Moods

You guys ever get in those moods that last for days on end? Been in one those lately. Can't seem to shake it for more than a few hours.

Posted by Caplove
I'm SUPER moody and I really dislike this about myself. One minute things can be so great and then other times I'm sad over something that's out of my control.

Usually it'll pass within a few days, if not I try to do things that bring me some balance and peace, like going for a walk, being outside in nature, sitting with a pet or listening to music to reboot my brain. I think that's why I like being alone a lot. I need that time to shut down and restart.

I really enjoy being alone, and recently I have been spending a lot of time by myself, but it's almost like now it's starting to have a negative effect on me? I went to the hair salon yesterday to get a color/cut, I was there for a total of 5 hours (long color process lol), and literally felt drained when I got home from being around so many people for so long. And that's not even that long!

Any other Caps notice feeling drained after being around a lot of people for an extended period of time? Or other Earth signs?

My moods are crazy. Anything can set it off, and at anytime. I just seem to get extremely irritated, and the worst feelings are those of sadness that appear out of nowhere.

Last week I bought some b12 vitamins, and they are helping me and my moods surprisingly.

I've been reading our monthly forecasts and they say that the 2nd half of 2014 will be much better for us Caps. I have definitely been in some funky moods lately. You're definitely not alone. I'm sooooo ready to move away. I want a new job. And lately I've been beating myself up for spending loads of money on luxury items.

As Capricorns.... why do we beat ourselves up so much ? It's like when we get in one of those moods, we pile all of the other 20,000 problems we're worried about on top of it and get so frustrated and irritated. Saturn is heavy.

Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I've been reading our monthly forecasts and they say that the 2nd half of 2014 will be much better for us Caps. I have definitely been in some funky moods lately. You're definitely not alone. I'm sooooo ready to move away. I want a new job. And lately I've been beating myself up for spending loads of money on luxury items.

As Capricorns.... why do we beat ourselves up so much ? It's like when we get in one of those moods, we pile all of the other 20,000 problems we're worried about on top of it and get so frustrated and irritated. Saturn is heavy.

Yep, I definitely pile it on. I was talking to my friend the other day saying I have an issue with my position in life, then I said I have an issue with talking to and connecting with people, then mentioned my issues with commitment, then my issues with not knowing what I want. By the end of the convo I think we were both depressed. My mood sunk so low that night lol.

Posted by lnana04

Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I've been reading our monthly forecasts and they say that the 2nd half of 2014 will be much better for us Caps. I have definitely been in some funky moods lately. You're definitely not alone. I'm sooooo ready to move away. I want a new job. And lately I've been beating myself up for spending loads of money on luxury items.

As Capricorns.... why do we beat ourselves up so much ? It's like when we get in one of those moods, we pile all of the other 20,000 problems we're worried about on top of it and get so frustrated and irritated. Saturn is heavy.

Yep, I definitely pile it on. I was talking to my friend the other day saying I have an issue with my position in life, then I said I have an issue with talking to and connecting with people, then mentioned my issues with commitment, then my issues with not knowing what I want. By the end of the convo I think we were both depressed. My mood sunk so low that night lol.

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LOL I know EXACTLY how you feel. We pack everything on and by the end of the day, we're completely depressed. Primarily because we do it to ourselves ! I feel like no one understands me. That's one of the things I hope for in life.. to meet someone who truly understands me... I would love to open up... but not only do I struggle with finding ways to open up, I'm reluctant to open up because I simply don't trust people.

I'm bipolar. Happy to depressed on some days. Got the trait from my mom cuz she's bipolar as well. But she has less control over it though and her episodes are more frequent.

Yes, I get in moods, too. No matter how hard I try to make myself snap out of it, it doesn't go away til it goes away. Logic doesn't help at all.

Moods for days on end?

I think they call that PMS ladies. 🙂

Posted by PrettyQueenBee

Posted by lnana04

Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I've been reading our monthly forecasts and they say that the 2nd half of 2014 will be much better for us Caps. I have definitely been in some funky moods lately. You're definitely not alone. I'm sooooo ready to move away. I want a new job. And lately I've been beating myself up for spending loads of money on luxury items.

As Capricorns.... why do we beat ourselves up so much ? It's like when we get in one of those moods, we pile all of the other 20,000 problems we're worried about on top of it and get so frustrated and irritated. Saturn is heavy.

Yep, I definitely pile it on. I was talking to my friend the other day saying I have an issue with my position in life, then I said I have an issue with talking to and connecting with people, then mentioned my issues with commitment, then my issues with not knowing what I want. By the end of the convo I think we were both depressed. My mood sunk so low that night lol.

LOL I know EXACTLY how you feel. We pack everything on and by the end of the day, we're completely depressed. Primarily because we do it to ourselves ! I feel like no one understands me. That's one of the things I hope for in life.. to meet someone who truly understands me... I would love to open up... but not only do I struggle with finding ways to open up, I'm reluctant to open up because I simply don't trust people.

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I've been feeling much better the past few days, hopefully these forecasts are right and the second half of the year will be better! If that's the case, only a few more days until June, yay!

I think we beat ourselves up because we're very practical people, and don't tend to usually see the good in the bad. So if we're going through any type of negative situation, we kind of dwell on the bad, which causes us to think of other bad things in the process, then things start adding up. Also, I'm very confident in my self, and tend to think a lot of the time that I can do better, which of course leads me to be harder on myself than I should be.

Posted by Bells93

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Posted by lnana04

Posted by PrettyQueenBee
I've been reading our monthly forecasts and they say that the 2nd half of 2014 will be much better for us Caps. I have definitely been in some funky moods lately. You're definitely not alone. I'm sooooo ready to move away. I want a new job. And lately I've been beating myself up for spending loads of money on luxury items.

As Capricorns.... why do we beat ourselves up so much ? It's like when we get in one of those moods, we pile all of the other 20,000 problems we're worried about on top of it and get so frustrated and irritated. Saturn is heavy.

Yep, I definitely pile it on. I was talking to my friend the other day saying I have an issue with my position in life, then I said I have an issue with talking to and connecting with people, then mentioned my issues with commitment, then my issues with not knowing what I want. By the end of the convo I think we were both depressed. My mood sunk so low that night lol.

LOL I know EXACTLY how you feel. We pack everything on and by the end of the day, we're completely depressed. Primarily because we do it to ourselves ! I feel like no one understands me. That's one of the things I hope for in life.. to meet someone who truly understands me... I would love to open up... but not only do I struggle with finding ways to open up, I'm reluctant to open up because I simply don't trust people.

I've been feeling much better the past few days, hopefully these forecasts are right and the second half of the year will be better! If that's the case, only a few more days until June, yay!

I think we beat ourselves up because we're very practical people, and don't tend to usually see the good in the bad. So if we're going through any type of negative situation, we kind of dwell on the bad, which causes us to think of other bad things in the process, then things start adding up. Also, I'm very confident in my self, and tend to think a lot of the time that I can do better, which of course leads me to be harder on myself than I should be.

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You're 100% spot on, I can't

i used to. they were the worst. in the last year/2 years i've really evened out my mood swings.

they still happen, but i'm in much better control over them. i can pinpoint where they stem from faster and therefore handle it faster.

what seemed to help me was swallowing the bitter pill of admitting to myself being the biggest or sole contributor to my moods. i just had to get over myself. no other thing or person is to blame. somewhere at the bottom of a dark mood are my reasons for emotionally reacting.

for me it's just a shameful waste of time being in a pissed mood.

Posted by CreepyPants
i used to. they were the worst. in the last year/2 years i've really evened out my mood swings.

they still happen, but i'm in much better control over them. i can pinpoint where they stem from faster and therefore handle it faster.

what seemed to help me was swallowing the bitter pill of admitting to myself being the biggest or sole contributor to my moods. i just had to get over myself. no other thing or person is to blame. somewhere at the bottom of a dark mood are my reasons for emotionally reacting.

for me it's just a shameful waste of time being in a pissed mood.

Where did you figure out they stem from?

Posted by CluelessCancer
No. I've realized my moods are only affected by the people in my life. Those people who affect my life negatively are generally EARTH SIGNS.

i fuking hate you people, but i lust you as well. It's a problem. My LEO placements can't deal with your negativity, yet my cancer/virgo placements feel at home. Plus I'm pretty negative person myself, but i'm aware of my faults, most EARTH signs are not, and generally very selfish.

I'm definitely aware of my faults. I mean, I'm not perfect, nobody is. I hate hearing other people point them out to me, though. It's like... YES, I KNOW I'm pessimistic, you pointing it out isn't going to help anything.

Posted by Bells93

Posted by CreepyPants
i used to. they were the worst. in the last year/2 years i've really evened out my mood swings.

they still happen, but i'm in much better control over them. i can pinpoint where they stem from faster and therefore handle it faster.

what seemed to help me was swallowing the bitter pill of admitting to myself being the biggest or sole contributor to my moods. i just had to get over myself. no other thing or person is to blame. somewhere at the bottom of a dark mood are my reasons for emotionally reacting.

for me it's just a shameful waste of time being in a pissed mood.

Where did you figure out they stem from?

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varies??_ but its simply my emotional reaction to something. some *thing* is unsettling to me, bothering me, and i need to start asking myself WHY and then answer honestly.