Ray's Heart was right ... (Page 3)

"listen sweetie you don't need to be a scorp to tell him his logic is flawed. Why not tell him that if he makes 80 % of the decisions you will pay 20% of the rent. You will then be very obliging about the lock and he can pay you 30% of the rent in return for sniffing your panties or wearing them superhero style on top of his tights. I mean if he pays most of the rent why would you care lol! Tell him that if he expects you to pay half then you are entitled to a say in what he does. Else he should pay more..... *stomps cappy hoofs*"


He seems like the type to settle for that actually "Scary"

"LOL! Hey! I haven't nothing to do with him being such an ass ... yeah, my ass has nothing to do with him being an ass lol"

He's driven by the unknown and the lock is a huge interference lol

Posted by Rays Heart
"Imagine being uncomfortable in a place thats suppose to be your home."

I don't want to imagine that. My home is everything to me. I need peace in it.

I know man, I know. Thats why I'm so pissed right now lol

Can you imagine if CS come back tomorrow and say that he settled for that arrangement. lol

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Posted by cappysweetie

Thats what I say! But when I tell him this, he says "No, its 50-50". If it were 50-50, than why are those interior decorators coming right now?

Damn, I wish I was a scorpio right now lol

listen sweetie you don't need to be a scorp to tell him his logic is flawed. Why not tell him that if he makes 80 % of the decisions you will pay 20% of the rent. You will then be very obliging about the lock and he can pay you 30% of the rent in return for sniffing your panties or wearing them superhero style on top of his tights. I mean if he pays most of the rent why would you care lol! Tell him that if he expects you to pay half then you are entitled to a say in what he does. Else he should pay more..... *stomps cappy hoofs*

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LMFAO!!!!! Look, its hard to stomp your foot at a cap with a cap moon okay lol

" what is a "traditional thai massage"—! "

I don't know. You should probably try it, come back and let us know.

Posted by Rays Heart
"listen sweetie you don't need to be a scorp to tell him his logic is flawed. Why not tell him that if he makes 80 % of the decisions you will pay 20% of the rent. You will then be very obliging about the lock and he can pay you 30% of the rent in return for sniffing your panties or wearing them superhero style on top of his tights. I mean if he pays most of the rent why would you care lol! Tell him that if he expects you to pay half then you are entitled to a say in what he does. Else he should pay more..... *stomps cappy hoofs*"


He seems like the type to settle for that actually "Scary"

*falls out of chair*

Posted by Rays Heart
" what is a "traditional thai massage"—! "

I don't know. You should probably try it, come back and let us know.

Are we talking about thai food 😛

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LMFAO!!!!! Look, its hard to stomp your foot at a cap with a cap moon okay lol

Youre scared of him?

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Well no but ... he's not the easy guy to stomp your food to haha. He's a tough cookie ... which is shocking to me because he's always been a warm sweetheart ... before I moved in ...

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Posted by Rays Heart
" what is a "traditional thai massage"—! "

I don't know. You should probably try it, come back and let us know.

Are we talking about thai food 😛

lol not this is a massage before dinner...Maybe it helps digestion

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LOL @ Ray and myself in our replies. I was confused but now I think I know what you mean lol

Posted by cappygolightly
Youre underrating the power of your own personality. You shut him up by not replying to him. You are not powerless in this.

Maybe I am. I don't know ... I just see how he treats other women you know, and I'm like, "Whoa, I'm lucky not to be the idoit that likes this guy." Seriously, he's totally different than the way he was before.

I almost feel like I'm in a marriage that I didn't sign up for hahaha, because the guy changed on me after the honeymoon lol!!!

Posted by cappygolightly
you are a tough cookie too. Goat girls are not doormats.

No ... we aren't. But its a rarity that we come up against a fellow capricorn who is just about as witty as you are.

oh bullshit lol. I should just make up my mind whether or not I'm doing to battle with this guy or make arrangements to move out without him knowing about it.

doing = going

" lol not this is a massage before dinner...Maybe it helps digestion "

haha ... all around the abdomen

CS ... you should move out. Wait til he brings his next conquest to his bedroom one night. As soon as she starts screaming, take your stuff and leave.

Posted by Rays Heart
CS ... you should move out. Wait til he brings his next conquest to his bedroom one night. As soon as she starts screaming, take your stuff and leave.

lol, actually thats why I'm trying to throw out things that I don't need. I don't want to but it will save me the hassle of dragging all that stuff with me. I'm thinking August will be the month I make a break for it. Only because of money reasons.

Posted by cappygolightly
what are your legal options in terms of moving?

Do you mean the lease?

" or start screaming in unison so she buggers off lol "

That will make him believe that is doing a much better job than he truly does.

Posted by Rays Heart
" or start screaming in unison so she buggers off lol "

That will make him believe that is doing a much better job than he truly does.

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!! Oh dear god, that was funny 😆!!!

"lol, actually thats why I'm trying to throw out things that I don't need. I don't want to but it will save me the hassle of dragging all that stuff with me. I'm thinking August will be the month I make a break for it. Only because of money reasons. "

It's sad but it's going to be a very long ride dealing with all of these nonsense.

Posted by Rays Heart
"lol, actually thats why I'm trying to throw out things that I don't need. I don't want to but it will save me the hassle of dragging all that stuff with me. I'm thinking August will be the month I make a break for it. Only because of money reasons. "

It's sad but it's going to be a very long ride dealing with all of these nonsense.

Well ... at least your telling me the truth haha. Its going to be crazy I know because he will be mad and I will be mad and all that other stuff you know lol. My goodness, I just want to go to bed and not wake up for like a week lol.

Also, I'm still tired from moving over the weekend. I'm moving the things that can't fit in there in my mom's basement ... including my dishes that "don't match" his dishes and my toaster oven thats, "not black so it doesn't go with the counter". UGH!

OK, I can't read 14 pages of that, sorry😢 But I hope things work out for you Sweetie🙂 And hey to fellow cappies and ofcourse Ray😉

BTW: People, I need insight on Nov 23 (I know it's a scorp/sag cuspian) with moon in cancer. Oh heck, here are his main planets:

Sun: Nov 23, so scorp/sag cuspian?
Moon: Cancer
Mercury: Sag
Venus: Libra
Mars: Libra

I want to know more about hte cuspian aspect!🙂

Scorpio-Sagittarius Cusp:

Individuals born on the cusp of Scorpio (the eighth Sign of the Zodiac) and Sagittarius (the ninth Sign of the Zodiac) are ruled by both Pluto...with a secondary influence afforded by Mars...and Jupiter. Here, the bold and aggressive traits associated with Scorpio, courtesy of Mars, blend with the active and versatile nature of Sagittarius, complete with that Sign's highly magnetic qualities afforded by Jupiter. Thus, these cuspians can accomplish the most difficult things and meet virtually any emergency. The zeal of Sagittarius offsets any Scorpio procrastination, resulting in a far-reaching strength of purpose and accomplishment. These natives are frank and open-minded, perhaps a little too much so, but they usually manage to curb their egos to the simple point of self-satisfaction over true accomplishment. The Scorpio/Sagittarius cuspian is of the type that can succeed at whatever he or she might undertake. No obstacles seem to stop these individuals, save the overconfidence in their own ability. If they should lapse into the Scorpio tendency to delay, then they will compensate with the fervor of Sagittarius, frequently expending too much effort in their project. In essence, the fiery nature of Sagittarius can burn itself out when it has the watery Scorpio in attendance to act as a damper. Accordingly, fire and water should be properly separated in order to produce steam with steady and powerful results.

The Scorpio/Sagittarius cusp combination, also known as the Cusp of Revolution, corresponds symbolically to the period of human life at around the age of fifty-six, a time when inescapable changes must take place...retirement may be looming on the horizon, marriages and other relationships may be forsaken and physical limitations may have to be confronted. However, this cusp comes with a greater empathy for fellow human beings and an interest in international or even universal concerns. At this stage, many individuals can experience resentment and/or rebelliousness at not having done what they truly wanted to do in life. Indeed, many perceive this period as a last chance. The revolutionary nature of this cusp can underline the need for total reorganization if crucial changes have not yet been made. The revolt that engages most Scorpio/Sagittarius cuspians is often the battle against sloppiness, bad taste, ineffectiveness, stupidity and old-fashioned or outmoded attitudes. Although these natives are capable of exploding ancient myths, they are equally capable of reviving and preserving myths that they view to be useful. Thus, those governed by this cusp may, at heart, also be secret traditionalists.

Characterized by a disdain for middle-of-the-road politics and middle-class ethics, most Scorpio/Sagittarius cuspians would rather be either very rich or very poor...either an aristocrat or a working-class hero/heroine. Indeed, any one of these would be infinitely preferable to anything that might fall inbetween. This yearning for extremes leads many natives of this cusp to indulge in excesses, often in more than one area of their lives. Such individuals are usually well aware from an early age that they are different from other people. An unusual combination of opposities, those born on the Scorpio/Sagittarius cusp blend the sensitivity of Scorpio with the freedom-loving character of Sagittarius. Thus, within their own families, these subjects may occupy something of a lonely position in relation to parents or siblings. In fact, their assessment of their peculiar abilities and strong drive to succeed often dates from childhood years. Making future plans and dreaming up elegant new schemes (in addition to guiding a decent percentage of them to fruition) are all characteristic of the Scorpito/Sagittarius imagination and determination. Those ruled by this cusp are both goal-oriented and result-oriented, frequently displaying the same degree of stubborness when

The laughter of these cuspians is a direct barometer of their mental health. If there is no merriment within the first few minutes of conversation, then it can generally be assumed that something is awry. Those who fall under the jurisdiction of this cusp can use cutting sarcasm and derision, not only to make a laughingstock of their enemies, but to give even their dearest friends a good poke in the ribs every now and again. In this respect, they tend to operate with something of a double standard since they do not take kindly to being derided themselves, perceiving such teasing as an attempt to humiliate. Thus, an individual will never be given a second opportunity to be condescending to natives of this cusp. Moral questions are important to these cuspians. They strive to be honest but sometimes fail. They believe in being truthful but frequently cannot measure up to their own standards. Finding it difficult to be totally open and honest with those closest to them, Scorpio/Sagittarius individuals may tell only a part of the truth, which results in personal embarrassment and regret if they are found out later. Still, these subjects are blessed with undeniable charm and their well-meaning, faithful and loyal attitudes will usually lead those who love them to be forgiving.

Natives of this cusp tend to be concerned with the deeper and more focused aspect of learning. They are versatile and progressive, but can oftentimes be impatient and pushy...particularly if something is not getting accomplished in the manner they want. Anyone who would wish to change the mind of this cuspian will undoubtedly meet with trouble because it is never certain exactly what the motiviation might be. In short, those governed by the Scorpio/Sagittarius cusp are far too complex and usually far too secretive to be easily understood. Interested in thought and outreach, these are normally intensely powerful, good-humoured and generous souls. Prone to respond to the world courtesy of emotion and action instead of thoughtful practicality, they would rather experience life than read about it. They can appear irresponsible or tactless on occasion but are basically motivated and loyal individuals. Still, these cuspians are often misunderstood, frequently perceived as being dictatorial and/or sarcastic. Broad-minded and enthusiastic, there is a tendency here to speak before thinking. A cusp combination of great depth, its natives, many of whom are blessed with a daring an adventurous nature, enjoy travel and spiritual study. These individuals aspire to rise above the ordinary world into something quite extraordinary, but their suspicion and jealousy can serve to pull them down. Still, they do possess passion and awareness that could prove to be saving graces in that regard. With an inherent love of a good time, the Scorpio/Sagittarius subject is usually outgoing and friendly. Indeed, many are natural comedians, often exaggerating their adventures to entertain others. Here, the innate self-confidence may cause these natives to be argumentative and/or blunt, but their sole intention is always to learn and not to offend. High-spirited, enthusiastic and frequently flirtatious, Scorpio/Sagittarius cuspians tend to enjoy a social life. They are also fond of competition. Seldom satisfied with moving at half-speed or softening their abilities to allow those with lesser skills to beat them, personal challenges are always appreciated. They are apt to prefer solitary or one-on-one sports that will stretch them to the limit...skydiving or big game fishing, for example. They are also likely to be rather lucky souls and probably enjoy gambling, while the philosophical aspect of their character denotes a fondness for drama and debate.

The great strength of Scorpio/Sagittarius cuspians is to be found in their determination to see things through to the end. They refuse to allow boredom to turn them away from projects and are committed to accomplishing what they set out to do. The philosophical and exploratory nature of these natives makes it important to live life to the fullest while experiencing everything they can. Indeed, their great love of knowledge and exploration makes them one of the most learned characters of the Zodiac.

The most important lesson to be learned by Scorpio/Sagittarius natives is to be aware of the fact that their passionate nature can easily lead them into self-indulgance and/or compulsion. As with all cusp individuals, these cuspians tend to be attracted to others born on the cusp...particularly those who fall within the Pisces/Aries and Cancer/Leo combinations.



-- Possess the emotionally deep traits inherent in Scorpio --
-- Possess the intiuitve and freedom-loving traits inherent in Sagittarius --
-- Tend to rebel against authority --
-- Prone to do best in self-employed situations --
-- Apt to be be somewhat wild during youth --
-- Need to follow the personal vision of life but not lose touch with other people --
-- Need to try and be more forgiving and less possessive --

Notable Scorpio/Sagittarius Cuspians Include:
Martin Luther; Indira Ghandi; Robert F. Kennedy; Goldie Hawn; and William Bonney a/k/a Billy the Kid

oh and my dad was a Scorpio-Saggie cuspy lol

hahaha, he's very funny for sure, cracks me up all the time! He's quite sarcastic, which is ok with me since I'm like that too🙂 I think his cancer moon adds quite a bit of water element to his sag side. I'm loving the mix of scorp and sag b/c I have some sag in me and ofcourse caps are attracted to scorps to a certain degree....loving this, loving this🙂

Thanks so much Sweetie, you rock as usual🙂

wow, now i got tto read more, lol, brb

that was very informative, thanks sweetie....

btw: what is this song----> "somebody call 911", it's horrible!!! and they play it over and over on the radio!

911? Is it a recent song or an older song?

idk, i think it's by soulja boy, but i could be wrong....WEIRD SONG

technically not, it says we are 12s apart, LOL

oh God, they are playing 50Cent now, maybe I should just go watch a movie, lol

Oh my ... that's a lot of info for Sarasa. You should be fine because of your sag influence. Scorp/Sag are passionate but less possessive. They often very busy in relationships.

Hey SG another simultaneous posts. Lucky you!

Oh, I hope so Ray! I get a good vibe from him. And he's a little private b/c of his cancer moon I think....but it's not like he's withholding info and such....that's so scorpioish, lol. In a way, I think I'm glad that he's not a full on scorp b/c my sag influence would HATE that, lol....idk, having some sag influence, esp the MOON, makes me so contradicting, it's super hard to try and figure myself out at times....even my venus is messed up-cusp of scorp and sag, urghhh, why can't I just be one sign venus....sometimes I feel I want to let go and other times I so don't want to....it's confusing for me, imagine how it'd be for the significant other, messed up, lol.

I don't know if it's good to dissect yourself like that Sarasa. You're pretty much a Cap with good Sag influence. If you feel good about him than it's good, go with the flow. I know a Virgo who had a relationship with a Scorp/Sag guy and the major problem she had with him is that. She felt like she was always second to everything. He was really busy and his passions and friends would go first. Yours has a cancer moon and I think that is more soothing to your nature.

Damn it, DXP is being wierd tonight lol. It keeps crashing.

Sarasa, here's more. This is concerning the moon sign 😄 I will post both since he is on the cusp.

Sun sign: Scorpio, Moon sign: Cancer

Wonderfully emotional, deeply sensitive, certainly intensely jealous , you are a water person through and through. Though you give out the appearance of being strong, dark and silent you feel half the time as if you are on a raft on the high seas being driven hither and thither by the winds. For you the hidden undercurrents are deeper than almost anyone else on earth. You act on compulsion, at times quite blindly and certainly never forget a hurt. Your vindictive streak gets you into trouble and does not always make friends but you cannot help yourself. Often you hear slights when none were intended so you create more emotional tension than is necessary. Being deeply impressionable you soak in the atmosphere from those around so always have to be choosy about who you keep in your close circle. You need both an intimate soulmate and a family which sometimes creates dilemmas. Scorpios adore one-to-one exclusive relationships which are so intertwined there is no room for anyone else. But you absolutely must have a tribe of your own around as well both from childhood and in your adult life. Jealousy is a great stumbling block for you and there is no middle way in romance. You love them or you loathe them. Lovers never become friends later. They are erased. An earth water person might suit you since they would provide you with an anchor or even a water air type to give you a sense of perspective on your actions. You are often so swamped by your feelings that you cannot see yourself clearly.
Tatum O'Neal, known in childhood as an actress as Miss Tantrum, is one of your type.

Sun sign: Sagittarius, Moon sign: Cancer

Fire and water are a mix that handled properly can produce a boiling kettle but allow it to go wrong and you find the flame goes out. You are impulsive, excitable and emotional with wild mood swings and a marked inability to restrain your whims. Your lack of self control lands you quite literally at times in hot water . You veer between fantasising and feeling. You want freedom ,then you want security. You are an enigma even to yourself, you cannot ever make up your mind what you really want. Your Sagittarian Sun needs to be able to roam to the ends of the earth without being fenced in. It is basically not a domesticated animal at all. But your Cancer Moon desperately wants a happy home base, a tribe of children and close relationships to wrap yourself round. Somehow you need to satisfy both parts of yourself. It makes more sense to find a good family set up and then give yourself the elbow room to fly free when you want. The other way round really will not work. So give your Cancer Moon what is wants and needs but reserve the right at all times to be without strings. So you probably need a lover or a mate who is willing to provide that anchor at home and will not fuss too much when you disappear off across the perimeter fence for days at a time. Too much physical sex is not your style but you do need closeness at times.

Posted by sagigoat
"Thats not the point, you're missing the point. If I don't have a lock on my door, why should you have one on yours?"

aha, i'd tell him right away "because with such (your) logic, i don't have daily different sex partnes come and go making noises using our shared bathroom, why should you have them?"

lol i'm so not kidding. that's why i NEVER have roomates like JD unless i'm the landlord i give you 30 days move-out notice if i don't like you lol.

OMG, you have no idea ... thats how I feel too ...

He's out tonight, I didn't see him last night either but thats because I came home really late on purpose so I wouldn't have to talk to him.

I'm talking I will just take the advice given to me and write him a note lol

Posted by sagigoat
i acutally agree with your virgo sun pisces moon friend that you may consider moving to your mom's sweetie even if that means you have to curb a little for your step dad, if this option saves you money and future headaches until you finish school.

there is a wisdom in the saying "money is power". i don't think it's a pure materialistic saying. when you have money, you have the power to live the way you want have your peace be your boss of your own env and keep those who disturb your peacefulness out of your space.

hahaha, its funny you say that. I went to my drop off a few things at my mom's today because theres no room at the apartment. My step-dad snapped at me -- it was over something really lame and stupid and after such a difficult week, I was totally not in the mood. My mom wanted me to stay and eat but I said no thank you.

So like 3 minutes, I left. I cried alittle while driving but I had sunglasses on so no one could see. Between him and my roomie, I view them as my enemies at the moment because they help bring down my spirits and I don't like that.

I rather see what it is I can do on my own. I will have to get rid of somethings but whatever, theres nothing wrong with being a nomad for a while lol, its better than nothing, thats for sure.

Oh Sweetie, you are such a sweetie🙂

"You veer between fantasising and feeling. You want freedom ,then you want security. You are an enigma even to yourself, you cannot ever make up your mind what you really want."

That's how I feel about myself (Sun in Cap, Moon in Sag).

@Ray: I'm not dissecting myself, hahaha. I'm just a confused soul when it comes to relationships😕

OK, I'll let you guys know how this dude goes, hahaha. He's a cutie and cracks me up all the time =) Moon in Sag people LOVE to laugh😄

OMG, I just discovered that that 911 song is by Sean Kingston:O That is so not my taste, lol.

Posted by sagigoat
sweetie, i apologize i should have been more senstive more understanding about your situation. you know i do remember some major things you went through over the years since i have been on dxp a while now too and tbh i bit my tongue several times coz i wanted to make you feel like those were just part of life so you don't self pity or feel like they were such big deals as they were already (yes of course they were tough). let me just not bite my tongue anymore, sweetie -- there is a Chinese saying that says something like this "Before the universe makes someone special/big, her mind, body and spirit will be put through difficult tests". i really think it applies to you well sweetie. you have been through a lot at a young age and i admire how you always manage to keep your spirit up and still be such a sweet, open-minded and positive individual. i think you are gonna be someone special someone who will do great things someone who can inspire and impact many. so, please, keep up with the good work and don't let those idiots 😛 (forgive them coz they know not what they do 😉) bring you down even one bit.

and btw sweetie, i recall your step-dad is an aqua right? my dad is an aqua and i can tell you although he can be the most understanding and sweet dad he can snap at ppl for the most ridiculous little things and if he puts you in the wrong category he can almost be a bully when he is in such a mood. the way to deal with that is to snap back at him. YES, snap back at him. be louder than him stare him down tell him direct without mercy how rude, unfair, abrasive and moody he is. Aquas are fair so he would likely go quiet to think about what an arse he was. He may not apologize but he will think twice how to treat you next time. my dad respected the ones who dared to snap back at him much more than pushovers i tell you of course the small list including me lol 😉.

Thank you Sagigoat 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 I try to keep in good spirts because no one else will keep my spirits high but me so ... you know what I mean. Its like, I know I have to rely on *insert real name* to keep myself going. My mom can be supportive, especially recently, but being an caring Pisces woman with an Libra moon, she needs me to stay strong because she'll fall apart before I would. However, my mom can recover a hell of alot better than me -- I kid you not, she will bounce back in

a heartbeat -- its that Libra moon of hers lol.

oh and Sagi!!! 😄!!! Never ever bite your tongue with me. Always tell me whats going on in that head of yours. Even if I don't like it lol. I don't take too many things personal, unless I sense someone is really trying to get under my skin, thats when I unleash hahahaha.

Actually, I just remembered that you were around for all that craziness I posted about my step-dad -- long ago that is, not just recently.

So snap back at him — Well, I have in the past but my mom would get upset or if I do it when she's not around he will tell her what I've said to him. He can be such a child lol

Posted by sarasa
OMG, I just discovered that that 911 song is by Sean Kingston:O That is so not my taste, lol.

Who is that?