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lisabeth
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Posted by truecap
Just keep in mind, capricorns are much more serious than aquarians. Think about the element. We're down here on the ground while you're drifting with the wind.



uh no. i'm very serious in my relationships.


what i'm trying to convey is...

these men??

it takes TWO to tango.


if these men wanted to be with her, then what does that mean—

you can't STOP a man from cheating. No matter what. He'll do it when and where he wants.
No one can CONTROL that.

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lisabeth
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just because i happen to have an air sun, you believe i want my man to be going around with women??

then i wouldn't be married. you have been learning alot about astrology but you are still STUCK on the air sign thing that they don't want serious relationships. Maybe you need to get out of that mode, because HONESTLY Tiger Woods, Mel Gibson, Jude Law and countless others are capricorn suns that didnt stay true. so you better think about that.

maybe you all just don't get it, that these men are already LOST to their wives because they are voluntarily wanting to be with her.

you tell her that she's the bad one, but yet, the men are also the bad ones, because it takes TWO.

if these men want a woman they will want her, because it is choice.

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Posted by lisabethur8
maybe you all just don't get it, that these men are already LOST to their wives because they are voluntarily wanting to be with her.

you tell her that she's the bad one, but yet, the men are also the bad ones, because it takes TWO.

if these men want a woman they will want her, because it is choice.



This is correct. You are right.

We are just saying she deserves a better man than that. That she should look for someone with a better quality of character.
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Posted by truecap
Just keep in mind, capricorns are much more serious than aquarians. Think about the element. We're down here on the ground while you're drifting with the wind.




Lol at Capricorns more serious than Aquarians! (Not the stuff I've been witnessing lately)

Capricorns think they are more serious... But deep down its all smoke and mirrors 😉


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Shhhh!!!

That's my story and I'm sticking to it!
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Just keep in mind, capricorns are much more serious than aquarians. Think about the element. We're down here on the ground while you're drifting with the wind.




Lol at Capricorns more serious than Aquarians! (Not the stuff I've been witnessing lately)

Capricorns think they are more serious... But deep down its all smoke and mirrors 😉




Shhhh!!!

That's my story and I'm sticking to it!
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😄

Caps are my favourite and everybody knows it.
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I'm not having sex with both, but yes I do use protection with the one I am intimate with. Am I using these guys as a way to punish myself? Probably. There is a strong part of me that believes I don't deserve better or I convince myself that these guys really care. As far the girlfriend/wife are concerned, I did fall for the sob stories that these guys have told me. I have convinced myself that these women are awful and that is why their boyfriend/husband is looking for someone else to be emotionally involved with. I had to believe these women were awful otherwise I would just feel even worse about myself.

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Posted by lisabethur8
just because i happen to have an air sun, you believe i want my man to be going around with women??

then i wouldn't be married. you have been learning alot about astrology but you are still STUCK on the air sign thing that they don't want serious relationships. Maybe you need to get out of that mode, because HONESTLY Tiger Woods, Mel Gibson, Jude Law and countless others are capricorn suns that didnt stay true. so you better think about that.

maybe you all just don't get it, that these men are already LOST to their wives because they are voluntarily wanting to be with her.

you tell her that she's the bad one, but yet, the men are also the bad ones, because it takes TWO.

if these men want a woman they will want her, because it is choice.



I could cheat in a heartbeat. Right or wrong, I blame my Venus for it. That and you're right... goats like sex. My Scorpy bits outweigh that tho. They make me possessive of my partner so, in return, I hold myself to the same standard I hold them. That Sag and Libra stuff she's got going on are shooting her in the foot.
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for crying out loud. those cheating capricorn suns i mentioned didnt have your venus. *smh*

Tiger Woods has a Scorpio venus. shock. horror.
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Posted by truecap
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Posted by truecap
Just keep in mind, capricorns are much more serious than aquarians. Think about the element. We're down here on the ground while you're drifting with the wind.




Lol at Capricorns more serious than Aquarians! (Not the stuff I've been witnessing lately)

Capricorns think they are more serious... But deep down its all smoke and mirrors 😉




lol you and i are co-ruled by saturn so it's a given.

Shhhh!!!

That's my story and I'm sticking to it!



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Caps are my favourite and everybody knows it.
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Posted by lisabethur8
maybe you all just don't get it, that these men are already LOST to their wives because they are voluntarily wanting to be with her.

you tell her that she's the bad one, but yet, the men are also the bad ones, because it takes TWO.

if these men want a woman they will want her, because it is choice.



This is correct. You are right.

We are just saying she deserves a better man than that. That she should look for someone with a better quality of character.
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i dunno. she sounds like a homewrecker. like i said, both of them (two to tango) are doing the dancing. you can dance alone, but she wants to do the two step with these guys. she knows it too, that's why she's talking about it.
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just because i happen to have an air sun, you believe i want my man to be going around with women??
then i wouldn't be married. you have been learning alot about astrology but you are still STUCK on the air sign thing that they don't want serious relationships. Maybe you need to get out of that mode, because HONESTLY Tiger Woods, Mel Gibson, Jude Law and countless others are capricorn suns that didnt stay true. so you better think about that.

maybe you all just don't get it, that these men are already LOST to their wives because they are voluntarily wanting to be with her.
you tell her that she's the bad one, but yet, the men are also the bad ones, because it takes TWO.
if these men want a woman they will want her, because it is choice.


I could cheat in a heartbeat. Right or wrong, I blame my Venus for it. That and you're right... goats like sex. My Scorpy bits outweigh that tho. They make me possessive of my partner so, in return, I hold myself to the same standard I hold them. That Sag and Libra stuff she's got going on are shooting her in the foot.


for crying out loud. those cheating capricorn suns i mentioned didnt have your venus. *smh*
Tiger Woods has a Scorpio venus. shock. horror.


They're also celebrities with god complexes. Our similarities end with our sun.
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they're still human beings. and other celebrity couples can be faithful and monogamous.
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lisabeth
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my capricorn mother in law were talking about this coincidentally the other day over ROYALS.

in the past, many royalties cheated because they were "arranged" marriages, kind of like how Prince Charles had Camilla when he didnt really want to be with Princess Diana.

Or Fergie and Prince Andrew fiasco.

but yet there are still many royalties, out there that stay fine and within their marriage/partnership, like Kate middleton and Prince William, and countless others.
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Posted by lisabethur8
so what kind of argument are you trying to convey? it doesn't make sense. you say celebs, and there are other celebs who can stay within their partnership rights.

some people just abuse it. Some don't. it's very simple. not that complicated.



I'm not making an argument, as I'm not arguing. I said I rightfully or wrongfully blame my Venus because the rest of me is possessive and controlling. You're the one getting defensive.

As to the celebrities, we don't know what goes on behind closed doors. Some are faithful, some cheat and some have open relationships. I do think having wealth or a sense of power and a job that keeps you away from your partner for extended periods of time is a recipe for disaster. That's not my argument, merely an observation.
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i dunno. there are poor people who go off yonder to other pastures, too, while the baby momma has to take care of her babies and the baby poppa left them so they are out to get welfare to help care for the babies. i guess, they just don't like eachother. That's all there is to it.

people are people.

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lisabeth
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I dont know what happened in the case of Tiger Woods, honestly. Maybe Erin wasn't at fault and Tiger Woods, was a sex addict??

like that true story of David Duchovnony who is supposedly a sex addict and his ex wife Tia Leone left him, maybe because he can't keep it in you know?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/David_Duchovny

"On August 28, 2008, Duchovny announced that he had checked himself into a rehabilitation facility for treating sex addiction.[31][32] On October 15, Duchovny's and Leoni's representatives issued a statement revealing they had separated several months earlier.[33] A week later, Duchovny's lawyer said that he planned to sue the Daily Mail over an article it ran that claimed he had had an affair with Hungarian tennis instructor Edit Pakay while married to Leoni, a claim that Duchovny has denied.[34] On November 15, 2008, the Daily Mail retracted their claims.[35] After getting back together, Duchovny and Leoni once again split on June 29, 2011.[36] In 2012 he declared he was still married to her, but they are separated.[37] Their divorce was finalized in June, 2014.[38]"

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lisabeth
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O__O

i just googled and it is true for tiger Woods.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2221021/Good-news-Tiger-Woods-Sex-addiction-IS-legitimate-mental-disorder-psychologists-say.html

"Sex addiction is a legitimate mental disorder that can ruin careers, destroy relationships and cause health problems, say US psychologists.


Out of control sexual behaviour can ruin people's lives, researchers say, but psychiatrists have been reluctant to accept it as a genuine disorder.


Now a team from the University of California, Los Angeles has devised a set of criteria to define 'hypersexual disorder' as a new mental health condition.

Also, individuals who might be diagnosed with this disorder must show a pattern of sexual activity in response to unpleasant mood states, such as feeling depressed, or a pattern of repeatedly using sex as a way of coping with stress."


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-2221021/Good-news-Tiger-Woods-Sex-addiction-IS-legitimate-mental-disorder-psychologists-say.html#ixzz3S8Abs9Lo
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lisabeth
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Posted by cheekyfaerie
Totally off topic, but I was watching an old episode of Frasier, the other day, where David Duchovny was one of the guest callers to the radio show. His problem? Sex addiction. Nearly spat my cuppa.

lol

have you watched "Californication" on Netflix? or showtime?

he's the main character and his role is some sex craved sex addict who, by strange chance, gets ALOT of women (hot women with hot bodies) coming on to him and cozying up to his pant leg. These women have no shame whatsoever. they want to DO HIM; the women on the show, seem like they are sex addicted too. Or he has special manly hormones that women just go, "OOOH DO ME TOO!" *rollseyes*

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i was hoping for him and his baby momma to get togther....but i dont think the show is going towards that. He was doing wayyyy too many women, like Tiger Woods.



Always hear how good this is! Didn't have Showtime during the original run and I keep forgetting about it on Netflix cause it's not exactly something I can watch with the kiddos. Seriously, the first thing that pops in my head when I think of this show is getting to see Carla Gugino nekkid. On second thought, I can watch it on my phone. Ha. Sorry. Just turned into a 12yr old boy with a smartphone.
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you have to watch it when the children are out with grandparents, or watch it late at night. But, it's not that great really. I started getting piqued w/ interest because i like themes of "redemption" but it looks like he is UNredemptive. He loves his baby momma, but he can't just get out of that horny stage, and loving every woman who is passing by. It's so depressing!!
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Part of me doesn't want to post this, but I don't have anyone to talk too. So, I've been staying away from both men (no meet-ups, phone calls, etc.). Both have tried multiple times to contact me in the past few days; one of them had to leave for a retreat halfway through the week so I haven't heard from him at all. The other guy, the one I'm having sex with, has been aggressive about seeing me. I ignored him all week, and finally he showed up, uninvited, at my apartment tonight. He began telling me how much he loves me and how happy I make him. He even told me that he doesn't care about his girlfriend anymore. Well, stupid me fell for all these lines; one thing led to another and we began to fool around. About halfway through our foreplay he decides to tell me he blew off his son's (did I mention he has a kid with his girlfriend? I know, makes the whole situation worse..) birthday to be with me. At this point, I appalled that I threw him out. He was pretty pissed about this, but said he would come back later in the weekend.

Both of these guys are scumbags, but I'm not any better. 😢