Philotes
@Philotes
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Asking a guy who you slept with if any of his guy friends are single?
Posted by ATGR
Why do you want to destroy his ego? 🤣
Also just “any” of them? Like you’re not fussy which one?
How would that destroy his ego? We hooked up once and he was cheating on his partner. It's not like he and I were actually in a relationship.
Yes ask. Why not.
He may surprise you with a friend who is a perfect fit.
He may surprise you with a friend who is a perfect fit.
This sounds so cringe
I think I would rather die than expose an ex-fuck to the depth of my thirstiness.
Posted by Truemara
This sounds so cringe
Why is it cringe? We weren't actually together.
Posted by Kachi
It seems like passive aggression on your side or waiting for a desired response from him.
Either way, you're emotionally invested with this man. Otherwise, you wouldn't want to be into his personal space so much.
I'm not asking about him being single.
Posted by KachiPosted by PhilotesPosted by Kachi
It seems like passive aggression on your side or waiting for a desired response from him.
Either way, you're emotionally invested with this man. Otherwise, you wouldn't want to be into his personal space so much.
I'm not asking about him being single.
Clearly he doesn't have to be.
He sounds like he isn't worth pursuing.click to expand
I'm not pursuing this guy I said I want to ask him if any of his guy friends are single.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by PhilotesPosted by Kachi
It seems like passive aggression on your side or waiting for a desired response from him.
Either way, you're emotionally invested with this man. Otherwise, you wouldn't want to be into his personal space so much.
I'm not asking about him being single.
OK! What is everybody trying to tell you nicely - is that tis is fucked up! Got it?click to expand
It's fucked up that I want to ask him if he has any single friends. But the fact that he used me to cheat on his partner isn't fucked up?
Posted by KachiPosted by PhilotesPosted by KachiPosted by PhilotesPosted by Kachi
It seems like passive aggression on your side or waiting for a desired response from him.
Either way, you're emotionally invested with this man. Otherwise, you wouldn't want to be into his personal space so much.
I'm not asking about him being single.
Clearly he doesn't have to be.
He sounds like he isn't worth pursuing.
I'm not pursuing this guy I said I want to ask him if any of his guy friends are single.
Meh. Asking someone who cheated on his gf isn't the best referral 🤷🏾♀️
Are you limited to network where you are or timid to look on your ownclick to expand
Did you miss the part where I said I've been dating online and I've been on a few dates?
Ask him. Post the response.
Depends on your intentions with his friends. If you seriously believe you will find a soulmate through someone who used you, go for it gurl! If you just wanna use them to pass time, go for it gurl! If you feel you’ve got nothing else to lose, why not 🤷♀️ Buncha party poopers here. You go live wild and free.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by PhilotesPosted by MonaLisa26Posted by PhilotesPosted by Kachi
It seems like passive aggression on your side or waiting for a desired response from him.
Either way, you're emotionally invested with this man. Otherwise, you wouldn't want to be into his personal space so much.
I'm not asking about him being single.
OK! What is everybody trying to tell you nicely - is that tis is fucked up! Got it?
It's fucked up that I want to ask him if he has any single friends. But the fact that he used me to cheat on his partner isn't fucked up?
Considering your comprehension of the situation I am doubting that you are even old enough to fuck!
You have no grasp on basic life dynamics. Like man cheating on his wife is his business. Fixing you up is not his business.
Man having sex with woman 'owns' her whether he cares emotionally deeply or not at all. So he wont fix you up because he is thinking that you might be in use for him another time.
But the fked up part is that man cheating is a known old as Earth itself fact. Woman asking her lover to fixes her up is nonsense! YOU are a nonsense. I would laugh but I am too tired. I am...laughing inside. Its so bizarre.click to expand
You're talking about my comprehension yet you think it's ok for a man to cheat because it's known old as earth itself. Yeah, you're pathetic if that's an excuse that you're using to be ok for a man to cheat. It wasn't his business to use me to cheat on his partner either yet he did that.
Posted by DragonSag
Sure, only if you're desperate, pathetic and very stupid should you ever expose your incapability of finding a lover on your own
I'm desperate, stupid, and pathetic for asking him this. But he wasn't stupid, desperate, and pathetic when he used me to cheat on his partner? Yeah ok, I think that's a lot worse than me asking him if he has any single friends.
Posted by MonaLisa26Posted by PhilotesPosted by MonaLisa26Posted by PhilotesPosted by MonaLisa26Posted by PhilotesPosted by Kachi
It seems like passive aggression on your side or waiting for a desired response from him.
Either way, you're emotionally invested with this man. Otherwise, you wouldn't want to be into his personal space so much.
I'm not asking about him being single.
OK! What is everybody trying to tell you nicely - is that tis is fucked up! Got it?
It's fucked up that I want to ask him if he has any single friends. But the fact that he used me to cheat on his partner isn't fucked up?
Considering your comprehension of the situation I am doubting that you are even old enough to fuck!
You have no grasp on basic life dynamics. Like man cheating on his wife is his business. Fixing you up is not his business.
Man having sex with woman 'owns' her whether he cares emotionally deeply or not at all. So he wont fix you up because he is thinking that you might be in use for him another time.
But the fked up part is that man cheating is a known old as Earth itself fact. Woman asking her lover to fixes her up is nonsense! YOU are a nonsense. I would laugh but I am too tired. I am...laughing inside. Its so bizarre.
You're talking about my comprehension yet you think it's ok for a man to cheat because it's known old as earth itself. Yeah, you're pathetic if that's an excuse that you're using to be ok for a man to cheat. It wasn't his business to use me to cheat on his partner either yet he did that.
Where did I say its OK for men to cheat you stupid little twat?
I said its KNOWN and it is not a surprise for anybody.
HOWEVER woman asking her lover find her a fucker is stupid, pathetic, laughable and only an IDIOT like you can think it is OK and upset that he is shitting on you...click to expand
Fuck off you idiot clown you shouldn't be giving any kind of advice. The guy was never my lover we had sex ONCE learn how to read before you try to badmouth someone. Get lost.
Posted by Monimai
Mmm not fan of the cheating part but...I think you should do it but don't expect too much...Remember that he could get jealous lol.
Don't listen to some of these insult's here.
I coupled up some friends - it was sort of a hobby - cause i felt who would be perfect for each other...and two of them are still together over 12 years now.
You never know!? So try your luck!
Yeah, I could see if this guy and I had actually dated and been in a relationship. But that isn't the case we basically had a one night stand. And then he tried to sleep with me a year later and I didn't hookup with him again.
Posted by PhilotesPosted by MonaLisa26Posted by PhilotesPosted by Kachi
It seems like passive aggression on your side or waiting for a desired response from him.
Either way, you're emotionally invested with this man. Otherwise, you wouldn't want to be into his personal space so much.
I'm not asking about him being single.
OK! What is everybody trying to tell you nicely - is that tis is fucked up! Got it?
It's fucked up that I want to ask him if he has any single friends. But the fact that he used me to cheat on his partner isn't fucked up?click to expand
And why are you then asking him a cheater if he can hook you up with his friends. Are your options really that limited? Seems desperate to me. 🙈
Posted by DragonSagPosted by PhilotesPosted by DragonSag
Sure, only if you're desperate, pathetic and very stupid should you ever expose your incapability of finding a lover on your own
I'm desperate, stupid, and pathetic for asking him this. But he wasn't stupid, desperate, and pathetic when he used me to cheat on his partner? Yeah ok, I think that's a lot worse than me asking him if he has any single friends.
So you're hurt and want a revenge of a sort, got it. And no, I didn't say you are that I said to ask him that question if you are all of that. It means that you need to get yourself together, pick up your pride and selfesteem and remove yourself from a situation with that guy instead of humiliating yourself. Seriously, if you want a good guy for yourself, you won't find one among his friendsclick to expand
You're assuming things and don't have a clue.
You said you hooked up a long time ago. How long is that? Cause wouldn't it be kinda weird to pop up out of the blue?
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