@SamCancerGirl
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Retrograde time
^ yup i haven't heard from my cap. He came to visit me but since then has been ghost and its been two weeks, missed my birthday and everything. Such an ass
Posted by MoonshineLeo
^ yup i haven't heard from my cap. He came to visit me but since then has been ghost and its been two weeks, missed my birthday and everything. Such an ass
Happy Belated birthday!! Did anything happen for him to ghost? Don't worry he'll be back
Gob_shite - hope your feeling in a better mood
Capi is back didn't take too long
Yes. Sometimes I am not able to pronounce the words clearly while talking, have to repeat and make more effort. Also bluntness while messaging. No politeness in words.
Posted by SamCancerGirl
How are all the Caps doing? Is the retrograde affecting you or you SO?Mines gone AWOL this week 😢
The cap I liked started to become distant on me. A complete 360 from the week before when he admitted he liked me for the first time. So now it's been a week without talking... I'm on vacation so I'm good, but not sure if I'll hear from him for awhile.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
^ yup i haven't heard from my cap. He came to visit me but since then has been ghost and its been two weeks, missed my birthday and everything. Such an ass
How is he your cap if he ghosted you for two weeks and missed your bday.
Sounds like you are leaving the door open for him? Why isn't he an ex at this point?
Posted by MoonshineLeo
^ yup i haven't heard from my cap. He came to visit me but since then has been ghost and its been two weeks, missed my birthday and everything. Such an assHow is he your cap if he ghosted you for two weeks and missed your bday.
Sounds like you are leaving the door open for him? Why isn't he an ex at this point?
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I'm so happy you said that. I actually talked to him last night and told him how I felt and how I don't think it's working out and he flipped out on me. i don't understand how he thinks I'll stick around with that treatment and the way he acted last night just wow. Wooow.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
^ yup i haven't heard from my cap. He came to visit me but since then has been ghost and its been two weeks, missed my birthday and everything. Such an assHow is he your cap if he ghosted you for two weeks and missed your bday.
Sounds like you are leaving the door open for him? Why isn't he an ex at this point?
I'm so happy you said that. I actually talked to him last night and told him how I felt and how I don't think it's working out and he flipped out on me. i don't understand how he thinks I'll stick around with that treatment and the way he acted last night just wow. Wooow.
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PPeople will only walk all over you if you let it happen, especially caps since they like power and control. You're a strong lioness you don't need this mess. it's disrespectful.
The fact that he couldn't take responsibility let's you know where he stands.
And a man who is truly interested wouldn't dare ghost for 2 weeks, not just a man any person whose interested wouldn't do that.
I'm more irritable. Felt more like a mini Saturn return to me than Mercury retrograde, especially when my Saturn is in my 4th house and my family life is exactly at a slightly lower state now.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
^ yup i haven't heard from my cap. He came to visit me but since then has been ghost and its been two weeks, missed my birthday and everything. Such an assHow is he your cap if he ghosted you for two weeks and missed your bday.
Sounds like you are leaving the door open for him? Why isn't he an ex at this point?
I'm so happy you said that. I actually talked to him last night and told him how I felt and how I don't think it's working out and he flipped out on me. i don't understand how he thinks I'll stick around with that treatment and the way he acted last night just wow. Wooow.
PPeople will only walk all over you if you let it happen, especially caps since they like power and control. You're a strong lioness you don't need this mess. it's disrespectful.
The fact that he couldn't take responsibility let's you know where he stands.
And a man who is truly interested wouldn't dare ghost for 2 weeks, not just a man any person whose interested wouldn't do that.
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Yea I know. I see right through his BS. I know he didn't tell me happy bday on purpose because he knows I expect that. It's the immature games that turned me off completely and I just feel like he's not the one for me. I KNOW he's not. Someone for me would never treat me like that.
The conversation ended with him being an asshole obviously but I stayed nice and wished him a goodnight. It's his defense mechanism to be an asshole at times like this or he's truly an asshole. Either way not my problem anymore.
Our families are very close and I've known him since my fist day of birth so I tried to remain respectful and honest and keep my cool. I know I'll see him around and I don't want things to be weird but he's done-zo.
Posted by MoonshineLeo
^ yup i haven't heard from my cap. He came to visit me but since then has been ghost and its been two weeks, missed my birthday and everything. Such an assHow is he your cap if he ghosted you for two weeks and missed your bday.
Sounds like you are leaving the door open for him? Why isn't he an ex at this point?
I'm so happy you said that. I actually talked to him last night and told him how I felt and how I don't think it's working out and he flipped out on me. i don't understand how he thinks I'll stick around with that treatment and the way he acted last night just wow. Wooow.
I hope you are strong and get away from him. That behavior is unacceptable from a boyfriend
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Im not even sad about it. I wouldn't waste a tear on him.
Wow Moonshine - better off without him. His loss
whats supposed to happen? my mother in law is hanging out with us and other family members
and she's happy happy.
but she hasnt been because she has seen alot of loss (family an friends) there was another funeral this week.
she lost one of her best friends last year too.
i think it's more loss through death.
edit - but it's also effecting us as well. people we know passing away.
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How are all the Caps doing? Is the retrograde affecting you or you SO?
Mines gone AWOL this week 😢