her over the phone or text or however you like to communicate. Something sweet but non-demanding like, "Your good morning text put a smile on my face all day".

Just be patient and give things time to develop. Keep doing your cancer thing and sweep her off her feet.
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I read some relationship research that when men are allowed to do things for women, the man is more likely to develop feelings for her. Such as if he is allowed to pay for dinner, or to open doors for her, or to take her places, fix things for her. Men like feeling appreciated and useful and they like feeling needed by their women.
This is what I am talking about, if I am not allowed to do any of the things you mentioned how am I adding any value into the lady's life? It's not that I don't have a personality or a sense of humor that I am trying to make up with money. I just like to feel that I am doing something nice for her and she feels appreciated.

You should do all of these things it will mean a lot to her (she may not show it or get upset because she doesn't feel like she earned it). You have to provide her with a way to reciprocate so she can feel like she's earned it. Drop hints of the things you love so that she has a way to provide them for you. If she cares for you she will remember it, study it and try to become an expert on it just to make you happy.
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Aye! but at the end of the day I'm still a CAP and I keep my eye on the prize at all times! I may not have known what to do with a watery man in the beginning but I do now that's part of the reason I think were all here. I doubt any relationship is a perfect match if you care about some one you have to be have the desire to want to make them happy. I am vey good at that.
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I just don't understand how this one little thing can make you doubt every thing
I told you we like to feel wanted and that happens when someone calls us or says they want to spend time with us. In my experience, earth signs don't seem to get it. Plus, Caps are the coldest of the earth signs....lol..
But if her moon is in cancer could be she is yearning for the same thing, to feel wanted.

There could be many other reasons as to why she is not initiating contact. She might have been schooled by her mother to wait for the man to initiate contact, or perhaps past experience has taught her to be cautious about appearing too forward and initiating early on.

Hint that you enjoy speaking with her over the phone or text or however you like to communicate. Something sweet but non-demanding like, "Your good morning text put a smile on my face all day".

Just be patient and give things time to develop. Keep doing your cancer thing and sweep her off her feet.
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I don't know but honestly I am too old for this. I am not some 23 year old who has time to play these cute little games, I am a busy man in my thirties working in an important position.

I cannot understand someone not calling me even once, that's ridiculous and has no excuse.