Obsessed about a cappy - chart/synastry

Hello to everyone.

I'm new here so I don't know if I should post this thread in here.

I've been seeing sb who has shown a strange behavior and a lot of mind games (e.g. keep my distance so you 'll want me more). I don't know if it's his T-square which make him so manipulative (some of the orbs are not very tight), or maybe he's not interested so that's why he's so cold. I had a feeling that he's very afraid feel things because he doesn't want to be hurt!!!Ha can separate his emotional life in an extraordinary way which I can.... He shoes me signs that he wants me but then he can be cold, distant and cancel our meetings. He's way too confusing. So why I'm keeping up with this guy——??

The thing is that I feel very obsessed about him, sth that I've never experienced before. I don't know why this happening. I've seen that our synastry has some wide plutonian aspects but I believe that my pluto has more tight aspects with some of his personal planets. While all this happening I can't stop wondering whether he feels the same obsession or it's just me. I'm posting my chart here and his (I know his ASC but I don't know his exact time so there can be some small changes in the houses and the asteroids). I'd like to hear your comments about this. He's the Capricorn and I'm the Cancer.

You can see my chart (mine, his, synastry and composite) in this address... http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?p=475499#post475499

Thank you very much in advance.