please please help me understand this capricorn...

We've been dating for 2 months and I am super confused as to how he feels for me.it's like one minute he loves me ,next minute he doesn't care about me.When we're out with his friends he's always very affectionate,kisses my forehead,lips,hand,hugs me.But doesn't really talk to me and usually talks to his friends.yesterday he left to Canada and he'll be gone for a month and the day he left he didn't even show any emotion towards me ,like I cried,told him I'd miss him and I love him and he just said you'll be fine and didn't show much emotion just hugged and kissed me then left.I don't understand 😢 if you truly love someone you don't act this cold.I felt like he just wanted me to leave already and he didn't care about leaving me.I just don't know what he feels for me and his friends tell me he loves me ,but he has never said that to me.There are days when I just wanna give up because I'm tired of this guessing game!Also whenever he sleeps over my place he always rushes to leave in the morning.I wanna spend time with him ,talk,hang out and he always gas some excuse to leave and that always upsets me and makes me feel like he doesn't care about me at all.The only time he ever got emotional with me and told me how he felt was a month ago when he was drunk.guys is he really not into me?should I give up on this relationship?please help 😢

Well, its only been two months. Caps move slow and he's probably not ready for these type of emotions. It takes us a long time to decide whether we love someone. If someone gets too emotional and starts expressing I love you's to me too soon, I tend to back off quickly. I get suspicious and question the credibility of it because we haven't known each other long enough to know its love. I can't love until I know all aspects of a person and two months isn't enough time for that. But, I'm talking about me. Caps are very cautious. We need space. Perhaps if you handle this separation well and in a mature manner without appearing needy, this time he spends in Canada will be good for you. However, I'm doubtful this will survive the separation. But, who knows? Hopefully, it will.

Sorry, you wanted honesty, didn't you?

Did he actually say to you "I love you" and/or "I'm in love with you"?

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Hi Truecap! 😄

Posted by hamptonslee
Also whenever he sleeps over my place he always rushes to leave in the morning.I wanna spend time with him ,talk,hang out and he always gas some excuse to leave and that always upsets me and makes me feel like he doesn't care about me at all.The only time he ever got emotional with me and told me how he felt was a month ago when he was drunk.guys is he really not into me?should I give up on this relationship?please help 😢

Sweetheart, I think you already know the answer but you want someone to tell you something other than the truth.

Just read what you wrote a few times. If someone was treating your daughter or bff or sister like this, what advice would you give her?

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He may hate good byes. I hate them and I am so anxious before departure I hardly can display feelings, which does not mean I do not have them.

Try to understand his inner world better before getting frustrated over things, which may not exist.

hamptonslee don't try and read too much into things .. seriously it will drive you mad and then he will also feel a power over you ... so just go with the flow ... it sounds like he likes you, but you need to be in control of your emotions otherwise this will get messy and you will go through and emotional roller coaster ...

Trust me .. been there ... and I am still in this mess and it is been almost 4 years ... the more deattached you are in the start the easier it is to get the hell out when things don't turn out the way you want them to.

Don't expect anything and just try and enjoy his company and don't make your world revolve around him. Time will tell how he really feels 🙂

Thanks for the advice guys!I'm just an insecure Aquarius and i'm pretty emotional :/