Scorpio woman and capricorn man

I broke up with my capricorn man a few days ago. Our relationship of two months was an intense one and when we started dating, he was the sweetest caring person I've ever met. He chased me hard and after 3 weeks of dating, I gave in and became his girlfriend. Things then started to go astray. He texted me less and less until he ended up not initiating texts or calls at all. He says its because he's too busy but I don't believe it because I see him constantly online on Facebook and even when we're together, he's still on it. He's not talking to other girls coz he shows me the messages but still, i know he still has time to text. He'd go for days not initiating contact and this made me feel ignored and unloved. Even when we start a serious conversation, he'd leave me hanging and ignore the messages. One time, I told him I'm gonna stop making an effort and he just gave me a thumbs up. However, when we're together, he's amazing and affectionate. I've brought up this communication issue several times and he just dismissed my feelings and kept ignoring it. Background: He was undergoing a separation (still talked to wife coz of kids) and his dad just got diagnosed with cancer. I wanted to be there for him and understand what he's going through but he kept pushing me away until i no longer can't stand it. I did everything for him and Ive done my best to make him happy. I made sure I was attentive to his needs and I gave him a lot of affection. He told me he was scared to lose me but on our last fight, he told me he doesn't know if he loves me. That brought me over the edge and thats why i decided to end it. If that was the truth or not, I can't be stuck in a loveless relationship. On our last conversation, he was shouting and cursing at me for asking him to be more communicative to me. He was like "I'm fucking busy and you can't get it over your fucking head that I don't have fucking time for you" He even said "I have wasted 30 fucking minutes talking to you". I am aware that capricorns can be busy but we were talking about the strength of our relationship. I thought that was more important than painting the deck in his house. Mind you, I have been thinking of ending it for a few weeks now and with that conversation, i just knew it had to end. I know i made the right decision though I feel like I left him at the worse time since his dad just got diagnosed with cancer. Should I reach out and tell him I still care of just leave it? What are they like when someone breaks up with them?

Posted by kitten_
Move on, Scorpio women are not good for Capricorn man.

Actually, the Earth-Water pairing is a good one. I think in a way, both understand each other's depths and world weariness. But, Cap and Scorpio are arguably---if not certainly---the two darkest and heaviest signs in the zodiac. Think both probably need more "lighter" earth/water signs in Taurus/Virgo for Scorp, Pisces/Cancer for Cap.

I do think OP should move on though. One thing about Caps, we're tough, even as the world seems to be crashing down around us. I think he'll be fine in the long run and you gotta do what's best for you.

Lulz wut?

JFC some of you scorpio woman are lunatics.

Dude has MAJOR stressors in his life, and you're not being attentive to HIS needs. Bitching about who initiates texts while he not only has to worry about the impact his divorce will have on his kids, but also a parent with a serious disease?

Get your head outta your ass, and stop patting yourself on the back for what you think you're doing an amazing job at. Cause you aren't. Everything in your post screams of your own delusional self importance in his life. Two months and you think you should have priority over everything. Lulz

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Posted by kitten_
Move on, Scorpio women are not good for Capricorn man.

Actually, the Earth-Water pairing is a good one. I think in a way, both understand each other's depths and world weariness. But, Cap and Scorpio are arguably---if not certainly---the two darkest and heaviest signs in the zodiac. Think both probably need more lighter earth water signs in Taurus/Virgo for Scorp, Pisces/Cancer for Cap.



I do think OP should move on though. One thing about Caps, we're tough, even as the world seems to be crashing down around us. I think he'll be fine in the long run and you gotta do what's best for you. click to expand

I agree, Pisces - Capricorn is da bomb! But Scorpio is a fixed sign, and Capricorn man doesn't do well with Fixed sign women. click to expand

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Never really thought about that a ton but I guess with Caps as the initiators and cardinals, we may do better with mutable signs (had solid success with Virgo women, some Gem women, think Sag is a horrible match and never had much Xp with Pisces but think it would work) that we can help mold and lead. Or, we need to be matched in leadership with a Cancer, or Aries or Libra despite Cardinals rarely getting along in a relationship outside of a polar opposite scenario.

Fixed-wise, I've had some romantic encounters with Taurus women but most don't go beyond flings. Scorp is interesting, little XP with Leo and I've been intrigued with Aquas but think that could be a little tough too.

Posted by ScorpioTruth
You’ve been together for 3 whole months and you’re upset that he said he doesn’t know if he loved you? I had to stop reading there.



Would you rather he lie to you and tell you that he loves you 3 superficial months into a relationship? Lol

I guess I believed him when he said those three words to me 2 months after getting together.

I'm a cap woman married to a cap man., seems that's all I attract and know them well. I also have my Venus in Scorpio so I can totally relate. You still want that relationship and in an intense way because...that's the way you like it. All or nothing. Now, he doesn't seem available and you want it more. First of all Capricorn/Scorpio combo is very hot, sex is probably great. He's under huge stress and freaking out about his dad. Capricorn is men can blow a gasket big time when upset and verbally go at you with the most vicious arsenal they have, but later never mean a word they said. You have to know that and let that go, been there, done that. If your sensitive and dwell on the fight or promote it, that won't go over well. If you let the fight go and are still ok with him, he'll feel more secure like he can make a mistake sometimes and still be forgiven. I have mine begging for forgiveness when that happens lol. You should see him in person, one time, be straightforward, say I'm sorry, I know your stressed and I'm here for you and then give all the space he wants. Don't nag or be clingy. When you check in, make it more supportive than needy. If he loves you, he'll be all over you in a possessive/jealous way, but right now he's in survival mode. Plus, he's getting separated which is hard for Capricorns to let go of stability/commitments. Separated does not mean available and he's going through hell. Be independent and look for that intense relationship in someone who's ready, because it's going to be a long time before he's ready to go there with anyone. (At least a year before he's ready, maybe more for falling in love/trusting again). It may be you if you move real slow and steady. Meanwhile, look around.