SureShotCap
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The Beautiful Walls of Capricorn
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I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Posted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Very interesting insight.
Can I quote you on that?
Posted by SpiceNSugarPosted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Very interesting insight.
Can I quote you on that?click to expand
😐 really? that's the crap you want to quote?
WTF is wrong with all you of people on this site. Grow some balls, love yourself, don't try to force your own expectations on other people.
OMG someone is going to hurt my feelings! Fuck your feelings, their all just delusions anyway.
Posted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Curiosity gets people hurt? Huh?
Posted by Astrobyn
OMG someone is going to hurt my feelings! Fuck your feelings, their all just delusions anyway.
—
Sounds like you're hurt big guy.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Sounds like you're hurt big guy.
We are all hurt, but we all express it in different ways... If your not, your in denial...
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescusp
Sounds like you're hurt big guy.
We are all hurt, but we all express it in different ways... If your not, your in denial...click to expand
If and when I am hurt by someone, I personally like to discuss it...
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescusp
Sounds like you're hurt big guy.
We are all hurt, but we all express it in different ways... If your not, your in denial...
If and when I am hurt by someone, I personally like to discuss it...click to expand
So do I...
Posted by Astrobyn
OMG someone is going to hurt my feelings! Fuck your feelings, their all just delusions anyway.
Feelings are contagious to followers. Leaders feel, express and don't care about any ones opinions...
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescusp
Sounds like you're hurt big guy.
We are all hurt, but we all express it in different ways... If your not, your in denial...
If and when I am hurt by someone, I personally like to discuss it...
So do I...click to expand
You first 😄
Posted by SpiceNSugarPosted by aquapiscescusp
Sounds like you're hurt big guy.
Agreed.click to expand
Lol. Heal me...
Posted by aquapiscescuspPosted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Curiosity gets people hurt? Huh?click to expand
People naturally look for peoples insecurities to use it as an advantage point. Basically they use it to try to over power you. Now normally if it had worked once on me, shame on me. The next time it will be shame on you... Either I blast you back with your own insecurities to try to hurt you or just be mature and let it go and stop communication with you...
Posted by bnr7013
Caps make you feel safe in the strangest way. They can be so misunderstood, moody, selfish, etc - yet they make you feel like they are worth every ounce of confusion. Bypassing the wall is a challenge. Who doesn't like a challenge? 😉
I would do anything for anyone on the inside of the walls.
1) Because I believe they belong there.
2) Because they worked hard to get there.
3) Because they want to stay there on freewill.
Posted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Hmm very cryptic. Sounds like a threat (curiousity gets ppl hurt) or are you a vampire maybe?And no I'm not asking you what you do for a living and whether you're a hitman or sth like that! I do not want to get hurt, I repeat please do not hurt me! 😄
^^ The vampire reference was because you heal LOL. It didn't make the way I wrote it, now it makes, or maybe not 😄
Posted by Mimi618Posted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Hmm very cryptic. Sounds like a threat (curiousity gets ppl hurt) or are you a vampire maybe?And no I'm not asking you what you do for a living and whether you're a hitman or sth like that! I do not want to get hurt, I repeat please do not hurt me! 😄
click to expand
It's a plot to pull you into the darkness... lol
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by Mimi618Posted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Hmm very cryptic. Sounds like a threat (curiousity gets ppl hurt) or are you a vampire maybe?And no I'm not asking you what you do for a living and whether you're a hitman or sth like that! I do not want to get hurt, I repeat please do not hurt me! 😄 #
It's a plot to pull you into the darkness... lolclick to expand
Pffftt this lady ain't scared of shit lol. Stellium in 12th house (Virgo, including Moon and Mars. Pluto in 1st house together with Libra Rising.So I'm cray cray myself 😄 But with a zest of the Libra niceness, right before Pluto hits and the sun disappears
Posted by Mimi618Posted by SureShotCapPosted by Mimi618Posted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Hmm very cryptic. Sounds like a threat (curiousity gets ppl hurt) or are you a vampire maybe?And no I'm not asking you what you do for a living and whether you're a hitman or sth like that! I do not want to get hurt, I repeat please do not hurt me! 😄 #
It's a plot to pull you into the darkness... lol
Pffftt this lady ain't scared of shit lol. Stellium in 12th house (Virgo, including Moon and Mars. Pluto in 1st house together with Libra Rising.So I'm cray cray myself 😄 But with a zest of the Libra niceness, right before Pluto hits and the sun disappearsclick to expand
I believe you, but will still test you...😈
Aww well then bring it on 
^^ that was supposed to be a devil too lol. It's probably the site acting up, I'm a tech genius, it's not me 😄
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescuspPosted by SureShotCap
I build my walls to keep my privacy. Curiosity gets people hurt. This is a main reason I keep everyone at a distance from me. I get hurt, but I heal. Some get hurt and never recover...
Curiosity gets people hurt? Huh?
People naturally look for peoples insecurities to use it as an advantage point. Basically they use it to try to over power you. Now normally if it had worked once on me, shame on me. The next time it will be shame on you... Either I blast you back with your own insecurities to try to hurt you or just be mature and let it go and stop communication with you...click to expand
Fear of being hurt is all I read.
Posted by aquapiscescusp
Fear of being hurt is all I read.
Not fear of hurt. Should I return the feelings of hurt or just ignore it—
Capricorn singer making it real:
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescusp
Fear of being hurt is all I read.
Not fear of hurt. Should I return the feelings of hurt or just ignore it—click to expand
It depends on the hurt. If it's not that important...ignore it.
Posted by Mimi618
^^ that was supposed to be a devil too lol. It's probably the site acting up, I'm a tech genius, it's not me 😄
Try it like this techy. 3 : ) lol 😛
Posted by SureShotCap
I would do anything for anyone on the inside of the walls.
1) Because I believe they belong there.
2) Because they worked hard to get there.
3) Because they want to stay there on freewill.
Are you sure you're not a Taurus? 😉
Posted by aquapiscescusp
It depends on the hurt. If it's not that important...ignore it.
Most say it with the intention to hurt, because if they didn't, they would have considered your feelings before they said it regardless if they are angry or not. And if they continue because they want to make a point, then the only point I get is that your goal is to try and hurt me at any cost. Walls!
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by SureShotCap
I would do anything for anyone on the inside of the walls.
1) Because I believe they belong there.
2) Because they worked hard to get there.
3) Because they want to stay there on freewill.
Are you sure you're not a Taurus? 😉click to expand
In many ways I am. But I won't tell where. lol
3 : )
^^ SureShotCap you're such a LIar LOL.
Posted by Mimi618
^^ SureShotCap you're such a LIar LOL.
You should ALWAYS proof read with the preview MESSAGE button! 😄
I would never lie. Maybe be a bit mischievous though... 😈
LMAO okaaaay I take back the liar 😄 But you left gaps too I trusted you.
😈 😈 😈
😈 😈 😈
Posted by Mimi618
LMAO okaaaay I take back the liar 😄 But you left gaps too I trusted you.
😈 😈 😈
If I didn't, you would see the devil and not the code...
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescusp
It depends on the hurt. If it's not that important...ignore it.
Most say it with the intention to hurt, because if they didn't, they would have considered your feelings before they said it regardless if they are angry or not. And if they continue because they want to make a point, then the only point I get is that your goal is to try and hurt me at any cost. Walls!click to expand
Yeah but you can't say anything to a cap that's contradictory, it's perceived as wanting to hurt them. Way too sensitive....
Posted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescusp
Fear of being hurt is all I read.
Not fear of hurt. Should I return the feelings of hurt or just ignore it—click to expand
Neither.
Communication works best.
I'm a Taurus, I had to learn this lesson the hard way.....
I understand the need for the walls, it's a feeling of survival. Maintaining Emotional Strength, itself, is a human survival tactic. When you crumble, so does everyone around you. Keeping a cool head is what keeps you moving forward, but this stubborn trait can also be quite detrimental, suppressive, delusional and not reality.
You can't shield yourself from something you never really truly embraced.
When you open yourself up to love, you're also subjecting yourself to pain.
It's OK.
Love, itself, is a risk.
Posted by TaurusBull1977Posted by SureShotCapPosted by aquapiscescusp
Fear of being hurt is all I read.
Not fear of hurt. Should I return the feelings of hurt or just ignore it—
Neither.
Communication works best.
I'm a Taurus, I had to learn this lesson the hard way.....
I understand the need for the walls, it's a feeling of survival. Maintaining Emotional Strength, itself, is a human survival tactic. When you crumble, so does everyone around you. Keeping a cool head is what keeps you moving forward, but this stubborn trait can also be quite detrimental, suppressive, delusional and not reality.
You can't shield yourself from something you never really truly embraced.
When you open yourself up to love, you're also subjecting yourself to pain.
It's OK.
Love, itself, is a risk.click to expand
Agree with Taurus Bull! To say "ignore it" when talking about hurt is contradicting in itself. When you feel it, it happened, the pain won't go away if ignored, it's just supressed, and that's not healthy and one day the person might flip over bottling up.
I have learned this. I am only giving others an insight on why. I am very social and understanding. Just trying to help people understand Capricorns and help Capricorns evolve into they are truly meant to be at an earlier age...
The choice is their own.
The choice is their own.
No feelings are meant to be understood, learned from, not hold you back. These are delusions, and you??re making weak excuses, for your choices.
It is extremely rare event that anyone has the intention to hurt another person. If your S.O. cheats on you, likely their issues and problems that they are working out. If someone says something to hurt you likely it's a definitive tactic that they haven't learned to control, again their issue, their defect.
If you take it in as these people have hurt me! That's kind of the ego speaking. Now I'm sure there are a lot of different variables that have brought you to this place. Which honestly I'm not trying to understand, because in the grand scheme of it make little difference. In the end you are choosing to be hurt by these people, and choosing to carry that hurt with you, and that's your responsibility to take.
Now I say this not to just to you, but to everyone that seems to approve of what you said. Because I find this perspective unfortunate.
It is extremely rare event that anyone has the intention to hurt another person. If your S.O. cheats on you, likely their issues and problems that they are working out. If someone says something to hurt you likely it's a definitive tactic that they haven't learned to control, again their issue, their defect.
If you take it in as these people have hurt me! That's kind of the ego speaking. Now I'm sure there are a lot of different variables that have brought you to this place. Which honestly I'm not trying to understand, because in the grand scheme of it make little difference. In the end you are choosing to be hurt by these people, and choosing to carry that hurt with you, and that's your responsibility to take.
Now I say this not to just to you, but to everyone that seems to approve of what you said. Because I find this perspective unfortunate.
Posted by Astrobyn
No feelings are meant to be understood, learned from, not hold you back. These are delusions, and you??re making weak excuses, for your choices.
It is extremely rare event that anyone has the intention to hurt another person. If your S.O. cheats on you, likely their issues and problems that they are working out. If someone says something to hurt you likely it's a definitive tactic that they haven't learned to control, again their issue, their defect.
If you take it in as these people have hurt me! That's kind of the ego speaking. Now I'm sure there are a lot of different variables that have brought you to this place. Which honestly I'm not trying to understand, because in the grand scheme of it make little difference. In the end you are choosing to be hurt by these people, and choosing to carry that hurt with you, and that's your responsibility to take.
Now I say this not to just to you, but to everyone that seems to approve of what you said. Because I find this perspective unfortunate.
Without a doubt. You are your own enemy and choose who can hurt you. But if you are truly free from outside influences and have full self control, you should lead by example and help people accomplish a similar goal if they care about it and you care for them.
Most don't care, and that's the way they accept themselves to be. So they do NOT want to change and are doomed to repeat their fate over and over again. My motives are selfless and I have no time for such people in my life. So my statement stands tall. If they choose later when they are lost and have tried many ways and fail then try, I will still be here to help. Time is the only thing that never comes back. Use it wisely...
I was born in NYC and have spoken from the heart to over a million people in my life time. From friends to complete strangers and many elderly. I learn wisdom from understanding, not criticizing. I do respect you and thank you for posting.
I am speaking roughly about 90% of topics on this forum about people not understanding Capricorns.
This wall is beautiful or horrible , it depends on what side of the wall your standing next to...
I've noticed we tend to confide in those that are naturally more open themselves.
When I was younger, no one was allowed in. Nowadays I allow everyone in.
I fear not getting hurt.
I fear not making a difference in their lives.
I simply give them enough string to choke themselves with. The choice is theirs...
I fear not getting hurt.
I fear not making a difference in their lives.
I simply give them enough string to choke themselves with. The choice is theirs...
We (people in our society in general) tend to gravitate to these clich?, words of wisdom. These lesson??s and ideals that have been taught in our cultural stories over and over, and we pull them out when it's convenient when it suits our needs, when it validates what we want to feel or believe. But how often do people think deeply on them objectively.
—You are your own enemy and choose who can hurt you??
But that's missing the point; it's not about choosing who can hurt you but about choosing hurt, and choosing how it affects you.
Nobody is perfect, I cannot sit here and say I am immune to hurt myself, but I won't pretend it's something that it is not, that it is justified??_ because it never is. My emotions do not dictate my logic.
—You are your own enemy and choose who can hurt you??
But that's missing the point; it's not about choosing who can hurt you but about choosing hurt, and choosing how it affects you.
Nobody is perfect, I cannot sit here and say I am immune to hurt myself, but I won't pretend it's something that it is not, that it is justified??_ because it never is. My emotions do not dictate my logic.
And I'm sorry but logically your statement does not stand tall, it's a contradiction within itself.
—My motives are selfless and I have no time for such people in my life.??
Is that not selfish? To only give time to one's who you believe deserve it? That's your right, and I won't say it's wrong, but don't call it selfless. Because you have expectations for what you are giving, and you choose not to give to those who do not meet them.
—My motives are selfless and I have no time for such people in my life.??
Is that not selfish? To only give time to one's who you believe deserve it? That's your right, and I won't say it's wrong, but don't call it selfless. Because you have expectations for what you are giving, and you choose not to give to those who do not meet them.
Posted by Astrobyn
My emotions do not dictate my logic.
~ My logic creates emotions in a positive manner! ~
Posted by Astrobyn
And I'm sorry but logically your statement does not stand tall, it's a contradiction within itself.
—My motives are selfless and I have no time for such people in my life.??
Is that not selfish? To only give time to one's who you believe deserve it? That's your right, and I won't say it's wrong, but don't call it selfless. Because you have expectations for what you are giving, and you choose not to give to those who do not meet them.click to expand
The subject was hurting feelings or ignoring the fact.
-Selfish to me would be getting back because it feels good.
-Selfless meaning to defuse and move on.
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