Our Reputation ... Why So Negative

Hi Capricorn girls -- serious question here:

A couple of years back I wondered about this, but even now I have the same question.

Where do we get are reputation from? What is it about us that pulls such negativity?

I haven't read the most flattering things about us on dxp and half of the stuff stated is completely false. Honestly, I think these so called capricorn girls these men run into are really either aries or scorpios or libras and they are just saying they are capricorns because they have no knowledge of their sun sign.

Why do you think are reputation is so twisted?

I often read that cap women are difficult to get along with in an intimate/romantic relationship. We all known for being very expensive to have (which is not always a bad thing 😉) but to say that most cap women are high-mainstance is a bit of a stretch. We have also been called boring, lacking in passion, cold, aloaf, insensitive, selfish. etc.

When I beg the DIFFER 😉 Like I said, I think those are cap impersonators 😄

Is it good to be alone but being smart...or is it good to be among everyone but being stupid?

Oddly enough I understand where you are coming from OC 🙂

I'm so F****** pissed off right now...seriously, just hate my prof right now...

and yes, I agree with you Sweetie, we get the negative things all the time, only the few that are close to us know of our goodness, which is good in a way I think. Will keep those that are not worth it at bay...

I'm so F****** pissed off right now...seriously, just hate my prof right now...

You can say "fucking" on the cap board, we don't care 🙂

and yes, I agree with you Sweetie, we get the negative things all the time, only the few that are close to us know of our goodness, which is good in a way I think. Will keep those that are not worth it at bay...

I wonder why is that? I see so many flaws with women of the zodiac, but some how there's is over looked. Why is it that we are known to be the ice queens?

For me personally:

I'm reserved, so ppl automatically assume I'm arrogant, snobbish, and a cold entity.
I'm very honest and straightforward, which comes out as harsh, unemotional, and self-centered (b/c apparently I don't care for how ppl will feel for what I have to say).
I'm very down-to-earth, that's my approach to majority of things in life-apparently girls are not supposed to be like this, it's more of a guy trait-In short, not so sexy from a guy's point of view.
I like finer things in life-but ofcourse that's taken as being a gal with high standards.
And, I'm hardworking, ambitious, patient, determined and yada yada yada-but ofcourse no one really cares for all that atleast not the first time you run into someone....

Amazing how some judge ppl based on the way one looks, what one wears, and one's body language w/out that person having uttered a single word in front of them....

urghhhh, I'm still pissed off!

I'm reserved, so ppl automatically assume I'm arrogant, snobbish, and a cold entity.

I KNOW! I hate that, I'm always known for having a 'stick up my ass' until people start talking to me lol. They automatically assume that I'm a huge snob, may its the way I carry myself.

It's just annoying to hear people say, "I had a totally different impression of you until now". I think, "So this person would've thought I was like this for years until they something happen where we had to communicate".

ugh!

urghhhh, I'm still pissed off!

Let it girl, why are you having a hissy-fit?

""Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind." ~Dr. Seuss""

I agree 110% !=)

i was told (by a scorpio of course) that it's good to have people (capricorns) in this world that are uptight and insist on order: they balance out the universe. and that "i can't believe how funny/smart/cool/not stuck up you are" is so entertaining.

Brandon has common sense?

No when it comes to capricorn women he doesn't not (sorry buddy but I had to blast you on that one 😛)

Capricorn women are not slave drivers by any account, if they are it has alot to do with their chart. A capricorn can care less what you do as long as you do it. We only tell you what to do if you feel you have no idea what you are doing hahahahaha.

Capricorns can be very helpful females but we do have our flaws like all there others.

I will admit that my biggiest flaw offline is that I do not like being ignored hahaha. If I feel someone is ignoring me I usually pretend they do not exist if they want my attention. You can't really ignore someone online so that's why I don't take any offense hahaha. But yes, that's a selfish pet peeve of mine, I DO NOT LIKE BEING IGNORED. I can't stand that.

My biggest problem is faith and gratitude.

Really? So you have very little faith and you don't have much gratitude?

Cap men have a bad rep coz they are successful and devious.

Cap women have a bad rep coz they speak atop a snow-clad peak.

Cap men have a bad rep coz they are successful and devious.

Cap women have a bad rep coz they speak atop a snow-clad peak.

HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!

Anyway, bottomline is, people in the real world don't go around judging people in terms of astrology. This is a DXP thing...ie. who gives a sh1t.

Actually Ms.P, if I'm asked what sign I am and I reveal, the guy or girl usually says, "Oh so that's whats wrong with you."

Hahahahahaha, whatever that means. Those butt-holes 😛

When I say that I'm both Saggie and Cappie, they either don't know what I mean or they say, "Now I understand why you can't keep your mouth shut" or "You are double trouble."

Seriously, I get that LOL!!!!!!

I don't have any sense when it come to women period.

I didn't say you don't have any sense when it comes to women B 🙂

If I were to generalize ever virgo I've met based on the recent issue I've had with one, that would be unfair. Do you see where I'm coming from?

Anwyay, this thread was about getting to the bottom of why we cappy women have such a gloom and doom rep -- especially in romantic relationships. Our flaws aren't looked over as much as others and that pisses me off LOL!!!

OMG ... you all have totally wrecked my thread ...

*frowns*

LOL, in that case, I ain't even going to bother reading the last few pages...

"May be just because they give a hard time to guys "

The reasons are different 😉

They manage to have a view.

Yeah - a view would be more lasting I gues,but an opinion as well.

"oh so in a good way"

Not everytime.

Itz gender-neutral btw.

Haa Haa...yeah hard time.

"How do you think capricorns having a view isn't always a good thing?"

It wouldn't be good even if Geminis start haivng a view on everything, everytime. My feeling is that Caps normally have these unshakeable views which can lead to conflicts. But I will give credit to them since they dont form opinions casually.

Explains the angry mob outside of the theoretical physics department at my uni.

I have had 3 Cap bosses and they gave me the most torrid time of my life - surprisingly my personal rapport with them was a story in contrast. They were immensely successful in their respective arenas but not one of the sub-ordinates liked them - always aloof and dismissive.

And speaking of Cap friends - guess I share a karmic connection. We talk a lot of philosophy, action, execution, ethics etc. They generally did well with the seniors but not the peers.

"he also told me i never apologized and that made him feel i didn't really feel sorry "

Is that common to all earth signs ? Am just wondering ...

I like capricorns, even though (in my opinion) they can be too damn pessimistic at times...

the guys can really get under my skin sometimes too...

"Ive always thought if the devil was a zodiac sign..he SURELY is a Capricorn "

A DEVIL, first and foremost, questions God's authority-and that would point towards a Sag

But therez no respite for Sagigoat 😉

The last capricorn guy, which was my last relationship, had sex with the person that introduced me to him while we were together....

so my trust for anyone, man or bitch, is pretty much out the window...

U get along well with Ur mom, Xun ?

I have two theories -

1. Generally, mother-daughter relationships aren't exactly sweet and more so in our culture.

2. Virgos and Caps do well together.

So I dont know...

I smell a love-hate thing there, though.

More the hate, more itz love - So I believe.

But thatz besides the point - on a practical note, which signs do U think Uve been at peace with ? I have personally felt comfortable with Aquas, Virogs and Pisceans.

Why So Negative?
Its Simple!!
Everyone Wants To Be A Capricorn :-)

Hmmm...With scorpios itz difficult to tell - they are passionate one moment and then go ice-cold. Gemini - fantastic tribe I would say but they tease a lot. Librans - I can spend years listening to their ideas.

Thanks Dogsbody - for keeping it real.

Branh - you forgot our amazing sense of humour :-)

"they get bored with me sooner or later"

LOL, or thatz what they say maybe. I have had long term associations with Taureans, Librans, and Sags - and itz an interesting way of looking at things coz I never stay out of touch with anyone. But yeah - long term ties are different.

"I have to admit I am your quintessential a-social person"

Being social can have two dimensions - I rarely go all out to make new friends but I have a huge universe of friends already and I keep it vibrant by connecting with each one of them periodically.

Well, do you usually sport a red nose, or possibly Marx glasses?

"burden to be "entertaining" [ whatever that means] almost always lands on me"

No, U must be counting too much.

Yea - keeping a count, maybe ? I do that when someone fails to initiate consistently.

Ohh Ok ...so maybe U are the culprit here ...LOL

WOW! There tones of info here 😄 I will have to read it all so I can get a better understanding as to why people have problems with cap girls

U dont count and maybe U are the one whoz inaccessible.

Is it not easy to keep a one-way account ? I mean it is a possibility.