Ray's Heart was right ... (Page 2)

Posted by ~devil's_the_name~
Sounds like he wants you to shower more attention on him. Or he's taking his pissyness with his own situation in life on you.

It has to be that because really I don't see why a lock on her door should bother him.

He's almost more Capricorn than you CS

Posted by cappygolightly

Posted by ~devil's_the_name~
Sounds like he wants you to shower more attention on him. Or he's taking his pissyness with his own situation in life on you.

I think it's the latter here. He is too familiar with you and sees you as an extension of him. Therefore you are supposed to read his mind. He needs to review his boundary issues.

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You think so? Actually, this is pretty funny, he's the one who told me that he and I were both on the cusp and that it seemed I was the female version of him. The only difference is that I am sweeter than he is ... thats what he said lol

"Cap is a strange place for the moon to be. "

It's a really, really bad place. I don't know who let that happened

Posted by cappygolightly
well his chart is surely full of oppositions so maybe he's just a bit screwed up because of that. Cap is a strange place for the moon to be.

Does he leave the toilet seat up? Men who do this drive me bonkers.

YEAH! and my large ass almost flopped right down in there lol

Posted by Rays Heart
He's almost more Capricorn than you CS

lol, OMG, OMG, OMG I know!

Look at me:

Sun: Saggie-Cappie
Moon: Aqua
Mercury: Saggie
Mars: Aqua-Pisces
Venus: Aqua


lol!!!!

Posted by sagigoat
you are sooo different from him give me break. you have aqua/pisces venus and mars. geez i think cap moon + virgo mars can be a real meanie. so stange how these placements work i think virgo moon is a really nice placement how come virgo mars cap moon is mean.

oh no, only Aqua-Piscse Mars. I'm full Aqua Venus 😄

Posted by Rays Heart
"Cap is a strange place for the moon to be. "

It's a really, really bad place. I don't know who let that happened

HAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!! OH man, I really almost laughed out loud lol. Someone must have really got to you with that moon placement. But you know, usually, I get along with cap moons :O!!! However, I don't think I've every really dealt with a cap mooner with a cap (near to cap lol) sun sign.

"its a control thing. He wants to lay down the law and be an alpha male. POssibly also worried that if he doesn't make it clear he doesnt like change, the house will be invaded by girly things that dont suit his taste. Im wondering if this guy is a neat freak."

Yes it could be. If CS follow this order, I wonder what will be next? He'll probably go for making her one of the girls.

Posted by sagigoat
k at least not cap venus lol i have cap venus 😢

You dooooooooo .... its okay lol!!!! You have an Aqua moon so that helps curb that venus of yours 😛 j/k


I don't know, I think if I don't tell him how I feel soon. It will get worse.


HAHAHAHAHA, last night I had nature music playing and he heard a bird. He came out of his roomie having a hissy fit lol. He thought I had a pet bird LOL!!!

He was like, "What the hell is this, do you have a bird—" ... "Get it out of here, it doesn't pay rent!"

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Posted by Rays Heart
"Cap is a strange place for the moon to be. "

It's a really, really bad place. I don't know who let that happened

why do you say that?

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I find people with that placement extremely negative and really negative at hear too. It's just my personal experience though nothing astro

negative at heart too

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Posted by ~devil's_the_name~
Sounds like he wants you to shower more attention on him. Or he's taking his pissyness with his own situation in life on you.

It has to be that because really I don't see why a lock on her door should bother him.

its a control thing. He wants to lay down the law and be an alpha male. POssibly also worried that if he doesn't make it clear he doesnt like change, the house will be invaded by girly things that dont suit his taste. Im wondering if this guy is a neat freak.

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OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I was trying to make the bathroom look presentable by adding color -- you know, like curtains and things like that. There was a few things I couldn't put up because he said they were too girly :/ :/ :/

I was pissed because it was sooooo pretty and it went well with the shower curtain I put up. He said no to the drapes ...

Ok let me rephrase that. He's way more cappy then you CS 🙂

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Posted by cappysweetie

You think so? Actually, this is pretty funny, he's the one who told me that he and I were both on the cusp and that it seemed I was the female version of him. The only difference is that I am sweeter than he is ... thats what he said lol

I think it indicates a great deal of how he feels about and treats himself.

But really it's no good being angry at him. Because that is just playing into his hands because he probably wants to see you upset. The best way to deal with this type of person is to be very calm and not show them they are affecting you. The pull the carpet from under his feet method. Almost taking a counselling him approach might help. So if he complains ask him "how did that make you feel?" etc. Let him get his frustrations out and then wait for him to calm down before you explain to him that you respect his feelings and views but that you would appreciate if he could appreciate yours e.g. the noise from his fucking, the nitpickyness etc.

It may be a peace offering to ask him if he could suggest a replacement lock that suits him. Ask for his advice on how to fit it, maybe he can fit it for you etc.

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A councelling approach? Hmmmm

Posted by Rays Heart
negative at heart too

DUDE! He can be so negative on others. I was tellinig him about a virgo buddy of mine and he was sooooo negative on him. But HE CAN'T TALK ABOUT ANYONE! He's so darn underhanded and low! lol

Good night SG! Sweet dreams!

Posted by sagigoat
last post i swear haha

you guys with libra in the chart are for sure more diplometic than me 😛. my sagi rising is straight forward and then my pisces mars would kick in i'd just get him out of my sight and mind at all cost lol

anywayz night night 🙂

YOU'RE LEAVING TOO! hahaha, pretty soon Cappygolightly and Ray will be gone too. And I'll have to close up at work in like 5 minutes so I can't really be too mad at anyone lol

Posted by Rays Heart
Ok let me rephrase that. He's way more cappy then you CS 🙂

lol, Yeah but thats wierd because I get along usually with my own astro people lol. There was only one in my lifetime that gave me trouble lol. Well, now there two lol

" Im thinking about you negotiating with him rather than fighting him. "

In this situation that will be the best way to go, since she just moved in. Otherwise it's going to be a really long ride.

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Posted by cappysweetie

A councelling approach? Hmmmm

Im thinking about you negotiating with him rather than fighting him. He is probably someone who will roll over like a little toy dog if you take an approach he is not expecting.

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Hmmmmm, okay .... okay ... OKAY 🙂 🙂 🙂 That might work. First I must calm myself lol. I was so ready to rip at him LOL!!! You have no idea!

"lol, Yeah but thats wierd because I get along usually with my own astro people lol. There was only one in my lifetime that gave me trouble lol. Well, now there two lol"

It's all in the moon. I'm telling you. It's moon.

Posted by Rays Heart
" Im thinking about you negotiating with him rather than fighting him. "

In this situation that will be the best way to go, since she just moved in. Otherwise it's going to be a really long ride.

Yeah ... I don't know. It seems we were better off before I moved in. Like before I moved in, he would always ask me, "When are you coming? When are you coming? You should at least bring some of your things now" See, he moved in a month before me because I had to wait for my lease to expire.

Now that I've moved in ... I feel like .... I don't know

Posted by Rays Heart
"lol, Yeah but thats wierd because I get along usually with my own astro people lol. There was only one in my lifetime that gave me trouble lol. Well, now there two lol"

It's all in the moon. I'm telling you. It's moon.

HAHAHAHA!!! Damn it. Why could he have a pisces moon or something.

Its soooooo funny because my Virgo buddy, who has a pisces moon advised that I not move in with him. He said I should have moved back with my mother until I became balanced again lol!!!!

Darn it, I guess I have to buzz out for now too. It seems everyone else is gone and its time for me to go too and close.


Night everyone 🙂

Not everyone is good as roommate. I'm personally not a roommate type guy. I don't really like to share a place with people. I'm more of a loner in that sense. I get along very well with Pisces mooners. Mostly I think it has to do with his personality and his view. Try having a talk with him and see how it goes.

Night CS!

😛 @ Archer ... yeah I should probably stop before I have cap mooners start a petition to have me banned. lol

Posted by Archer
.. aah, I finished reading it all..

and I have to agree with almsot all the posts.. hahah.. nothing new to add..


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except this guy sounds VERY familiar,, creeps creeps

sweetness works... Feminity works as a rule with controlling guys..
a bit of helplessness is a charm..

haha
but you cant do it with someone you live with .. nah nah



I personally would not touch the lock I placed + pick up the stuff in living room and stuff (say under my bed) to be sorted out on weekend... not comment on his sexual habits,, pretend a deaf ear..
and keep 'dead quiet' .. unless he brings the subject up..
......... a big believer of 'silence says it all'... but only if you are truly nonchalant, if not, talk it out.


I think he may have been living alone with all space to himself,,, and with his life style ,, anyone coming in is a ''botheration'', even his bestfriend would be an irritant for him .. he is irritated,, thats all.. and yes,, He is a lot more Cappy than you... lol

all the best.
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Hey Archer 😄


He just has this trust issue thing going on. He wants the original door knob back on ... and unfortunately he's being a prick until I put it back on. He says it doesn't match and anything that doesn't match bothers him apparently ...

I swear, I didn't know he was sooooo freaking anal about stuff like this.

Oh, and I would put the remaining stuff in my room but ... I have the smallest room in the place lol. He even said that he should have given me a smaller room because my of all the stuff I have.

See, before I moved in with him, I lived alone and before that, I lived with my Scorpio roomie. So, I've gathered alot of stuff. I'm still sorting somethings out because there are somethings I need throw away.

I almost have the livingroom taken care of, but its difficult because of my work schedule and school, to get things done when HE wants things done. I'm not good at dealing with 'dictators' ... I can be really defiant when I feel "ordered".

Posted by Crazy4cappy
OMG Sweety I just read it all. How very horrible for you.

About the door handle thing, just say look when I move out, I'll put the orginal door knob back on (if you can).

His very controlling and fussy. I don't know how you will be able to stand it. 😢 Not to mention the brothel his got going on. 😢

What's funny I was thinking oh thank god I was off about Mr.Cappy's dob because I thought he had a cap moon at first and then Sweety you say this guy has Mars Virgo/Venus Cap the same as Mr. Cappy. 😢

As for cap men and fan clubs. I can understand it now. I think they are pretty good at creating sexual tension and making women want them without doing much. After speaking to him yesterday I'm finally awake to him. lol

Thats right, cap men are good at creating sexual tension ... well, the ones that are asses are good at that. The ones who are good wouldn't dream of doing anything like that 🙂

As for my roomie ... I purposely didn't talk to him last not, nor did I talk to him this morning. I just wasn't in the mood because I'm so shocked at how much of an ass he can be and I knew that if I would have said something to him this morning, it would have came out totally bad lol.

This morning, he was moaning and groaning over whatever was going on with him and who ever was on the phone ...

UGH! I'm sorry but I can't stand a man that fusses more than me. If you fuss more than me, then that just whining and that gets on my nerves. I don't like it when people get on my nerves -- I mean bitch-bitch-bitch-moan-moan-moan UUUGGHHHHH!!!!

We need to talk soon, yes we do, because if we don't ...

And the whole lock issue is just stupid, now that I've thought about it. I told him that I would put it back when my lease is up and he says, "Thats not the point, you're missing the point. If I don't have a lock on my door, why should you have one on yours?" and all that stuff. I didn't really know how to answer that really, which seemed to unnerve him a bit, but damn it all, its just a lock!!! I don't see what the big deal is, I really don't.

Posted by Rays Heart
Not everyone is good as roommate. I'm personally not a roommate type guy. I don't really like to share a place with people. I'm more of a loner in that sense. I get along very well with Pisces mooners. Mostly I think it has to do with his personality and his view. Try having a talk with him and see how it goes.

OMG Ray ... if only you knew how much it bothered me to lose my own apartment. My goodness, that hurt ... it was like I lost my independance or something. Actually ... thats another thing! He kept on and on about me moving in and stuff like that. Now I'm there and he acts like a totally prick! My goodness, my Aqua moon is starting to burn here, I may want to escape soon. I know the outcome won't be nice but whatever.

Posted by cappygolightly
I would have seen him as someone to respect if he had accepted your point of replacing it when you move out, but why does he care so much? does he want to snoop in your room and sniff your panties or something?!!! 😕

AHHHH!! I hope not!!!! He better not. I am NOT one of those whores he drags in. No way!

Its so funny because the girls he sleeps with are like the business type -- you know what I mean? Its like, the fact that they wear suits and stuff is suppose to change the fact that they are booty-calls LOL!!! He thinks this way and so do they apparantly. The fact that they dress contemp. makes them, "better" when in all reality they are not any better than the women who are street-walkers.

OMG, I wouldn't touch him. I'd be afraid of what he give me ...

YOU KNOW CGL!

It was Wednesday, Wednesday morning when I was getting ready for work. I was in the bathroom and he openned the door than shut it really quick when he saw I was getting out of my robe ...

Actually, I think that was an accident but you made a good point.

I don't know, thinking about this gives me a headache

Also, I remember I conversation we were having after he helped put my bed frame together -- hahaha, thats the one nice thing he's done, he helped put my bed up LOL!

Anyway, he was asking me about my ex boyfriend -- the Virgo-Libra guy -- and I told him that we still haven't spoken since the breakup and he was like "Wow ... so who are you seeing now? Whose the lucky guy." I told him that I just want to concentrate on school right now and not worry about dating because I want my degree. He comment was, "Oh shit, now she wants to focus on her edcation. She thinks she doesn't need anyone." Then he roled his eyes and drank the rest of his beer.

Posted by cappygolightly
so why the hell does he care about the lock? is he hoping to walk in by accident? its weird the lock thing. He needs to explain why it bothers him so. I would put him on the spot about why it matters. Sounds like some hang up. Again I stress you are being very reasonable saying you will make it good when you leave. He sounds very anally retentive. My least favourite type of cappy male. Ok I have not met a fave type but I am sure they exist. Im sure mr tate for example is an exception to the rule lol.

Well ... yeah he is anal lol. Theres no good way to say. These decorators are suppose to come by this weekend to make the place look the way HE wants it to look. Thats another reason why he wants my stuff cleared out of the livingroom but they are coming to do ALL the rooms, including my room ... for pete's sake, I'm not ready yet!

" why does he care so much? does he want to snoop in your room and sniff your panties or something?!!! "

lmao

Posted by cappygolightly
um....hmmm....ahem.....I don't know what to say sweetie but you can read back what you just typed and you will see a pattern here?

? okay ... my brain is a bit distant right now so if I don't see a pattern today, I'm sure I will lol

Posted by cappygolightly
*aside*....now surely it's more civilised to start a long run at 10am and not 5am....do these people not realise I am an insomniac!!!

What long run?

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*aside*....now surely it's more civilised to start a long run at 10am and not 5am....do these people not realise I am an insomniac!!!

What long run?

lol it's a little hobby I have when not on dxp 🙂

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You go running? Cool 😄 😄 😄! I worked out on the treadmill this morning before I went back to the apt to clean lol

"Now I'm there and he acts like a totally prick! My goodness, my Aqua moon is starting to burn here, I may want to escape soon. I know the outcome won't be nice but whatever."

That's horrible, it's already too much for me reading it. Imagine going through it. I really don't have to kind of patience for negative people.

Posted by cappygolightly
ok well that sounds sad - just running and dxp haha - it's not the only thing I do outside dxp, but it's something I get excited about 🙂

What! It doesn't sound sad, I knew what you meant lol

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so why the hell does he care about the lock? is he hoping to walk in by accident? its weird the lock thing. He needs to explain why it bothers him so. I would put him on the spot about why it matters. Sounds like some hang up. Again I stress you are being very reasonable saying you will make it good when you leave. He sounds very anally retentive. My least favourite type of cappy male. Ok I have not met a fave type but I am sure they exist. Im sure mr tate for example is an exception to the rule lol.

Well ... yeah he is anal lol. Theres no good way to say. These decorators are suppose to come by this weekend to make the place look the way HE wants it to look. Thats another reason why he wants my stuff cleared out of the livingroom but they are coming to do ALL the rooms, including my room ... for pete's sake, I'm not ready yet!

so you are paying half the lease and he makes all the decisions? Is this why he needed a room mate? because he scared all the others away—?

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Thats what I say! But when I tell him this, he says "No, its 50-50". If it were 50-50, than why are those interior decorators coming right now?

Damn, I wish I was a scorpio right now lol

"Ray I am right though? why else is he being such an arse?!"

Yes, he has to be driven by the aura of her arse? 😛

Posted by Rays Heart
"Now I'm there and he acts like a totally prick! My goodness, my Aqua moon is starting to burn here, I may want to escape soon. I know the outcome won't be nice but whatever."

That's horrible, it's already too much for me reading it. Imagine going through it. I really don't have to kind of patience for negative people.

lol, well darn it, I don't have the patience either. I'm fycking pissed! Excuse my language dear 😉 If I knew it would be like this, I would have NEVER agreed to him adding me to the lease ...

No Ray, you don't want to go through it. Imagine being uncomfortable in a place thats suppose to be your home.

Posted by cappygolightly
or...Ive had a thought....🙂 he wants to try on your panties!!! hahaha

HAHAHAHAHAHA!!! As freaky as he is, I wouldn't put it pass him. lol, the fact that he's a Saggie-Cappie is annoying in a way because I know the potential of my cusp -- the good and the bad that is lol.

"Imagine being uncomfortable in a place thats suppose to be your home."

I don't want to imagine that. My home is everything to me. I need peace in it.

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You go running? Cool 😄 😄 😄! I worked out on the treadmill this morning before I went back to the apt to clean lol

we were having a debate about treadmill vs outdoors today at work (I work with all these running freaks and Im turning into one lol). Anyway I was saying outdoors is more fun because you don't get so bored. The runs I do are organised with lots of people taking part. It's a great buzz.

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Thats true, outdoors is alot more fun 😄 I like it better than the treadmill any day but I got up too late and I needed something quick lol

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um....hmmm....ahem.....I don't know what to say sweetie but you can read back what you just typed and you will see a pattern here?

? okay ... my brain is a bit distant right now so if I don't see a pattern today, I'm sure I will lol

I meant the guy seems to have the hots for you!!!!

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oh ..... well then thats bad LOL!

Posted by Rays Heart
"Ray I am right though? why else is he being such an arse?!"

Yes, he has to be driven by the aura of her arse? 😛

LOL! Hey! I haven't nothing to do with him being such an ass ... yeah, my ass has nothing to do with him being an ass lol