Advise needed

This topic was created in the Dating forum by Archer12 on Sunday, September 20, 2026 and has 1 replies.

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My partner she has had a few to drinks to drink but sometimes when she hasn’t she will mention it but not to the point where she has tonight because she’s drunk anyway she complains about my step mother who has a relationship with my ex ex ex partner who I also have kids with because my step mother see my ex partner on occasions but when I have confronted my step mother in the past she has said it’s because of the kids etc and has always had a relationship there.

My partner is saying it makes her feel like an outcast we have been together for 5 years and have two young girls together I have reassured her so many times and even told her we barley see my step mother or have much to do with them and we are our own family so I don’t see how it effects us and I am not interested in my ex or what she does.

My partner is a libra sun Woman Scorpio rising and Pisces moon she is pretty insecure at times and need a lot of reassurance all the time I don’t know what else I have to do to prove it’s only her I want and I am constantly with her everyday we live together everything so I don’t get what else I can do then because she’s had a drink she says Its making me not want to marry you because of your step mum like wtf 🤷‍♂️ I’m lost I thought we were fine.

So I left it for tonight now and she’s fell asleep.

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Correct sentence Bleddy text anyways —

My partner she has had a few to many drinks to drink but there are times when she hasn’t had a drink she will mentions it when her names brought up but not to the point where she has tonight because she’s drunk anyway she complains about my step mother who has a relationship with my ex ex ex partner who I also have kids with because my step mother sees my ex partner on occasions but when I have confronted my dad about it in the past my step mum she has said it’s because of the kids etc and has always had a relationship there.

My partner is saying it makes her feel like an outcast we have been together for 5 years and have two young girls together I have reassured her so many times and even reminded her we barley see my step mother or have much to do with them and we are our own family so I don’t see how it effects us and I am not interested in my ex or what she does.

My partner is a libra sun Woman Scorpio rising and Pisces moon she is pretty insecure at times and needs a lot of reassurance all the time I don’t know what else I have to do to prove it’s only her I want and I am constantly with her everyday we live together everything so I don’t get what else I can do because she’s had a drink she says Its making me not want to marry you because of your step mum like wtf 🤷‍♂️ I’m lost I thought we were fine.

So I left it for tonight now and she’s fell asleep.

The crazy thing is today was a year on from my nans death hence why we all met up for a few drinks and food yet she wants to act up and hasn’t even given that a thought or thought about how I might be feeling