@ptyw
9 Years
What should I do when a Capricorn Male ignores me?
How to Respond When a Capricorn Man Ignores You
When a Capricorn male ignores you, give him space and avoid overtexting. Focus on your own well-being and wait for him to reach out. Capricorn men often need time to process their feelings before reconnecting. Patience and self-care are key in understanding his actions without jumping to conclusions.
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Posted by ParisianCappy
be straight communication is the key and dont be scared or ignoring him
but he isn't responding to any of my texts/calls, it's impossible to even have a conversation with him...
caps are known to do this, they either have a lot on their plate and can't text or they simply forgot to respond
Do your own thang. Dont "wait" for a cap!
You've already texted him called him so many times
you have done your part
if he's busy, he'll come back once he's done with his work
Dont do anything more...dont bother him...let him be!!!
Uhhhhhh I really know this one.Ignore him too,don't make any contact whatsoever.
OP listen to @caplockisback 's advice...lol
Posted by newlove
OP listen to @caplockisback 's advice...lol@Newlove - Its been a while. How are you ? Hope you're fine 😄
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Yep
I am fine. What about you?
Posted by newlove
OP listen to @caplockisback 's advice...lol@Newlove - Its been a while. How are you ? Hope you're fine 😄
Yep
I am fine. What about you?
A-O-K
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That crab girl at your work...Did things progress?
Posted by newlove
OP listen to @caplockisback 's advice...lol@Newlove - Its been a while. How are you ? Hope you're fine 😄
Yep
I am fine. What about you?
A-O-K
That crab girl at your work...Did things progress?
We're just really good friends. I see her twice a week at work and we chit chat. I don't think im emotionally available right now. Too busy with goals.
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Ohh...Thats okay
Atleast you know what you want in life
Good luck 🙂
When you asked his cousin to check on
him, what did he say?
He said my Cap was doing fine and he sounded alright
Posted by sugarplumeow
caps are known to do this, they either have a lot on their plate and can't text or they simply forgot to respond
I really hope he'll get back to me soon.
Posted by Foreverloveme
Or we simply lost interest, no longer careStop reaching out. If he comes back choose what to do at that point.
Right now he's a lost cause. You reached out & he's choosing not to respond. Nothing else you can do
I'm starting to get to so frustrated... I'm afraid he would forget about me sooner or later
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Do your own thang. Dont "wait" for a cap!
I really like this guy though... To me, he's worth the wait but there isn't anything I can do right now.
Posted by newlove
You've already texted him called him so many timesyou have done your part
if he's busy, he'll come back once he's done with his work
Dont do anything more...dont bother him...let him be!!!
That's exactly what I'm doing right now. He was really serious about our relationship because he brought me to his friends parties and also introduced me to his parents. I hope he'll be back.
Posted by ptyw
I'm an Aries and I've been dating a Capricorn male for almost 3 months and we were going very well until recently. We were both really busy with homework and finals so we couldn't meet/talk for a few weeks, only sent short texts once in awhile. About 3 weeks ago, I called him several times but I couldn't reach him until about a day later, he texted me saying that he's outstation and he'll be back by the weekend. We were still in good terms even a day after he came back from outstation but he started to ignore my messages and not returning calls on the next day. I had to ask his cousin to check on him to see if he's alright because I was really worried. It has been a week and he has already seen my messages but has not return any calls yet. I'm not sure if I did something wrong and that pissed him off resulting him to avoid me or is he not ready to be in a long term relationship. I don't know what can I do right now...Could be due to this...
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trust me, I hesitate for quite awhile before I call him every time because I didn't want to annoy him :/
Posted by Udylaw
Uhhhhhh I really know this one.Ignore him too,don't make any contact whatsoever.
Hmm... have you been through the same thing as well? I'm mirroring whatever he's doing right now. It's killing me.
Posted by CAPLOCKISBACK
I bet you $ 100 if you send him this, it will work
I dare not to do that hahaha
Posted by Foreverloveme
Or we simply lost interest, no longer careStop reaching out. If he comes back choose what to do at that point.
Right now he's a lost cause. You reached out & he's choosing not to respond. Nothing else you can do
This. Pull back and give him a chance to make an effort, OP.
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Well, I know this sounds like a stupid question but what if he doesn't come back? I know as time goes by, it probably wouldn't matter anymore but I just really hope he will be back.
Posted by newlove
OP listen to @caplockisback 's advice...lol
Nope, don't have the courage to do so hahaha
Posted by sugarplumeow
caps are known to do this, they either have a lot on their plate and can't text or they simply forgot to respondI really hope he'll get back to me soon.
Nobody is that busy. It takes a minute to text someone.
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Yeah, I actually thought about everything you've said. He is ignoring me on purpose. He doesn't even wanna take a minute to text me back. There might be another girl. All of these, I've thought about it before. Of course I don't deserve this treatment but I still think he might have a reason to why he's ignoring me out of sudden.
Posted by ptyw
What should I do when a Capricorn Male ignores me?Honestly... Get used to it.
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It's my first time to experience such a thing from a Cap so I'm actually super frustrated. Well, I guess I'll get used to it if he really does come back in the future.
Posted by sugarplumeow
caps are known to do this, they either have a lot on their plate and can't text or they simply forgot to respondI really hope he'll get back to me soon.
Nobody is that busy. It takes a minute to text someone.
Yeah, I actually thought about everything you've said. He is ignoring me on purpose. He doesn't even wanna take a minute to text me back. There might be another girl. All of these, I've thought about it before. Of course I don't deserve this treatment but I still think he might have a reason to why he's ignoring me out of sudden.
The only other reason I can think of
is if he's mad at you. Caps are silent when angry.
I'm not telling you to reach out to him. Stop contacting him.
If you meant something to him he will reach out to you
and if he does
you need to tell him what an inconsiderate ass he's been
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I have to patiently wait to see if he comes back?
Let's say, I really did something wrong, what if he just kept quiet and not confront to me at all?
I wanna know why he's doing this tho...
Posted by ptyw
What should I do when a Capricorn Male ignores me?Honestly... Get used to it.
Oh hell no.
He's choosing to disrespect you.
... I meant.. He won't change... He'll keep doing it. If it bothers her now... It will drive her crazy in the long run.
That's why she needs to speak up if he contacts her again.
Op, what's your sign?
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"IF" he contacts me again... that is.
Even if he's not interested in me anymore, he could just be honest to me and tell me but all he's doing right now is ignoring me.
What's Op by the way? I'm new here.... I have no idea what's that lol
Posted by ParisianCappy
Or maybe he"s in holiday and three month together is just not enough for doing holidays togethers, and he'll just probably will comeback after you just at the end of this. dont overextend
Maybe... there isn't anything I can do anyways. I'm just here, mirroring whatever he's doing right now.
Posted by sugarplumeow
caps are known to do this, they either have a lot on their plate and can't text or they simply forgot to respondI really hope he'll get back to me soon.
Nobody is that busy. It takes a minute to text someone.
Yeah, I actually thought about everything you've said. He is ignoring me on purpose. He doesn't even wanna take a minute to text me back. There might be another girl. All of these, I've thought about it before. Of course I don't deserve this treatment but I still think he might have a reason to why he's ignoring me out of sudden.
The only other reason I can think of
is if he's mad at you. Caps are silent when angry.
I'm not telling you to reach out to him. Stop contacting him.
If you meant something to him he will reach out to you
and if he does
you need to tell him what an inconsiderate ass he's been
I have to patiently wait to see if he comes back?
Let's say, I really did something wrong, what if he just kept quiet and not confront to me at all?
I wanna know why he's doing this tho...
You would rather keep contacting him and be repeatedly ignored?
Do you think you did something to make him angry?
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Well, I don't wanna annoy him of course so I'm not gonna contact him.
I honestly can't think of anything I did that might have pissed him off.
The last text he sent to me even has a very sweet and lovely context. So I really have no idea what went wrong...
Posted by ParisianCappy
Or maybe he"s in holiday and three month together is just not enough for doing holidays togethers, and he'll just probably will comeback after you just at the end of this. dont overextendMaybe... there isn't anything I can do anyways. I'm just here, mirroring whatever he's doing right now.
Are you a Cancer?
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I'm an Aries.
What's the rest of your chart
and his
what do you mean?
What's the rest of your chart
and his
what do you mean?
http://www.astro.com/cgi/ade.cgi?ract=genchart.cgi&lang=e
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This is so detailed...
I don't know much about the charts. I don't understand some of the terms used either....
What's the rest of your chart
and his
what do you mean?
http://www.astro.com/cgi/ade.cgi?ract=genchart.cgi&lang=e
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He was very serious about our relationship because he brought me to his friends' parties and also brought me home to see his parents. He basically told everyone he knows about me.
I read somewhere that if a Cap introduces their partner to the people in his life, it means that they are sure about the relationship. Is it true?
What's the rest of your chart
and his
what do you mean?
He was very serious about our relationship because he brought me to his friends' parties and also brought me home to see his parents. He basically told everyone he knows about me.
I read somewhere that if a Cap introduces their partner to the people in his life, it means that they are sure about the relationship. Is it true?
chill
he'll come back dont listen to other girls they're jealous
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Well, hmm.. okay.
Posted by Foreverloveme
People hardly meet my parents. Just because a person meets them doesn't necessarily make it serious.
I guess I feel exclusive because he has never brought any of his girlfriends home before and I'm the first. His mom doesn't approve his previous girlfriends, she would just refer them as his friends but she accepts me and she would refer me as her son's girlfriend, which is also a first. Well, I guess sometimes exclusivity doesn't mean anything either :/
I really need to chill lol
What's the rest of your chart
and his
what do you mean?
This is so detailed...
I don't know much about the charts. I don't understand some of the terms used either....
If you're interested you will learn 🙂
You can google info and read some of the threads on here.
When you enter your info
it can be any made up name.
If you don't know the time of birth
simply select noon.
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Thanks! I'll give it a try!
Posted by sugarplumeow
caps are known to do this, they either have a lot on their plate and can't text or they simply forgot to respond
Can you REALLY forget to respond for a whole week to your 3 month girlfriend?
Yes! If you don't consider her a girlfriend anymore but too coward to say it. Because one day you might need a quick lay and she is right there!
Right?
Posted by Foreverloveme
People hardly meet my parents. Just because a person meets them doesn't necessarily make it serious.I guess I feel exclusive because he has never brought any of his girlfriends home before and I'm the first. His mom doesn't approve his previous girlfriends, she would just refer them as his friends but she accepts me and she would refer me as her son's girlfriend, which is also a first. Well, I guess sometimes exclusivity doesn't mean anything either :/
I really need to chill lol
Ok so if you can tell us all these things why are you worrying?
I was just giving you my experience. Doesn't mean it applies to your situation. That's why I said it can go either way.
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I'm worried because I have no idea what's going on. He just disappeared like that.
I didn't mean to offend you, I'm sorry if I did but I agree that you could be right about the exclusivity thingy. It probably means nothing.
Posted by sugarplumeow
caps are known to do this, they either have a lot on their plate and can't text or they simply forgot to respondCan you REALLY forget to respond for a whole week to your 3 month girlfriend?
Yes! If you don't consider her a girlfriend anymore but too coward to say it. Because one day you might need a quick lay and she is right there!
Right?
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My friend said the exact same thing, hahaha!
Yeah Im a capricorn and we do this. Its our thing sad to say. Do not wait for him..live your life.
Yes because I have so many capricorns around me.Trust me I know
Go to his place and beat him up 😛
On a serious note, IDK, maybe he's stuck somewhere doing something busy?
Wait and see.. time tells everything.. : )
As girls, we can definitely tell how much a guy likes us. We just know. And so do you...
Posted by Foreverloveme
How old are you guys ptyw?
We're both 21 years old.
Thank you for sharing so many of your experiences with me. 🙂
Posted by RumiL
On a serious note, IDK, maybe he's stuck somewhere doing something busy?Wait and see.. time tells everything.. : )
Thank you for your advice 🙂
I'll try not to go crazy while waiting hahaha
Posted by pinkbird03
As girls, we can definitely tell how much a guy likes us. We just know. And so do you...
Hmm... you're right. Guess I'll just wait and see?
Thank you by the way 🙂
Posted by RumiL
On a serious note, IDK, maybe he's stuck somewhere doing something busy?Wait and see.. time tells everything.. : )
Thank you for your advice 🙂
I'll try not to go crazy while waiting hahaha
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you're welcome! (:
sorry you are in that situation tho : (
Did he contact you?
Posted by Foreverloveme
How old are you guys ptyw?We're both 21 years old.
Thank you for sharing so many of your experiences with me. 🙂
You're welcome. Still young, he could be trying to figure himself out.
If & when you talk to him, politely communicate your expectations as it relates to communication with him.
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Okay, I sure hope he'll figure it out soon. Thank you for the advice!
Posted by RumiL
On a serious note, IDK, maybe he's stuck somewhere doing something busy?Wait and see.. time tells everything.. : )
Thank you for your advice 🙂
I'll try not to go crazy while waiting hahaha
you're welcome! (:
sorry you are in that situation tho : (
Did he contact you?
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Hmm... not yet. It's starting to get really difficult for me 😢
Posted by SagiScorp
What the. Don't use his cousin, or any other intermediary for communication again.If a guy is flat out ignoring you, you think getting his attention through someone else is gonna help you at all? If anything, it's gonna make him avoid you even more, and think you're a lil psycho.
And as the first reply said, ignore him. Forget he exists. He's treating you like you don't exist right now.
Well.... I wasn't trying to get his attention through his cousin actually, I just wanted to know if he's alright. I hesitated whether I should or should not contact his cousin for quite some time, but I decided to give it a try in the end. How is it possible to ignore the person you like and just pretend that nothing happened? It's not possible for me to do that at all.
Posted by sagiluv
Noone should ignore you! It's plain rude. Delete his # move on,...
Hmm :/
Being a Cap man, I know a 21 yr old cap can be precocious. he thinks he knows what he wants and will analyse every detail about it to be sure. to be fair, we pull away if we have something on our mind, but no doubt if he is interested he will be all about you. The one thing we are is intense with our attention and our passion when we have a goal or a person in our sights. I hate to be the bearer of bad news, but if it has been a long time, he is giving you the cold shoulder hoping you wont bother him anymore. Us Caps have a light switch, and once its off it is hard to turn back on. I very seriously doubt it was you. It was most likely something else that made him think about what he wants, and something in that made him pull away. Don't chase him, honestly if you want him, pull away. I guarantee he will see you more attractive when he has to chase you down a bit. At that age, we are full of piss and vinegar and think we can control the world with our will. Its a younger Caps fault that we take time to realize we are masters, but there is a bigger game to be had, thats why older caps are better, we matured enough to realize that the game we play is more about our ego than anything. Don't let his actions control or dominate your behavior. Its how you were when you met that made him attracted to you, get back to that. You will be happier and he may see you as the prize you are and return fill steam. If he doesnt, then he missed out and you are better off being yourself again. either way, that is a win win.
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I'm an Aries and I've been dating a Capricorn male for almost 3 months and we were going very well until recently. We were both really busy with homework and finals so we couldn't meet/talk for a few weeks, only sent short texts once in awhile. About 3 weeks ago, I called him several times but I couldn't reach him until about a day later, he texted me saying that he's outstation and he'll be back by the weekend. We were still in good terms even a day after he came back from outstation but he started to ignore my messages and not returning calls on the next day. I had to ask his cousin to check on him to see if he's alright because I was really worried. It has been a week and he has already seen my messages but has not return any calls yet. I'm not sure if I did something wrong and that pissed him off resulting him to avoid me or is he not ready to be in a long term relationship. I don't know what can I do right now...