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A couple of comments.....I'm an Aries at heart (Sun) with a mix of other signs (Leo Rising, Mars in Gemini, blah, blah). Interestingly, I find that I generally get along with a lot of Cappy's.

I reconnected with an old high school classmate and we got along very well. An ex-coworker was a Cappy and we got along well too. They were both a little cautious but very determined individuals.

Now onto the "cold" Cappy reputation. I met a gal about 3 or 4 years ago. She wasn't born in the US so her English wasn't great. It was a little hard to talk to her initially. But that darn Cappy determination really helped. She really improved her English and we talked every now and then. In fact, I thought we had a little spark. Alas, she's soooooo focused on work that it's hard to see her at all. It's too bad because she's an attractive gal and we get along pretty well.

Then there's this other girl my friends were trying to set me up with. I just found out she's a cappy. Based on her birthday, she is still a cappy but close to the Aquarius cusp as well.

In any case, the gal my friends were trying to set me up with was stone cold. I've got a pretty lively personality and can talk to mostly anyone. But this gal was just just tough to approach. I'm the kind of guy that tries to find a way to interject into a conversation. This particular cappy gal wasn't having any of it.

HOWEVER, I saw this cappy gal again recently (my friend's wife is pregnant and had a party) and we talked a bit. She still wasn't talking a "lot", but she seemed less cold. In fact, she asked my friend what "my name" was, so she obviously remembered me.

Taking advantage of web social networking, I connected with the cappy gal. We exchanged a few emails and I got her phone number. So, I don't think the cappy gals are intentionally cold. I think Cappy's in general take a while to warm up to people (like their other earthy signs like Virgo and Taurus).

Once they have some level of comfort, they relax and things get better. 🙂