Gently letting down

This topic was created in the Dating forum by goldenfish on Friday, April 29, 2022 and has 21 replies.

How to Gently Let Someone Down Using Astrology Insights

Gently letting someone down involves understanding their zodiac traits. For example, Libras value honesty and kindness, so offering sincere and considerate explanations is effective. Tailoring your approach based on their astrological sign can help communicate your boundaries with compassion and respect, making the process smoother for both parties.

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@borednbeautiful
4 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by GC69_

Why can’t you go on a date with me?🥺

“My enemies are after me. Pls send 100K”

-Tinder Swindler

Thanks for the tip! Will try next time 😅

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@saggurl88
13 Years25,000+ Posts

It’s not you, it’s me.

There’s no connection/ chemistry

I just don’t know what I want and I don’t want to string you along with my indecisiveness.

I told the truth and said there was no sexual chemistry and got reprimanded, apparently that was too harsh 🥴

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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by saggurl88

It’s not you, it’s me.

There’s no connection/ chemistry

I just don’t know what I want and I don’t want to string you along with my indecisiveness.

I told the truth and said there was no sexual chemistry and got reprimanded, apparently that was too harsh 🥴

Sexual chemistry and friendship chemistry are two different things.

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I agree! I tried to explain that it meant no romantic chemistry- All he heard was that he wasn't fuccable 🙄

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@sweethearts
20 Years5,000+ Posts

I try not to have the talk and just go about my busy schedule with my friends.

I find it doesn’t happen much, Moreso, I’ve experienced it’s the other way around so I do try and put myself in the others shoes. It’s always hard to hear … “I’m just not that into you”

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7 Years

Posted by borednbeautiful

Slow fade. If they don’t get the clue >>>>>>>>Block, ignore and disappear. I know, I know.

But eventually they get a hint.

what are your placements?

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@goldenfish
7 Years

Posted by saggurl88

It’s not you, it’s me.

There’s no connection/ chemistry

I just don’t know what I want and I don’t want to string you along with my indecisiveness.

I told the truth and said there was no sexual chemistry and got reprimanded, apparently that was too harsh 🥴

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4 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by goldenfish

Posted by borednbeautiful

Slow fade. If they don’t get the clue >>>>>>>>Block, ignore and disappear. I know, I know.

But eventually they get a hint.

what are your placements?

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Gemini sun + rising

Leo moon + mars

Cancer venus

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@borednbeautiful
4 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by alexscaries

In all truthfulness I'm not a massive flirt so it won't even get to the swapping numbers stage if I'm not interested.

If it's someone I'm in an actual relationship with I tell the truth.

Do you think I’m a massive flirt? What is it anyway?

Btw, that should be your next profile tagline 🙃

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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by alexscaries

In all truthfulness I'm not a massive flirt so it won't even get to the swapping numbers stage if I'm not interested.

If it's someone I'm in an actual relationship with I tell the truth.

Do you think I’m a massive flirt? What is it anyway?

Btw, that should be your next profile tagline 🙃

I think you are genuinely interested in people. As for massive flirt. I don't know. I think the factor would be if you do it with everyone.

TBF I think most adults are aware if they are flirting I think were it gets confusing if you have lonely people who think someone being nice or sociable wants to date them.

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I agree 💯 %

Lonely people who miss-read the signals are the worst. They don’t bother me so much as they bother themselves.

I am so lonely today but someone said hi online 🙄

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Posted by alexscaries

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by alexscaries

Posted by borednbeautiful

Posted by alexscaries

In all truthfulness I'm not a massive flirt so it won't even get to the swapping numbers stage if I'm not interested.

If it's someone I'm in an actual relationship with I tell the truth.

Do you think I’m a massive flirt? What is it anyway?

Btw, that should be your next profile tagline 🙃

I think you are genuinely interested in people. As for massive flirt. I don't know. I think the factor would be if you do it with everyone.

TBF I think most adults are aware if they are flirting I think were it gets confusing if you have lonely people who think someone being nice or sociable wants to date them.

I agree 💯 %

Lonely people who miss-read the signals are the worst. They don’t bother me so much as they bother themselves.

I am so lonely today but someone said hi online 🙄

I think people misread the signs due to expectation and also inexperience. It's really difficult to explain, but you can have a dry conversation and you can be into each other or you can have a laughing jokey conversation were it goes nowhere and both people are aware it is banter.

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True indeed.

Sometimes, I shut down around those I truly like. I become shy (believe it or not). I never talk much around them.

But if it’s just banter, it’s comfortable and fun. Banter may or may not go somewhere. It’s the best when it is mutual.

I also appreciate someone when we don’t always agree, but we always get along.

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7 Years

Posted by alexscaries

"I'm in a gangbang"

Well... some ppl may ask to join.