Tell me the secrets

About you that have men (such as Taurus) hooked! Let me into all you know.... 😉

Umm, well I havent witnessed a Taurus or any other sign hooked on a Cappy female, or atleast not hooked how I'd like lol, but that could just be compatibility.

I personally think bonds are deeper with compatible signs, whether the relationship works or not.

Im sure you have the same or similar affect on Leo, and Aries!

Paging Shaks to the Cap forum!

I know not of these secrets you talk about! 😉

Seriously, though, are you asking about Taurus men or just men in general?

I've never dated a Taurus.

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Posted by truecap
Paging Shaks to the Cap forum!

LOL

He's never around when he's needed!

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+1 I agree Taurus when home still was somewhere else physically there spiritually not there into TV or something else

Posted by lnana04
Umm, well I havent witnessed a Taurus or any other sign hooked on a Cappy female, or atleast not hooked how I'd like lol, but that could just be compatibility.

I personally think bonds are deeper with compatible signs, whether the relationship works or not.

Im sure you have the same or similar affect on Leo, and Aries!

Leo-most def! My fwb is a Leo. 😉 As for Aries-I have never dated an Aries so I don't know. I am sure it would be just as fun as the Leo though!

Posted by truecap
I know not of these secrets you talk about! 😉

Seriously, though, are you asking about Taurus men or just men in general?

I am asking about Taurus men. I had an expierence with my ex Taur and his ex (you all saw the posts I am sure!) And in doing my soul relection (I do this now after a relationship ends) I have read that they get along swell. So that is the reason of my ? 🙂

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Posted by Metoo
Nooooo, not the Taurus Nikki please!
:-)

+1

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Thank you for the caring appreciation. Just an outreach is all. I don't know anything about Cap fems, so I ask...

One would really need to know his chart to give an accurate OPINION. If he has Mars in a fire sign or a fire moon the relationship has a better chance of success. Generally speaking, Earth and Fire don't mix.

We think they are dull and boring.
They think we are going to die broke and alone.

"Grabs that dusty crystal ball from his closet"

Tell me my dear..what would you like to know? 😄

Posted by truecap
Paging Shaks to the Cap forum!

I sensed a disturbance in the force..I instantly knew my cappy ladies needed me lol

Shaks at your serviceeeee

Posted by Nala13
One would really need to know his chart to give an accurate OPINION. If he has Mars in a fire sign or a fire moon the relationship has a better chance of success. Generally speaking, Earth and Fire don't mix.

We think they are dull and boring.
They think we are going to die broke and alone.

Die broke and alone? NEVER! Wha ha ha (evil laugh)

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
"Grabs that dusty crystal ball from his closet"

Tell me my dear..what would you like to know? 😄

Why do Taur men keep Cap fems around? Why not let them go? And Cap fems? Do they show emotion, anger, love, etc. 🙂 Thanks!

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Posted by truecap
Paging Shaks to the Cap forum!

I sensed a disturbance in the force..I instantly knew my cappy ladies needed me lol

Shaks at your serviceeeee

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I don't want to cause a disturbance...but you actually said a lot right there Shaks. My analogy just from that statement (and please tell me if I am right or wrong) is a Cap fem holds onto her man (a Taur let's say) even after he has told her the realtionship has ended. That any new female, regarless of sign, she feels threatened and has to claim him again?

Nikki, the Taurus guy you're seeing has a Cap ex?

Posted by lnana04
Nikki, the Taurus guy you're seeing has a Cap ex?

The Taurus guy I was seeing has/had a Cap ex, yes. It is his son's mother.

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Posted by lnana04
Nikki, the Taurus guy you're seeing has a Cap ex?

The Taurus guy I was seeing has/had a Cap ex, yes. It is his son's mother.

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Im a Cap who had an experience with a Taurus, and I felt he tried to make me jealous with a Sag.

Im not one interfere, so I didnt. All I can say is make sure his feelings from the Cap are gone. If they are not, he can possibly be trying to strike a nerve in her. She can be guilty too, but ultimately if his feelings are done there's nothing she can do to prevent him from moving forward. Its not so much about her, but what he's still open to.

New here, but I can tell you that from my perspective, I think our aloofness has something to do with the attraction at the beginning. That, and our (my) unwillingness to chase him. I've been seeing a T for about 5 months, and things have gotten really confusing between us, and he's not willing to communicate with me about it (big surprise). Fundamentally, though, I think we operate almost identically. Similar interests, same need to be connected to nature, we find many of the same things funny, and discovered that some weekly routines/quirks that we have to have ourselves mentally "prepared" are identical. It's weird really. But alas...he won't discuss things with me, and he's "confused" about how he feels. Fine. He can have all the time in the world to figure himself out. I like plenty of space, so walking away isn't really that hard for me...and my dignity is more important.

Maybe someone can shed some light.....

Me:
Sun in Capricorn
Mars in Taurus
Venus in Aquarius
Moon in Cancer

Him:
Sun in Taurus
Mars in Aquarius
Venus in Taurus
Moon in Cancer

Welcome peacefulcap!

Long story short...dated one for a while. Got along great! Really liked him. Then he disappeared. he came back a month later and said he got back with ex/gf and didnt know how to tell me. But that he broke it off with her cause he no longer felt same about her. he wanted to see me again because he really liked me. I think he got scared how much he liked me but anyways...it was too late. I'm with a Virgo now. Besides, i felt for him to just walk away and think he could just come back was wrong! I would see him out a month before i left town and he would stare at me, looked so sad, and would text me how much he missed me, etc and did that for months. I didn't hurt him, he hurt himself. I can be friends with him and have no hard feelings..cause I'm a pisces venus and we dont have a clue how to hate anyone.

Personality wise..he was aloof, could be emotionally distant,a liar when it suited him, and I suspect had committment issues. But somehow, as with most men who have demons, I am able to make them see things about themselves, move them in ways that they never forget me. shrugs..

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Posted by lnana04
Nikki, the Taurus guy you're seeing has a Cap ex?

The Taurus guy I was seeing has/had a Cap ex, yes. It is his son's mother.

Im a Cap who had an experience with a Taurus, and I felt he tried to make me jealous with a Sag.

Im not one interfere, so I didnt. All I can say is make sure his feelings from the Cap are gone. If they are not, he can possibly be trying to strike a nerve in her. She can be guilty too, but ultimately if his feelings are done there's nothing she can do to prevent him from moving forward. Its not so much about her, but what he's still open to.

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My sentiments exactly! It is why when we broke up the first time, he called her for comfort. He spent every weekend with her, even slept with her while we were broken up, but came back to me. I didn't know they slept together at the time, but boy I heard her when she screamed it, after barging a "reconnection" dinner the Taur and I were having. She even confessed to still loving him. The same shit I told him from the beginning!! He leads her on and in turn she leads him on.
My ass they were/are just friends. That is why I let it go. I blew up after finding out (he did lie to me about them sleeping together) and I let it be. My last words to him was he had to deal with her and his baggage, not me. That in order to have a relationship/love someone he needs to work on completing his karmic circle with her.
I know he has feelings for her that run deeper than what he let's on on the surface and if he doesn't then he is an ass for his behavior! To her and to me.
Thanks for your thoughts lnana04-I greatly appreciate it! 🙂

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Posted by capbaby But somehow, as with most men who have demons, I am able to make them see things about themselves, move them in ways that they never forget me. shrugs..

There's your answer Nikki.

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Yup! Thanks! Demons/connection call it what you will. It is what it is. He is living his demonic life with her and I am having a fabulous time not dealing with their drama. And ya'll know how us Sags love a good drama! LOL.

It's alright Sagg2Daheart-this is exactly the reason we are on the board. To share out expirenced and to gain insight.

Capgirl75-that is very confusing indeed. My ex Taur always proclaimed his ex Cap was "just" a friend and he had to keep her close bcus of his son. In my eyes that is a load of crap, since I am by no means in anyway shape or form "friends" with my son's father, nor have I ever slept with him after we broke up.

Too much baggae and mind games he is playing. I told him he is playing both of us, but it doesn't work. He can work out his baggage and demons with her and leave me out of it. Confused? Yes. But I also know words hurt, as Taur's beleive.

I don't know if this is relevent, but here goes.... My ex husband and I were friends with this married couple (she a Leo, he a Taurus). He hit on me once when he was very drunk while I was still married. Of course, I instantly shoved him away and walked off. Then about 2-3 months after my husband had split up, he texted me and propositioned me. I told him no! Besides, his wife is a friend of mine and I would never do that to her. Fast forward a year later, he propositioned me AGAIN! And, again, he was told no - at this point I had already started seeing Aqua.

As far as I know, I have NEVER given him reason to think I would be a willing participant in his little game.

For what its worth, he cheats on his wife all the time.

Oh, and he should know, I'm not the type to go galavanting with married men! Pretty much pissed me off that he thought I would.

Ugh, some men can be sneaky like that. I wonder if his wife is at all aware of his cheating ways?

My sister started dating a Taurus, as basically a rebound from another Taurus, and I remember us all being in the kitchen one day talking. He grabbed my sis in the middle of the kitchen, hugged her(her face was turned the other way) and stared directly at me as he squeezed her. My goofy self was smiling at first because it was initially a sweet gesture, but I started crumbling at that look he gave. Thee sneakiest thing ever.

Intuition is never at peace with some of them Taurus men lol.

Posted by truecap
I don't know if this is relevent, but here goes.... My ex husband and I were friends with this married couple (she a Leo, he a Taurus). He hit on me once when he was very drunk while I was still married. Of course, I instantly shoved him away and walked off. Then about 2-3 months after my husband had split up, he texted me and propositioned me. I told him no! Besides, his wife is a friend of mine and I would never do that to her. Fast forward a year later, he propositioned me AGAIN! And, again, he was told no - at this point I had already started seeing Aqua.

As far as I know, I have NEVER given him reason to think I would be a willing participant in his little game.

For what its worth, he cheats on his wife all the time.

It is relevant....I beleive my Taur cannot rid himself of her, friend or otherwise bcus she holds too much (his son)over his head.
In fact, I am not blaming anyone but karma here.

Posted by truecap
I don't know if this is relevent, but here goes.... My ex husband and I were friends with this married couple (she a Leo, he a Taurus). He hit on me once when he was very drunk while I was still married. Of course, I instantly shoved him away and walked off. Then about 2-3 months after my husband had split up, he texted me and propositioned me. I told him no! Besides, his wife is a friend of mine and I would never do that to her. Fast forward a year later, he propositioned me AGAIN! And, again, he was told no - at this point I had already started seeing Aqua.

As far as I know, I have NEVER given him reason to think I would be a willing participant in his little game.

For what its worth, he cheats on his wife all the time.

It is relevant for sure. Always told him to cut ties with his ex Cap, limit his contact with her. But he never did.

Posted by Sangfroid
I have no experiences with fellow Earthlings. They're not remotely interested in me.

That may not be true. I find that the interest between earth signs tend to build and develop in certain, maybe even more stable/familiar, settings such as work, school etc....basically anywhere where you will be seen often. Ive never been out and about and got approached by another earth sign.

My sister is a Virgo, and she's mostly approached by Geminis, Scorpios, Cancers, Aquas etc. She has a little crush on the maintenance guy, who happens to be a Capricorn, but look at the setting. Apt, where she see him atleast 3x a week.

So what you are essentially saying lnana04 is that if an earth sign is in close contact (your example with the maintenence man 3x week) that would be cause for a crush?

Posted by lnana04
Ugh, some men can be sneaky like that. I wonder if his wife is at all aware of his cheating ways?

My sister started dating a Taurus, as basically a rebound from another Taurus, and I remember us all being in the kitchen one day talking. He grabbed my sis in the middle of the kitchen, hugged her(her face was turned the other way) and stared directly at me as he squeezed her. My goofy self was smiling at first because it was initially a sweet gesture, but I started crumbling at that look he gave. Thee sneakiest thing ever.

Intuition is never at peace with some of them Taurus men lol.

She found out about one of his affairs about a year ago. Cried to me. My heart broke for her. However, she decided to work it out. I have learned since he has had several more because he knows now he can and she won't do anything about it. This last time he hit on me, I asked him why he did that to her. He said he loved her, but wasn't attracted to her. I have not and will not tell her he has hit on me and has had tinkered around in other pastures. I feel like she really, honestly doesn't want to know he is still doing it, chooses to ignore it, because she is working so hard on their marriage. Bless her heart!

We used to have a dinner party group with five couples including us - dinner, games, drink. This is when we all got to become close friends and put me into his proximity.

My son's father cheated on me, and when I found out I kicked him to the curb! He has cheated on every single one of the woman he has dated since me. Even the woman he is with now, who has his son (my son has a half brother!!! Yah!) and he is supposed to marry her next fall. Thing is...he is and always will be a pig. I remember when she said "You had your turn, now it is mine." I laughed at her, bcus, GUESS WHAT— SHE CAN HAVE HIM! 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

Posted by NikkiMse1978
So what you are essentially saying lnana04 is that if an earth sign is in close contact (your example with the maintenence man 3x week) that would be cause for a crush?

Cause for a crush with another earth sign to develop and grow, yes.

Of course its not that simple, but the earth sign guys of my present/past all slowly gravitated towards me, and by us being in these environments on a regular basis it all made whatever develop.

Intuition is never at peace with some of them Taurus men lol

lnana04-what do you mean by ^?

LoL, just my way of saying I find some of them to be sneaky....and always doing somethin.