@SirHorns
12 Years5,000+ Posts
What can you all see?
Posted by Nevermore
In what way don't you feel cooperate with him?
It's like we can't work together well, as if we can't benefit off the other's efforts.
Plus addressing matters them have unusually high undercurrent of tension.
Posted by ontransit
Maybe mars in cancer vs. Scorpio sun...I notice cancers are grumpy around scorpio energy
He doesn't make me grumpy.
Posted by Imarollin
Do you two have the same energy work ethic wise? Perhaps it's the combination of your Uranus and Saturn being conjunct, fighting against each other. Both want the same thing. (Or is it Saturn and Neptune?)Well one has it in their 12th conjunct their MC and the other in their 3rd, house of communication.
So while one talks about their goals, the other is out to fulfill it as their calling without others input.
??
No we can get some work done, it's just that working together and getting energy off each other is difficult.
Posted by Imarollin
Do you two have the same energy work ethic wise? Perhaps it's the combination of your Uranus and Saturn being conjunct, fighting against each other. Both want the same thing. (Or is it Saturn and Neptune?)Well one has it in their 12th conjunct their MC and the other in their 3rd, house of communication.
So while one talks about their goals, the other is out to fulfill it as their calling without others input.
??
No we can get some work done, it's just that working together and getting energy off each other is difficult.
Exactly!
You said SOME work done with bad energy. Both want a mutual goal but attack it different ways? What is this exactly about.
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It's a writing calibration.
Their Saturn and Moon going into your 12th house could create an uneasiness that is subconscious/unintentional and manifests in conflict. With their moon there, it would probably work better if they were your therapist or similar because they might be able to intuit your hidden needs and desires. Saturn there can impose limitations so it could create a feeling of tension, of them holding you back in some way perhaps, but it wouldn't be fully conscious on your part. It runs under the surface.
Posted by CopperDove
Their Saturn and Moon going into your 12th house could create an uneasiness that is subconscious/unintentional and manifests in conflict. With their moon there, it would probably work better if they were your therapist or similar because they might be able to intuit your hidden needs and desires. Saturn there can impose limitations so it could create a feeling of tension, of them holding you back in some way perhaps, but it wouldn't be fully conscious on your part. It runs under the surface.
That sounds plausible. They are sensitive to my moods, though I always chalked that up to them being triple water.
The Saturn in 12 explanation makes sense, since I wouldn't be conscious of that happening. Did recently talked about how certain actions did hold me back from progressing along with what we were doing.
Posted by CopperDove
Their Saturn and Moon going into your 12th house could create an uneasiness that is subconscious/unintentional and manifests in conflict. With their moon there, it would probably work better if they were your therapist or similar because they might be able to intuit your hidden needs and desires. Saturn there can impose limitations so it could create a feeling of tension, of them holding you back in some way perhaps, but it wouldn't be fully conscious on your part. It runs under the surface.That sounds plausible. They are sensitive to my moods, though I always chalked that up to them being triple water.
The Saturn in 12 explanation makes sense, since I wouldn't be conscious of that happening. Did recently talked about how certain actions did hold me back from progressing along with what we were doing.click to expand
Cool that it seems to fit! My chart has some similarities with yours with houses and I experienced the good and bad effects of Pisces moon people who I was close to whose moon got into my 12 house.
My own Saturn is in my 12th house and I feel the blocks within myself at times - holding me back.
I think that it's good if you can make the subconscious conscious with them, like you did when talking about their actions holding you back. That might help to reduce the tension.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
MC inconj MCMerc square Chiron
Merc square Neptume
POF square POF
Mercury aspects would stand out since it would effect communication.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
MC inconj MCMerc square Chiron
Merc square Neptume
POF square POF
Mercury aspects would stand out since it would effect communication.
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I can't agree.
some people are very good at hiding Chiron and Neptune matters. These two are the other end of the square aspects to Mercury.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
MC inconj MCMerc square Chiron
Merc square Neptume
POF square POF
Mercury aspects would stand out since it would effect communication.
I can't agree.
some people are very good at hiding Chiron and Neptune matters. These two are the other end of the square aspects to Mercury.
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Neptune can be swept under the "unconscious mind" rug. Chiron is hidden wound a person has.
So what? These two are reeking unseen havoc or ?
Their Moon and Saturn square your NN.
I am not sure what it means exactly, but there could be some tension because of this I assume. It doesn't have to be just bad though, maybe you both, in this case particularly you, learn something from your relation.
Posted by laFille
Their Moon and Saturn square your NN.I am not sure what it means exactly, but there could be some tension because of this I assume. It doesn't have to be just bad though, maybe you both, in this case particularly you, learn something from your relation.
...That if I don't maintain control of how things are done, everything goes to hell?
I thought I was supposed to avoid doing that with people. DX
Posted by laFille
Their Moon and Saturn square your NN.I am not sure what it means exactly, but there could be some tension because of this I assume. It doesn't have to be just bad though, maybe you both, in this case particularly you, learn something from your relation.
...That if I don't maintain control of how things are done, everything goes to hell?
I thought I was supposed to avoid doing that with people. DXclick to expand
Maybe yes. Learn to be more calm and not that easily irritated or something else. It's just an idea.
What do you mean by to avoid that? Avoid people you don't get along with?
Posted by laFille
Their Moon and Saturn square your NN.I am not sure what it means exactly, but there could be some tension because of this I assume. It doesn't have to be just bad though, maybe you both, in this case particularly you, learn something from your relation.
...That if I don't maintain control of how things are done, everything goes to hell?
I thought I was supposed to avoid doing that with people. DXMaybe yes. Learn to be more calm and not that easily irritated or something else. It's just an idea.
What do you mean by to avoid that? Avoid people you don't get along with?
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No, I mean I thought I should avoid trying to be controlling over stuff like this.
As for being calm and less easily set off, I actually reached the point awhile ago to where I detached so completely that I didn't care if our work was even completed or not.
I'm trying to not to hit that point again, since I do want this to be finished.
Posted by Impulsv
People come in to trigger n heal u. What's being triggered issues on control?
Can't control the others work?
It feels more like I've given them too much freedom, etc. Since I felt pretty much like I had taken a back seat to them. Plus the fact I'm struggling with the fact I don't feel appreciated that much for things I do. Honestly, I don't think it's control. Since wouldn't it be the traditional "THIS GUY WON'T DO WHAT I SAY! *Tantrum*" rather then this mess, where it seems like it's points for me to do anything and that it's more logical and easier to just simply quit?
Posted by Koniucha
Moon opposite Pluto?For the tension
Possibly, granted most near my age would have that synasty with me, so I'm less convinced that aspect is the key issues. Thanks for the post.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
MC inconj MCMerc square Chiron
Merc square Neptume
POF square POF
Mercury aspects would stand out since it would effect communication.
I can't agree.
some people are very good at hiding Chiron and Neptune matters. These two are the other end of the square aspects to Mercury.
Neptune can be swept under the "unconscious mind" rug. Chiron is hidden wound a person has.
So what? These two are reeking unseen havoc or ?click to expand
hidden but existent. blocking and you see the result is not that appealing as it could be. as you know from better chemistry.
Not that I'm an expert. or right. it's just that I try to explain how I thought when I wrote my first post.
Posted by laFille
Their Moon and Saturn square your NN.I am not sure what it means exactly, but there could be some tension because of this I assume. It doesn't have to be just bad though, maybe you both, in this case particularly you, learn something from your relation.
I think that means theiry feelings and their style of organization (work attitude) works against OP's prosperity.
It's after all square to NN and SN both. If they don't want to give up, they have to put a lot of efforts in it.
"It feels more like I've given them too much freedom"
they had the freedom and their sense of duty and structuring could not make the best of it. from your viewpoint.
Posted by laFille
Their Moon and Saturn square your NN.I am not sure what it means exactly, but there could be some tension because of this I assume. It doesn't have to be just bad though, maybe you both, in this case particularly you, learn something from your relation.
...That if I don't maintain control of how things are done, everything goes to hell?
I thought I was supposed to avoid doing that with people. DXMaybe yes. Learn to be more calm and not that easily irritated or something else. It's just an idea.
What do you mean by to avoid that? Avoid people you don't get along with?
No, I mean I thought I should avoid trying to be controlling over stuff like this.
As for being calm and less easily set off, I actually reached the point awhile ago to where I detached so completely that I didn't care if our work was even completed or not.
I'm trying to not to hit that point again, since I do want this to be finished.click to expand
The only thing you can do as Astrologer is to check if there is any hope left in the synastry.
Like if Neptune connections are missing, that you use Mercury connections.
Or Mars instead of Mercury.
Or Jupiter as the last back door.
Posted by laFille
Their Moon and Saturn square your NN.I am not sure what it means exactly, but there could be some tension because of this I assume. It doesn't have to be just bad though, maybe you both, in this case particularly you, learn something from your relation.
I think that means theiry feelings and their style of organization (work attitude) works against OP's prosperity.
It's after all square to NN and SN both. If they don't want to give up, they have to put a lot of efforts in it.
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I wouldn't say it has to go against his prosperity necessarily. But a challenge, most probably.
Still, it's just two charts and it only shows their potential for both good and bad. How they actually get along depends on many other things not astrologically explained.
"I wouldn't say it has to go against his prosperity necessarily. But a challenge, most probably."
of course. you're right.
my sentence was written without enough caring.
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Working with this person is like a war at times. Sad part is that it isn't intentional on either side...
Any ideas on what makes working together so difficult for us both?