Who exactly do Capricorn men ignore (Page 2)

Hey, I'm another new one and need some advice because I'm kinda freaking out! Im a Taurus and I met this Capricorn male exactly 5 months ago. We've been on about 4 dates (only because he's a workaholic so there's not much time but I'm completely fine with that) and we text almost every single day.

What's bothering me is that there's times where I would text him and he'll ignore me for hours sometimes even days but why would he do that when he's told me that he likes me and I've resulted to researching Capricorn males on google and ask jeeves and I've found that Capricorns aren't really liars.
There's also been times where I've called him, because I know myself and the more I get ignored I'll lose interest slowly but surely, but when I call him, its as if he's shocked to hear from me, he kind of stutters and seems so uncomfortable. Does he even like me?

But then I'm confused because when we're together its great, his face literally lights up the whole time we're together and its nice. We laugh, bond a little and enjoy each others company. I just don't get why there's times I get ignored. I mean, I know it sounds like I'm whining but I wouldn't mind so much if I was seeing him a bit more regularly and if we could at least talk on the phone for more than 3 minutes but I'm not, so isn't that more of a reason to reply to my texts.

In addition to this, he comes across very closed off. Not moderately closed off but extremely. Let me give you an example. It's almost 6 months that I've known him and I don't know the specific date of his birthday, I don't know his specific age, I don't know whether he has siblings or...do you see what I mean? And I have asked these questions within the first 2 months of our "relationship kind of" but when I realized he's not very open I haven't asked since.

Please someone give me an answer. I need some sort of clarity here!?

Here is some background information that might help:

.We had our first and only kiss 4 weeks ago
.Anytime I intitiate a date and he's free he always makes it happen
.He compliments my appearance on average 8 times a week
.He sidelines any questions or topics to talk about himself
.I'm 18 (a mature one) and there's a 5-7 year gap (I think)
.He's up from 5am - 10 pm working 7 days a week; sometimes reaches home at half 11pm.

Please someone? I think there's a potiential relationship but Does he like me? Is he just humouring me to be kind? Does he want me? Is there someone else?

Thank

*sorry, I meant he sidelines any questions or topics that causes him to talk about himself

It seems like he likes you. He text you everyday and you've been on 4 dates. If he didn't like you I wouldn't imagine he would actually take time out of his busy schedule to go out with you or even text you. He also answers your calls and is nervous when speaking to you. I think you should ask him the personally questions when you two are in a relaxed atmosphere one at a time and not all at once. I personally don't like feeling like I'm being interviewed but I do interview others that I'm interested in something more. Has he asked you any questions? How are the conversations through text?

Hmmmm....I was going to say no. Caps will make time for someone they like.

If he's really that busy, and that could be the truth, then he doesn't have time for a relationship.

My advice is not to totally break it off, but keep going out and doing things. Stay busy. See other people. Date. Be social. Don't limit yourself to this one guy. You can still date him and talk to him, but I wouldn't wait around for him either. If he knows you're still doing your thing, that will make you more interesting and attractive. If he starts to worry about you meeting someone else, then he might fear losing you and it might make him step up and make more time for you.

Just don't put all your eggs in this one basket.

And wait for him to initiate contact. He will start missing you and wonder what you're up to. Sometimes that gets our attention.

Hey Genome, what kind of women do you find creepy ?? I am just curious, coz i am almost dating a capricorn..

Hey M, I think we are still in the friends stage and I can feel the long term relationship part coming. I am presuming. I like him a lot. Though he says he's not the long term guy, i can feel it in my bones that he's just testing and analysing me.

Believe what he says. If he says he's not a long term guy, then don't expect him to be a long term guy.

Women has this misconception that they think they can change someone, when the guy has been honest from the start. Men will tell you what they don't want from the get go, but women tend not to listen. When the woman starts having feelings, the men tend to distance and pull back. Then the women blow it off as "testing" or "he's afraid of his feelings" or "he needs more time" or "the jerk used me", when in fact, he TOLD you he doesn't want a long term relationship.

Hint for more DXP responses: You might want to create a new thread to get more responses. Most of us don't respond when these old threads (six years old when it was created) are pulled up because we don't want to read through an old problem that has been resolved or is no longer relevant.

No..FYI, they are very much intact. Thanks though for answering questions which were requested to someone else..

Posted by Genome
my point exactly.

"Do they ever ignore people they consider to be just their friends?"

Depends, once the "i'll never fuck/love you" flag has been raised, i cut off any ideas of being with them.

like some awkward crap i had to go through with a "friend" of mine. for years she says im like a brother, then suddenly says she has a crush on me. its like, ummm didn't we already write this off as not going to happen? and gets shocked that i dont quickly bound to her because she's hot.

be sure you arent coming off creepy, or just say fuck it and find someone who responds.

"WHO exactly do Capricorn men tend to ignore?"
not sure about the others, but for me, the list is:

Anyone who annoys me;
Anyone i find creepy; //see annoy, and yes, some women do come off as creepy.
anyone who bores me;
anyone that isn't useful to me;

basically being completely unconcerned to everyone until someone actually stands out to me, or absolutely demands my attention (which is a bad thing).

maybe he just doens't think it can work, or isn't worth the effort. byt gl waiting for a definite answer. speaking our true thoughts doesnt seem to be common, unless we're pissed off.

Thank you. I know you helped the original poster, but I hear this from my CAP friend all the time. Guess he has written me off. I will leave him alone.

If I ignore someone...it's either they get on my nerves and ignoring them would be best for both of us, I'm busy and don't have time cause I have to take care of my responsibilities first, or I'm just plain not interested. On the otherhand, if you're someone important to me,.or I'm interested then I will make contact, may not be right away or on your time line, but I definitely will. I won't forget you.