As a Capricorn man, I find I only align with some qualities (My sun is largely alone w/ the only other Earth presence being my Neptune in Capricorn which could be considered generational at best). I tend to have considerate stamina but I find that I'm easily bored with sex. I'm coming to the conclusion that my several inner and outer planets all residing in Aquarius and conjunct one another (as well as sextile to Pluto and trine my ASC) might be the cause of this. I found that my Scorpio-ex (who had Sun/Moon/Mercury/Venus all in Scorpio with a Sag. Mars) couldn't even match my stamina and wasn't always keen on changing position, as she would constantly tap out. To "make up" for this, she was a closeted freak and would routinely agree to any rough/kink sex (including but not limited to belts, handcuffs, mouth gags, etc) and this proved to quell my boredom effectively. With some insight into my predicament, what aspects/planets in synastry or natal would aid in finding a partner who could match me sexually? I'm aware not every woman would be down for BDSM/rough sex so I'm genuinely curious on what to look for.
