How do I be with my Taurus?

This topic was created in the Dating forum by HereforTaurusAgain on Saturday, October 24, 2026 and has 3 replies.

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@HereforTaurusAgain
1 Year

The one I've been on about...

Do I DM her? Do I ask her brother to ask her out for me?

How do I be with her? What should I do?

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@Wizardzz_

Posted by HereforTaurusAgain

Posted by Wizardzz_

You can't

How do you know that?

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I don't know the whole story but this is what I have pieced together from your posts

This woman is not someone you know personally. There is no reason for you to be in her life. You once met her somewhere but were too scared/shy to speak to her. This is the only "contact" you have ever had with her

You have been to court, perhaps jail for some kind of stalking offence towards this woman. She wasn't at the trial but her father was

You follow her social media posts religiously, creating new accounts and so on and obsessing over her and her life and relationships.

She never ever seeks to contact you in any way. In fact, the opposite, blocking you when possible

You have been diagnosed with Schizophrenia or similar

You believe her sm posts somehow connect you with her or contain meaning for you. This is highly likely to be your own mental fabrication. Similar to schizophrenics believing they are receiving messages from aliens through some medium

If you try to escalate your obsession by reaching out, you will convince yourself at every setback that there is a deeper hidden meaning that you can uncover. You cannot accept "No" no matter how emphatic and blatant the no is

This will make your obsession worse, getting you into more mental difficulties, perhaps leading to more trouble with the law. Also, if your obsession worsens she may be in danger from you.

Your best course of action is to stop stalking her sm. Try to understand where in you it is coming from to need this obsession. She is not "your" Taurus. Nothing about her belongs to you or is connected to you. It's you projecting your unfulfilled need/desire onto a subject/victim. You don't know her personally and any attempt to do so will very likely get you in more trouble

You need to let it go, for everyone's benefit. You don't have anything but illusions regarding this woman