Rationalizing Capricorn guy's bizarre actions- sos

I'm extremely annoyed about the situation I'm in with this certain capricorn. For some reason he keeps on looking over at me, and I found him to be everywhere I was. I've noticed that he's extremely attentive and he's constantly checking where I go. recently I was out for a while due to a sickness and when my friend exclaimed "I've missed you!" he spontaneously said "me too" in this calm and collected manner looking at me straight in the eye (kind of intimidating). Then later that day he watches me as I walk by and doesn't greet me, then the next day I was walking with one other person and he said hi to them but not me. Recently he started coming to my gym and I was startled at first and didn't say anything but he kept on looking over so when I spontaneously said hi to him he blushed a lot. I don't even know what to make of his actions. it's so bizarre.

A little background story: I used to have a thing with this capricorn guy last year. He is going into the marines in the matter of months. He used to pursue me and after we became intimate, he suggested that we be fwb, and I didn't like the idea so I pushed him away. Afterwards I ended up telling him how I like him, but he never did anything about it so I distanced my self. After he and I were no longer consistently talking, I noticed that he would watch me and observe me from afar and he's been doing that since last year. When I saw him when school resumed after summer vacation it felt like we were the only two people in the world. We just stared at each other for a few moments, and I recall seeing him everywhere and watching me especially when I interacted with males in the first few weeks. It's amazing how strong his stare was that I could feel it.
Also back then when we were talking (last year) he would always wait for me to say hi, he would never be the one to say hi first. From what I collected, he would act extremely shy around me and act extremely confident around his buddies, which is also bizarre.

I feel like the fact that he's leaving with in months for the marines might be a factor, but I do think he liked me once.
I'm just trying to rationalize his bizarre actions. Why does he keep on staring at me, yet not do anything about it at the same time. Sometimes he just ignores my existence especially after I don't say hi to him when I see him outside.
I know I'm kind of over thinking. It's just irritating because I'm trying to move on and let go but it's hard to ignore your feelings for so

...for someone when they're still feeding you attention and hanging around.
I just don't understand.
He's the one that didn't want to be in a relationship, yet he's the one that began pursuing me in the first place and continued to do so for 6 more months.
He's the one that didn't want a relationship, but he's the one that's watching my every move after I stop interacting with him instead of finding some easy girl. This is not how someone who's only in it for the physicality acts. Something is up with him, and I don't know for sure what it is. Please give me your opinion so I can move on or do something about it.

Why is he acting like this?

Sounds as though he may be sussing you out seeing what you are really like, why i would not know.

Its like hes sizing you up, are you really you or someone else? Etcetc

He may be testing you and seeing if you are what he wants or maybe he just like playing with you and using the ol' scare tactics to get you to back off from him. Have you tried not going where he is? Or avoiding him and getting on with things?

He's doing this because he knows it gets to you. He's hoping you'll reconsider your fwb stance.

Why does he keep on staring at me, yet not do anything about it at the same time. Sometimes he just ignores my existence especially after I don't say hi to him when I see him outside.

He may not feel its right within himself to do anything about it thats why hes stares at you and is unsure of how to approach you thats why he ignores you.

Maybe you have that affect on him where he is unable to say anything coz you make him all weak at the knees and sort of cant think to say anything and anything he does say hed think would sound stupid like when people first talk to other people they are usually self conscious at the start.

Maybe he thinking what to do and isnt thinking to talk at all, doesnt wantto talk coz of having a bad day

Maybe theres something that about you that makes him stare always what this is I would not know

People have hard time to say and be outgoing and this is causing you to think he is ignoring you, how can he be ignoring when he stares at you always

keep us updated this is enthralling

just ignore him... or wear a shirt that says "stop staring at me" and hopefully he'll get the hint.

I cannot believe how you don't seem to know(or maybe don't want to acknowledge) that this dude likes you. The difference between your Capricorn and the one who wants me is that besides their gender, when I first saw my Capricorn, she winked and smiled at me. She also talks with me. She makes an effort. Otherwise, the staring is typical of these people when they are intrigued by somebody. Maybe yours thinks that if he tries to court you, you'll just think he wants to get in your pants since that's what he said he wanted. Maybe Capricorn women have bigger balls than the men? I don't know, but there's another Capricorn at work who is a guy and apparently, he wants to date me but is too afraid to ask(he probably knows I'll reject him). Sadly, it doesn't stop him from staring at me.

The answer is simple. He does want you, but the timing is wrong. He is also looking for a reason to disqualify you to easen his remorse... If he does not find a reason to disqualify you, he will look for you upon his return...

He's leaving for the marines soon and knows there is no point in starting anything. He doesn't want any ties because its not practical.

Plot Twist: He's had a girl friend for the recent several months


yeah.... I was just told this and I'm extremely surprised cause he's sure as hell not acting like it.