@SeaLion
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Cougars
How much younger does your boyfriend have to be in order to be considered a predatory cougar? 🙀
Leo is 8 years younger. Cancer is 13 years younger. Mr.Unattractive is 2 years older.
“Cougars” are popularly defined as women in their 40s (or older) who date significantly younger men, generally at a 10-year age gap or more“
Go for it Leo 😃😍
“Cougars” are popularly defined as women in their 40s (or older) who date significantly younger men, generally at a 10-year age gap or more“
Go for it Leo 😃😍
What if you are 29 and he is 21? Or you are 36 and he is 28?
Asking for a friend lol ☺️
40’s😈. Best lovin i ever had was with a 41 year old Aquarius, she blew my 21 year old mind 🤯🔥
“Cougars” are popularly defined as women in their 40s (or older) who date significantly younger men, generally at a 10-year age gap or more“
Go for it Leo 😃😍
What if you are 29 and he is 21? Or you are 36 and he is 28?
Asking for a friend lol ☺️
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If you like the person, go for it 😃
“Cougars” are popularly defined as women in their 40s (or older) who date significantly younger men, generally at a 10-year age gap or more“
Go for it Leo 😃😍
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“Cougars” are popularly defined as women in their 40s (or older) who date significantly younger men, generally at a 10-year age gap or more“
Go for it Leo 😃😍
🤔🤔🤔
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Half your age plus 7. Anything younger you are a cougar… I was told.
I won't go too deep into gender politics as I want to keep it light, but the double standard always amuses me. The male equivalent: dirty old bastards, cradle snatchers, even predators. Demi Moore was praised for going out with Ashton Kutcher, or Macron for choosing an older woman and people like Bernie Eccleston you would have thought he was a nonce.
What you are referring to is men who use wealth and power to control, groom or rape underage girls.
That's not what I'm talking about, altho I know there are women who do go that route as well, I'm not denying that.
I'm thinking maybe a guy between the ages of like 26-32 who can make his own adult decisions and hopefully makes his own living.
I won't go too deep into gender politics as I want to keep it light, but the double standard always amuses me. The male equivalent: dirty old bastards, cradle snatchers, even predators. Demi Moore was praised for going out with Ashton Kutcher, or Macron for choosing an older woman and people like Bernie Eccleston you would have thought he was a nonce.
I don’t like how men have been with much younger women for centuries yet there still seems to be some stigma around younger men and older women? Why is that?
Girl, get it! Lol I’m 38 and open to dating younger now. But that’s of course only if we are on the same wavelength maturity wise. I can’t see myself dating younger yet only bc I haven’t besides a year or two younger. I’m just not counting out younger guys, I’ll put it that way haha.
Girl, get it! Lol I’m 38 and open to dating younger now. But that’s of course only if we are on the same wavelength maturity wise. I can’t see myself dating younger yet only bc I haven’t besides a year or two younger. I’m just not counting out younger guys, I’ll put it that way haha.
Do it. Younger people i.e. mid and early 20s seem to have a pornification view of how sex works. Some ppl will find that off putting, but I find it interesting how they are less inhibited.
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That’s not the part that interests me most but you have now piqued it haha.
I won't go too deep into gender politics as I want to keep it light, but the double standard always amuses me. The male equivalent: dirty old bastards, cradle snatchers, even predators. Demi Moore was praised for going out with Ashton Kutcher, or Macron for choosing an older woman and people like Bernie Eccleston you would have thought he was a nonce.
Agreed with your post...partially and as I was going to comment on it from a different perspective, I see @MyStarShine already touched on it sooo back hiding under the rock I go!
Only a few more years left to enjoy my Puma status.
The gem just turned 31 and I keep joking its time to trade him in for a newer model 🚗
All women in here can take care of me. Y'all can split the responsibilities. I'll let that happen.
TLC is always casting you should send in your headshots.
All women in here can take care of me. Y'all can split the responsibilities. I'll let that happen.
TLC is always casting you should send in your headshots.
Nah, that's not up to standards. I've tried to drop my standards down that far and bad things happened.
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Multiple wives who cook, clean, cuddle, and bring home the bacon for you. Your only job is to give some dick and talk about your deep deep thoughts. Sounds like your perf scenario.
I’ve met men who genuinely get off on older partners. I think it’s about wanting to be dominated a bit and bossed around. But who knows? Everyone has their own kinks. Maybe they see older partner as more of a challenge? Leo told me I was more difficult to conquer than much younger women. And much, much more fun to talk to 🙂
I’ve met men who genuinely get off on older partners. I think it’s about wanting to be dominated a bit and bossed around. But who knows? Everyone has their own kinks. Maybe they see older partner as more of a challenge? Leo told me I was more difficult to conquer than much younger women. And much, much more fun to talk to 🙂
I was told by several younger men they find older women more confident and sure of themselves which they see as sexy. Some younger men find women their own age not very challenging apparently ?
I’ve met men who genuinely get off on older partners. I think it’s about wanting to be dominated a bit and bossed around. But who knows? Everyone has their own kinks. Maybe they see older partner as more of a challenge? Leo told me I was more difficult to conquer than much younger women. And much, much more fun to talk to 🙂
I was told by several younger men they find older women more confident and sure of themselves which they see as sexy. Some younger men find women their own age not very challenging apparently ?
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Yes. And also into playing games. A lot of complaints I hear from men is that they all look the same and act the same. Just a bit shallow and not enough life experience.
But I mean, to each their own. I personally don’t care about the age. Tons of good looking men in all categories. It’s about chemistry and energy, if they match 😉
I’ve met men who genuinely get off on older partners. I think it’s about wanting to be dominated a bit and bossed around. But who knows? Everyone has their own kinks. Maybe they see older partner as more of a challenge? Leo told me I was more difficult to conquer than much younger women. And much, much more fun to talk to 🙂
I was told by several younger men they find older women more confident and sure of themselves which they see as sexy. Some younger men find women their own age not very challenging apparently ?
Yes. And also into playing games. A lot of complaints I hear from men is that they all look the same and act the same. Just a bit shallow and not enough life experience.
But I mean, to each their own. I personally don’t care about the age. Tons of good looking men in all categories. It’s about chemistry and energy, if they match 😉
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Yes I hear the same ...... boring !
My energy is far more suited to younger men...the last four rships I’ve had have all been younger. Some older men become set in their ways ....
I’ve met men who genuinely get off on older partners. I think it’s about wanting to be dominated a bit and bossed around. But who knows? Everyone has their own kinks. Maybe they see older partner as more of a challenge? Leo told me I was more difficult to conquer than much younger women. And much, much more fun to talk to 🙂
I was told by several younger men they find older women more confident and sure of themselves which they see as sexy. Some younger men find women their own age not very challenging apparently ?
Yes. And also into playing games. A lot of complaints I hear from men is that they all look the same and act the same. Just a bit shallow and not enough life experience.
But I mean, to each their own. I personally don’t care about the age. Tons of good looking men in all categories. It’s about chemistry and energy, if they match 😉
Yes I hear the same ...... boring !
My energy is far more suited to younger men...the last four rships I’ve had have all been younger. Some older men become set in their ways ....
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Yep. And they let themselves go in more ways than one 😏
Come on, get on with the times!! I often hear older women complain about having to cook 3 meals a day and work full time, and I just cringe inside 😬 🙀
I’ve met men who genuinely get off on older partners. I think it’s about wanting to be dominated a bit and bossed around. But who knows? Everyone has their own kinks. Maybe they see older partner as more of a challenge? Leo told me I was more difficult to conquer than much younger women. And much, much more fun to talk to 🙂
I was told by several younger men they find older women more confident and sure of themselves which they see as sexy. Some younger men find women their own age not very challenging apparently ?
Yes. And also into playing games. A lot of complaints I hear from men is that they all look the same and act the same. Just a bit shallow and not enough life experience.
But I mean, to each their own. I personally don’t care about the age. Tons of good looking men in all categories. It’s about chemistry and energy, if they match 😉
Yes I hear the same ...... boring !
My energy is far more suited to younger men...the last four rships I’ve had have all been younger. Some older men become set in their ways ....
Yep. And they let themselves go in more ways than one 😏
Come on, get on with the times!! I often hear older women complain about having to cook 3 meals a day and work full time, and I just cringe inside 😬 🙀
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True and we’re in our sexual prime much later than men. The hottest sex I’ve had was after 35. I could write a book 🔥💥
I won't go too deep into gender politics as I want to keep it light, but the double standard always amuses me. The male equivalent: dirty old bastards, cradle snatchers, even predators. Demi Moore was praised for going out with Ashton Kutcher, or Macron for choosing an older woman and people like Bernie Eccleston you would have thought he was a nonce.
I know and what about the double standard when it comes to female teachers having sex with their students verses male teachers and their students? That one sickens me.
Man Woman Status
9 yr old 13 yr old Cougar
19 yr old 28 yr old Cougar
22 yr old 33 yr old Cougar
33 yr old 43 yr old Cougar
45 yr old 65 yr old Cougar
50 yr old ? Doesn't matter anymore
I won't go too deep into gender politics as I want to keep it light, but the double standard always amuses me. The male equivalent: dirty old bastards, cradle snatchers, even predators. Demi Moore was praised for going out with Ashton Kutcher, or Macron for choosing an older woman and people like Bernie Eccleston you would have thought he was a nonce.
I know and what about the double standard when it comes to female teachers having sex with their students verses male teachers and their students? That one sickens me.
We can discuss this all day long! Demi was a 'victim' of cheating so she was hurt party and anything she had done was OK!
Teachers...I had never heard a teacher choosing a little nerd to 'teach'. lol It is always football captains and sorry I am not sorry. No man I knew ever said they wouldnt dream about such a teacher.
And yes. Male teacher and a girl IS different from female teacher and a boy. If someone do not see how - I am sorry for those people. If girl was willingly blowing a teacher it would be same as female teacher and a boy. Well...almost.
If prove that she did it willingly existed somehow.
So this subject is not going to go away. Ever. Not even jail scare is stopping people. THAT I do not understand!
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Well way back when I was in HS a girl who had a crush on our biology teacher would go to the bathroom before class and take off her panties (in a short dress) and sit on the front row. This girl would have happily blown his dick to smithereens if he'd let her. Girls are not innocent either most of the time. Sorry ladies.
I had so much fun with younger guys ... oh wow... lol 😂 🔥
Wouldn’t have missed it for the world!
One of them lived abroad and we used to meet in lots of European cities ... Paris, Amsterdam, Hamburg, Florence, Verona, Berlin, Gdańsk, Dublin, London and lots more. We’d rock the feck out of those hotel rooms ... after three days together i could hardly walk lol
Fun times🥰
For any woman thats never tried it.......just do it baby! 😂🔥🔥🔥
You could take care of me any day
😆🤣😂.
Tryna get that free life, nahmean?
Leos will grow tired of you not worshiping them so…..
I can fake it, we gettin' these goodies
You a Leo too?
Nah, I’m cardboard
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Not true
Taurus mooooo?
I’ve met men who genuinely get off on older partners. I think it’s about wanting to be dominated a bit and bossed around. But who knows? Everyone has their own kinks. Maybe they see older partner as more of a challenge? Leo told me I was more difficult to conquer than much younger women. And much, much more fun to talk to 🙂
Possibly, possibly not. I've only met one woman who was genuinely dominant, said she started off as a sub and decided she liked being dominant better, she was a Gemini.
Contrary to popular belief most women are not submissive sexually, but passive. Also so are men - how many times have you had a man just lie there?
As a man in his late 30s trust far more difficult to get with a woman whose say 25 than one whose say late 40s. Most women I have sex with fall within a 5 year radius.
Are older women more fun to talk to? Sometimes, most of it is finding common ground. I've had great and appalling sex with older and younger.
Leo men will tell you what you want to hear.
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Are you saying Leo man lied every time he gave me a compliment? 😔
Wow, that’s like going great lengths to charm someone up. I would not even bother, lol. I noticed when he is pissed at me, he is very stingy with words. Instead of saying “wow, you are killing me with that outfit” he will just say “you look nice”.
Oh well. No sex for him. I have been using withdrawing sex and attention as a form of discipline for him. Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn’t.
I think if you are a soccer star or an actor, it’s extremely easy to get with women who are 25 and under. If you are a regular Joe, be lucky you find any woman for sex.
As for me, it’s easy to weed out guys who just want sex because usually they are like obsessed with it. If I in the mood, I’ll entertain it. If not, that’s the end.
Women have more power in these types of things. With age, their sexual value decreases. But I don’t see it as tragic. I still believe great sex can be had at any age!
You could take care of me any day
😆🤣😂.
Tryna get that free life, nahmean?
Leos will grow tired of you not worshiping them so…..
I can fake it, we gettin' these goodies
You a Leo too?
Nah, I’m cardboard
Not true
Taurus mooooo?
“CapriSun. Taurus moooooon.”
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Taurus mooooo
Never cardboard
Sensual and snuggly
I’ve never been with someone older than me. My first two experiences were with virgins, so it was kind of a comic disaster. Guess having had a more experienced partner would’ve been way better back then.
Nowadays age doesn’t matter much to me, but I usually attract women five to ten years younger than me.
You could take care of me any day
😆🤣😂.
Tryna get that free life, nahmean?
Leos will grow tired of you not worshiping them so…..
I can fake it, we gettin' these goodies
You a Leo too?
Nah, I’m cardboard
Not true
Taurus mooooo?
“CapriSun. Taurus moooooon.”
M
Taurus mooooo
Never cardboard
Sensual and snuggly
Nah we cardboard round here and we ain’t snuggling with NOBODY
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I’ll snuggle for you
Aint no cardboard in me
Tina and husband Erwin
16 years younger than her
How could a woman with all that energy not be with a younger man?
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Tina and husband Erwin
16 years younger than her
How could a woman with all that energy not be with a younger man?
🔥
Donkey dick.
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I saw her interviewed
She really loves him ❤️
Tina and husband Erwin
16 years younger than her
How could a woman with all that energy not be with a younger man?
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Donkey dick.
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What is donkey dick? lol
Tina and husband Erwin
16 years younger than her
How could a woman with all that energy not be with a younger man?
🔥
Donkey dick.
What is donkey dick? lol
A massive penis as in hung like a donkey/mule/horse etc.
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Big heart and brain maybe?
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At what age does one become eligible for being considered a cougar?
I'm 42 about to turn 43 and the idea is starting to become interesting to me 😂