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Question to the Cap Males
Mad? No. Would I take her interest less seriously? Yes, definitely. On the flip side, again, I wouldn't leave a woman I wanted in limbo.
I'm a perfect example of this. I'm talking to a guy I met online. We've talked about meeting, but I haven't had it in me to actually go on a date because I still have feelings for a cap and I've been talking to him a lot lately as friends, which has been getting better and better lately. But we are still only friends. We dated for 4 months and a month ago became friends. I mentioned this guy once to him so he knows. I don't know if he'd care or not if I went on a date. I probably wouldn't tell him.
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What if he never expresses his interest. Just curious?
That is a whole other story.
Posted by ParisianCappyPosted by UndauntedSoul88i need control so badPosted by pinkbird03Even if he were opposed to you going on a date, he'd never outwardly express it. That's why so many women, myself included, often get frustrated with Cap men. They're almost impossible to read. They could be secretly in love with you and you won't even know it.
I'm a perfect example of this. I'm talking to a guy I met online. We've talked about meeting, but I haven't had it in me to actually go on a date because I still have feelings for a cap and I've been talking to him a lot lately as friends, which has been getting better and better lately. But we are still only friends. We dated for 4 months and a month ago became friends. I mentioned this guy once to him so he knows. I don't know if he'd care or not if I went on a date. I probably wouldn't tell him.
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Is that what it is yall feel like you would lose control of the situation if you say how they feel?
Posted by UndauntedSoul88Yep he's impossible to read. I don't have the slightest clue what he's thinking as it relates to me. ?Posted by pinkbird03Even if he were opposed to you going on a date, he'd never outwardly express it. That's why so many women, myself included, often get frustrated with Cap men. They're almost impossible to read. They could be secretly in love with you and you won't even know it.
I'm a perfect example of this. I'm talking to a guy I met online. We've talked about meeting, but I haven't had it in me to actually go on a date because I still have feelings for a cap and I've been talking to him a lot lately as friends, which has been getting better and better lately. But we are still only friends. We dated for 4 months and a month ago became friends. I mentioned this guy once to him so he knows. I don't know if he'd care or not if I went on a date. I probably wouldn't tell him.
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If you want to go on a dating site, just do it. You might find someone you like more. Someone that gives you what you need.
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If you want to go on a dating site, just do it. You might find someone you like more. Someone that gives you what you need.
Even if I wanted to at this point emotionally I can't do that. That's why I'd rather hear no then A nothing.
Posted by UndauntedSoul88Posted by pinkbird03I remember you posting about him before. Just be patient. I'm sure he appreciates you willing to slow down and still be friends after dating. If women show any sign of being unstable when that happens, that's a surefire way to lose them indefinitely. They don't do drama.Posted by UndauntedSoul88Yep he's impossible to read. I don't have the slightest clue what he's thinking as it relates to me. ?Posted by pinkbird03Even if he were opposed to you going on a date, he'd never outwardly express it. That's why so many women, myself included, often get frustrated with Cap men. They're almost impossible to read. They could be secretly in love with you and you won't even know it.
I'm a perfect example of this. I'm talking to a guy I met online. We've talked about meeting, but I haven't had it in me to actually go on a date because I still have feelings for a cap and I've been talking to him a lot lately as friends, which has been getting better and better lately. But we are still only friends. We dated for 4 months and a month ago became friends. I mentioned this guy once to him so he knows. I don't know if he'd care or not if I went on a date. I probably wouldn't tell him.
I would casually date if I were you, but don't tell him with the intent of just doing it for a response from him. He'll pick up on that so quickly and he probably won't see you the same after that. If you do talk to him about it, do it in a cool, easygoing way...like you would male platonic friend. Hope it all works out for you! :-)
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See I don't even have the choice to casually date because this dude figure it out he always looks at me when I'm in my phone and goes I'm ho see I don't even have the choice to Kaderly day because this dude figure it out he always looks at me when I'm in my phone and goes umm humm he even told me I'm watching you at one point! You can be off possessive when I'm not even doing anything but you won't even consider having the conversation . Yeah yeah I know they aren't verbal but usually when someone out right ask you a question it is polite to answer
Excuse my talk to text lol I wouldn't have a choice at the end of the day because this dude would find out
Posted by DonumDeiPosted by ParisianCappyYou said you choose someone for their loyalty! I totally get that btw...however, my question pertains to role reversal if say a woman you liked greatly kept you in a limbo for a long time...would you remin single as a token of your loyalty to her?Posted by DonumDeiWhat do you meanPosted by ParisianCappyWould You if the roles were reversed?Posted by exolol so tru, but i dont choose someone for bigass n tittie, you choose someone bcuz loyalty, so if you cant wait.. it tell a lot about loyalty
eh. seems like a lot of cap men miss their chances with women because they waited too long.
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Good question! This I gotta hear.
Posted by UndauntedSoul88I wouldn't tell him just in case it would hurt him. It's not his business anyways. But thanks a bunch! I hope everything works out for me one way or another!Posted by pinkbird03I remember you posting about him before. Just be patient. I'm sure he appreciates you willing to slow down and still be friends after dating. If women show any sign of being unstable when that happens, that's a surefire way to lose them indefinitely. They don't do drama.Posted by UndauntedSoul88Yep he's impossible to read. I don't have the slightest clue what he's thinking as it relates to me. ?Posted by pinkbird03Even if he were opposed to you going on a date, he'd never outwardly express it. That's why so many women, myself included, often get frustrated with Cap men. They're almost impossible to read. They could be secretly in love with you and you won't even know it.
I'm a perfect example of this. I'm talking to a guy I met online. We've talked about meeting, but I haven't had it in me to actually go on a date because I still have feelings for a cap and I've been talking to him a lot lately as friends, which has been getting better and better lately. But we are still only friends. We dated for 4 months and a month ago became friends. I mentioned this guy once to him so he knows. I don't know if he'd care or not if I went on a date. I probably wouldn't tell him.
I would casually date if I were you, but don't tell him with the intent of just doing it for a response from him. He'll pick up on that so quickly and he probably won't see you the same after that. If you do talk to him about it, do it in a cool, easygoing way...like you would male platonic friend. Hope it all works out for you! :-)
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Posted by ladylibra21How would he find out?
Excuse my talk to text lol I wouldn't have a choice at the end of the day because this dude would find out
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ladylibra21How would he find out?
Excuse my talk to text lol I wouldn't have a choice at the end of the day because this dude would find outclick to expand
Because CT is tiny he is always trying to be covert by looking at my phone or computer. So maybe that's what it is maybe he doesn't trust me But he doesn't really have a reason not to.
Posted by KoniuchaaBecause she likes him a lot, but is unsure how he feels. It's a common problem with cap men.
Who cares what he would think?
Why do you say limbo?
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by KoniuchaaBecause she likes him a lot, but is unsure how he feels. It's a common problem with cap men.
Who cares what he would think?
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It's not sure that he gives hella mixed signals. I don't know maybe it is a personal issue because I have dealt with so much bullshit in the past but in my head I start feeling like maybe this is all just a game for him And he likes the attention or maybe I am practice for someone he actually likes. May sound silly to you but I have experience these things before. And it's not like if he told me that he liked me that I would be pushing a relationship on him I would be willing to take my time but I need to know If he is thinking about it .
Posted by ladylibra21Would you ask him that more directly, such as in person, on the phone, or even text?Posted by pinkbird03Posted by KoniuchaaBecause she likes him a lot, but is unsure how he feels. It's a common problem with cap men.
Who cares what he would think?
Why do you say limbo?
It's not sure that he gives hella mixed signals. I don't know maybe it is a personal issue because I have dealt with so much bullshit in the past but in my head I start feeling like maybe this is all just a game for him And he likes the attention or maybe I am practice for someone he actually likes. May sound silly to you but I have experience these things before. And it's not like if he told me that he liked me that I would be pushing a relationship on him I would be willing to take my time but I need to know If he is thinking about it .
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Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by daron76I would stick to this advice here.
Mad? No. Would I take her interest less seriously? Yes, definitely. On the flip side, again, I wouldn't leave a woman I wanted in limbo.
Someone keeping you in limbo is just stringing you along.
I would just ask him how he feels. I know that's easier said than done, but better that than to be in this unknown limbo, which is rude and unfair.
Have you told him how you feel?
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Ask him how you felt because he casually told me he was single one day and then asked me to go to lunch with him then we had lunch and on the way back I asked him why he was single and he said people play games. He said how hard is it to say to someone I like you let's date and if you don't like each other then go your separate ways and in my head I'm thinking will you have an asked me that so maybe you don't like me but I didn't say that but we got back to the office I wrote him a note and gave it to him before he left saying I know this is cowardly of me but I'm going to ask you fourth grade style do you like me yes or no it is OK if you don't I am just tired of wondering how you feel about me that was two weeks ago he still hasn't responded to my note.
Posted by pinkbird03Posted by ladylibra21Would you ask him that more directly, such as in person, on the phone, or even text?Posted by pinkbird03Posted by KoniuchaaBecause she likes him a lot, but is unsure how he feels. It's a common problem with cap men.
Who cares what he would think?
Why do you say limbo?
It's not sure that he gives hella mixed signals. I don't know maybe it is a personal issue because I have dealt with so much bullshit in the past but in my head I start feeling like maybe this is all just a game for him And he likes the attention or maybe I am practice for someone he actually likes. May sound silly to you but I have experience these things before. And it's not like if he told me that he liked me that I would be pushing a relationship on him I would be willing to take my time but I need to know If he is thinking about it .
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I have i'm still getting mixed signals
Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21Personally, I would move on. You gave him this note and he just ignored it. And he said it himself, how hard is it to say I like you, lets date.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by daron76I would stick to this advice here.
Mad? No. Would I take her interest less seriously? Yes, definitely. On the flip side, again, I wouldn't leave a woman I wanted in limbo.
Someone keeping you in limbo is just stringing you along.
I would just ask him how he feels. I know that's easier said than done, but better that than to be in this unknown limbo, which is rude and unfair.
Have you told him how you feel?
Ask him how you felt because he casually told me he was single one day and then asked me to go to lunch with him then we had lunch and on the way back I asked him why he was single and he said people play games. He said how hard is it to say to someone I like you let's date and if you don't like each other then go your separate ways and in my head I'm thinking will you have an asked me that so maybe you don't like me but I didn't say that but we got back to the office I wrote him a note and gave it to him before he left saying I know this is cowardly of me but I'm going to ask you fourth grade style do you like me yes or no it is OK if you don't I am just tired of wondering how you feel about me that was two weeks ago he still hasn't responded to my note.
You deserve more than that, trust me. Don't waste anymore time. This behavior is not a Cap thing onlu either.
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You are right I should probably just forget about him.
Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21I'm saying this so that you move on and aren't hurt. I just blocked a guy that I had (have) strong feelings for because I became done with it. It went on way to long with mixed signals and now I am all sad and it sucks. I am mad at myself for letting it drag on and on.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21Personally, I would move on. You gave him this note and he just ignored it. And he said it himself, how hard is it to say I like you, lets date.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by daron76I would stick to this advice here.
Mad? No. Would I take her interest less seriously? Yes, definitely. On the flip side, again, I wouldn't leave a woman I wanted in limbo.
Someone keeping you in limbo is just stringing you along.
I would just ask him how he feels. I know that's easier said than done, but better that than to be in this unknown limbo, which is rude and unfair.
Have you told him how you feel?
Ask him how you felt because he casually told me he was single one day and then asked me to go to lunch with him then we had lunch and on the way back I asked him why he was single and he said people play games. He said how hard is it to say to someone I like you let's date and if you don't like each other then go your separate ways and in my head I'm thinking will you have an asked me that so maybe you don't like me but I didn't say that but we got back to the office I wrote him a note and gave it to him before he left saying I know this is cowardly of me but I'm going to ask you fourth grade style do you like me yes or no it is OK if you don't I am just tired of wondering how you feel about me that was two weeks ago he still hasn't responded to my note.
You deserve more than that, trust me. Don't waste anymore time. This behavior is not a Cap thing onlu either.
You are right I should probably just forget about him.
Unless a guy really shows me that he is interested, I'm not bothering for a moment. I'm fine being single.
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What is so hard is that we work together so even when I am trying to ignore him he always finds his way at my desk to talk. Even when he's just walking by he has to touch my desk in some loud fashion to get my attention.
Posted by CaploveWe have been flirting for a year and talking about personal things like family for about six months but he has Sag Venus like me *sigh* so it could just be the prospect of learning something new.Posted by ladylibra21He comes by your desk? He likes you. How long has it been since he started doing this? The thing is, if you work together, he's going to be even more cautious and slow so he'll keep watching you awhile to see how stable you are. If it were me, I wouldn't if it's someone I work with. Venus in Cap.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21I'm saying this so that you move on and aren't hurt. I just blocked a guy that I had (have) strong feelings for because I became done with it. It went on way to long with mixed signals and now I am all sad and it sucks. I am mad at myself for letting it drag on and on.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21Personally, I would move on. You gave him this note and he just ignored it. And he said it himself, how hard is it to say I like you, lets date.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by daron76I would stick to this advice here.
Mad? No. Would I take her interest less seriously? Yes, definitely. On the flip side, again, I wouldn't leave a woman I wanted in limbo.
Someone keeping you in limbo is just stringing you along.
I would just ask him how he feels. I know that's easier said than done, but better that than to be in this unknown limbo, which is rude and unfair.
Have you told him how you feel?
Ask him how you felt because he casually told me he was single one day and then asked me to go to lunch with him then we had lunch and on the way back I asked him why he was single and he said people play games. He said how hard is it to say to someone I like you let's date and if you don't like each other then go your separate ways and in my head I'm thinking will you have an asked me that so maybe you don't like me but I didn't say that but we got back to the office I wrote him a note and gave it to him before he left saying I know this is cowardly of me but I'm going to ask you fourth grade style do you like me yes or no it is OK if you don't I am just tired of wondering how you feel about me that was two weeks ago he still hasn't responded to my note.
You deserve more than that, trust me. Don't waste anymore time. This behavior is not a Cap thing onlu either.
You are right I should probably just forget about him.
Unless a guy really shows me that he is interested, I'm not bothering for a moment. I'm fine being single.
What is so hard is that we work together so even when I am trying to ignore him he always finds his way at my desk to talk. Even when he's just walking by he has to touch my desk in some loud fashion to get my attention.
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Posted by KoniuchaaLOL I just got off mine earlier this week I was feeling some type away and tossed a thin book at him that he asked for I really didn't mean to toss is so aggressively but it floundered in the air and he was eating runts candy and came over 10 minutes later gave me a candy heart and said here take this you threw that kind of rough. See its shit like that. You come give me a candy heart and ask me to cheer up what is that.Posted by ladylibra21I have no idea. It's not hard at all. Maybe he just enjoys the attention that you're giving him.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21I'm saying this so that you move on and aren't hurt. I just blocked a guy that I had (have) strong feelings for because I became done with it. It went on way to long with mixed signals and now I am all sad and it sucks. I am mad at myself for letting it drag on and on.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21Personally, I would move on. You gave him this note and he just ignored it. And he said it himself, how hard is it to say I like you, lets date.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by daron76I would stick to this advice here.
Mad? No. Would I take her interest less seriously? Yes, definitely. On the flip side, again, I wouldn't leave a woman I wanted in limbo.
Someone keeping you in limbo is just stringing you along.
I would just ask him how he feels. I know that's easier said than done, but better that than to be in this unknown limbo, which is rude and unfair.
Have you told him how you feel?
Ask him how you felt because he casually told me he was single one day and then asked me to go to lunch with him then we had lunch and on the way back I asked him why he was single and he said people play games. He said how hard is it to say to someone I like you let's date and if you don't like each other then go your separate ways and in my head I'm thinking will you have an asked me that so maybe you don't like me but I didn't say that but we got back to the office I wrote him a note and gave it to him before he left saying I know this is cowardly of me but I'm going to ask you fourth grade style do you like me yes or no it is OK if you don't I am just tired of wondering how you feel about me that was two weeks ago he still hasn't responded to my note.
You deserve more than that, trust me. Don't waste anymore time. This behavior is not a Cap thing onlu either.
You are right I should probably just forget about him.
Unless a guy really shows me that he is interested, I'm not bothering for a moment. I'm fine being single.
What is so hard is that we work together so even when I am trying to ignore him he always finds his way at my desk to talk. Even when he's just walking by he has to touch my desk in some loud fashion to get my attention.
If you know that somebody likes you and you don't feel the same way, The right thing to do is to tell them that you're not interested in them in that way. Not continue to make them think that you are interested in.
Sorry, i'm a little wounded and sensitive right now. And I'm going to start my period soon lol
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Posted by CaplovePosted by ladylibra21Sag Venus?!! **Runs Away** 😛 Hmmm, IDK. What about his Mars and moon? Either way, I agree w/ @daron76 about not leaving you hanging for 6 mos. It is work though, that complicates things. He might want to but maybe that's keeping him back.Posted by CaploveWe have been flirting for a year and talking about personal things like family for about six months but he has Sag Venus like me *sigh* so it could just be the prospect of learning something new.Posted by ladylibra21He comes by your desk? He likes you. How long has it been since he started doing this? The thing is, if you work together, he's going to be even more cautious and slow so he'll keep watching you awhile to see how stable you are. If it were me, I wouldn't if it's someone I work with. Venus in Cap.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21I'm saying this so that you move on and aren't hurt. I just blocked a guy that I had (have) strong feelings for because I became done with it. It went on way to long with mixed signals and now I am all sad and it sucks. I am mad at myself for letting it drag on and on.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by ladylibra21Personally, I would move on. You gave him this note and he just ignored it. And he said it himself, how hard is it to say I like you, lets date.Posted by KoniuchaaPosted by daron76I would stick to this advice here.
Mad? No. Would I take her interest less seriously? Yes, definitely. On the flip side, again, I wouldn't leave a woman I wanted in limbo.
Someone keeping you in limbo is just stringing you along.
I would just ask him how he feels. I know that's easier said than done, but better that than to be in this unknown limbo, which is rude and unfair.
Have you told him how you feel?
Ask him how you felt because he casually told me he was single one day and then asked me to go to lunch with him then we had lunch and on the way back I asked him why he was single and he said people play games. He said how hard is it to say to someone I like you let's date and if you don't like each other then go your separate ways and in my head I'm thinking will you have an asked me that so maybe you don't like me but I didn't say that but we got back to the office I wrote him a note and gave it to him before he left saying I know this is cowardly of me but I'm going to ask you fourth grade style do you like me yes or no it is OK if you don't I am just tired of wondering how you feel about me that was two weeks ago he still hasn't responded to my note.
You deserve more than that, trust me. Don't waste anymore time. This behavior is not a Cap thing onlu either.
You are right I should probably just forget about him.
Unless a guy really shows me that he is interested, I'm not bothering for a moment. I'm fine being single.
What is so hard is that we work together so even when I am trying to ignore him he always finds his way at my desk to talk. Even when he's just walking by he has to touch my desk in some loud fashion to get my attention.
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lol I'm a good Sag Venus mine is in the 4th house. His is in the 1st. His Mars is in Scorpio moon is in Taurus
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