Missing my a$$hole cappy

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by Accountz on Thursday, March 28, 2019 and has 16 replies.

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I wanna hit him up but I'm finally healing but still willing to be hurt just to be with him. Very insane I know....feels like Stockholm syndrome....but anyway just had to vent a bit but I still miss him...the good side of him...his representative

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Posted by sweetpea2977

Sad isn't it? Hopefully, for your sake, you'll push through it.

I'm trying and I haven't been thinking about him until today and about a week ago. Each time the feelings were so intense but I did manage but today makes me feel like life is short and I'm still young so enjoy the moment— But the moment can cause permanent damage in the long run 🤦🏽‍♀️ Damn my Venus in Aries

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Posted by Capgirl15

I can deeply understand you! But unfortunately...there is no good side, it's just on your mind. Get over!

It seems so hard. Since ur a Capricorn female what do u do when u get those intense urges or feelings for someone u missed who was obviously shitty once that showed u who they really were.

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Posted by Accountz

Posted by Capgirl15

I can deeply understand you! But unfortunately...there is no good side, it's just on your mind. Get over!

It seems so hard. Since ur a Capricorn female what do u do when u get those intense urges or feelings for someone u missed who was obviously shitty once that showed u who they really were.

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I'm trying to be as rational as possible and let go my vulnerable emotional side. When you become again cold, distant and objective you are able to see the real face of someone.

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Posted by Accountz

Posted by sweetpea2977

Sad isn't it? Hopefully, for your sake, you'll push through it.

I'm trying and I haven't been thinking about him until today and about a week ago. Each time the feelings were so intense but I did manage but today makes me feel like life is short and I'm still young so enjoy the moment— But the moment can cause permanent damage in the long run 🤦🏽‍♀️ Damn my Venus in Aries

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Very good. NO ONE is worth being permanently damaged for. Beneath your emotions therein lies wisdom ❤️ You will be fine. Continue to see the truth, create distance and NO contact. It'll get better. Speaking from experience.

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Oh I feel ya. It’s always the good side & positive stuff I miss. 😢 But verrrrry important to remember the bad stuff too!! Hang in there!!

Yeah I have been. It's been so hard to find a it who wants to be monogamous. I feel like if I don't fuck what I want now I'll be a cougar trying to find someone younger to screw because as men get older there dick tends to stop working 🤣

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Oh I feel ya. It’s always the good side & positive stuff I miss. 😢 But verrrrry important to remember the bad stuff too!! Hang in there!!

Yeah I have been. It's been so hard to find a it who wants to be monogamous. I feel like if I don't fuck what I want now I'll be a cougar trying to find someone younger to screw because as men get older there dick tends to stop working 🤣

Lol how old are you? I don’t really think that’s a concern until guys are in their mid 50’s.

I sent my ex cap a message that I hope he finds what he’s looking for 🤷‍♀️ Cuz for whatever reason he’s not willing to work through things. He’s freaking pay attention on Facebook so I guess I’ll hear from him again at some point. I don’t think they listen to what we say at all 😂😂

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already? I thought you're still together

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Posted by Accountz

I wanna hit him up but I'm finally healing but still willing to be hurt just to be with him. Very insane I know....feels like Stockholm syndrome....but anyway just had to vent a bit but I still miss him...the good side of him...his representative

Let the asshole go

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Posted by RooSagicorn

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Posted by RooSagicorn

Oh I feel ya. It’s always the good side & positive stuff I miss. 😢 But verrrrry important to remember the bad stuff too!! Hang in there!!

Yeah I have been. It's been so hard to find a it who wants to be monogamous. I feel like if I don't fuck what I want now I'll be a cougar trying to find someone younger to screw because as men get older there dick tends to stop working 🤣

Lol how old are you? I don’t really think that’s a concern until guys are in their mid 50’s.

I sent my ex cap a message that I hope he finds what he’s looking for 🤷‍♀️ Cuz for whatever reason he’s not willing to work through things. He’s freaking pay attention on Facebook so I guess I’ll hear from him again at some point. I don’t think they listen to what we say at all 😂😂

already? I thought you're still together

No we got back together for 2 days in January & then I got pissed at him 😂😂 He promised to talk & then didn’t so grrrr. Same ole. 😡

You are talking about the old cap right? The one I met after that would like to talk to me but ehhhhhh 🤷‍♀️

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why not give it a shot? maybe he is not the same.. I get it, the cap I know keeps disappearing for a few days too