Why does being ignored hurt air signs so much?

Just someone being in their own world can make you all wounded?

Why?

I am a water sign and it hurts me too...worst thing you can do is ignore me. Would rather someone screamed at me

Posted by AlaniaB
I am a water sign and it hurts me too...worst thing you can do is ignore me. Would rather someone screamed at me

Yeah I know....I intentionally was trying to exclude you & Pisces from replying by zeroing in on "air signs" in the title and it being under the "Elements" forum not "Cancer" or anything.

You two care for a different reason than air signs.

I know that much about air signs but I didn't know "why" exactly.

@strawberrykush - But why exactly does it bother you so much?

that hurts everyone...

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Posted by Pearls
@strawberrykush - But why exactly does it bother you so much?

Because it shows you are a coward and cannot be trusted. Not to mention you are a weak individual who is disrespectful. You only hurt others when you hide your true thoughts and feelings from them.

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I mean what is the real reason?

What exactly goes through your head?

Say for instance, as a Libra, I know you can talk to someone you don't respect all day but what does the fact of someone not being interested in talking to you cut you so deep?

Posted by strawberrykush
Uncomfortable situations are fun. They bring the darkness to light. Most people won't ignore someone else for no good reason. There is always a reason.. and whether it's something major or minor in life the least you can do is let me know..

But you're the one that's uncomfortable.

I do see Libras get very vindictive/passive-aggressive when they're ignored.

Why do you personalize being ignored?

Does being ignored make you feel.....it seems to me....Guilty?

@LiveAndLove Oh I'm not talking about in romantic relationships.

Posted by xEUx
I think it hurts most people in general to be ignored. We're social creatures.

What is your sun sign?

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Posted by Pearls
@LiveAndLove Oh I'm not talking about in romantic relationships.

Ahh ok. Just in general? I don't really mind at all when people are in there own worlds. I'm frequently in mine.

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Hmm....must be your other placements or something.

I noticed this hurts Geminis a lot too.

Posted by xXxAliciaXxX
When people who I don't care about or people I only care about a little ignore me, it doesn't bother me at all.

If it's someone who I really cared about, it bothers me but not deep enough for me to dwell on.

I'll reach out once and ask what's going on and if I get nothing after that, I'm just done.

I forget about them very quickly after that.

Air signs love verbal communication. They are greatly stimulated by it.

That's probably why it bothers them so much.

Okay so this is the part I read, and that's not it.

I'm not looking for more assumptions but the actual truth.

@xXxAliciaXxX - Actually I agree with you but that's not what it is.

No need to be hurt about it. It's not that serious...

xXxAliciaXxX - Yeah you're hurt.

@xXxAliciaXxX - Yeahhh so I'm going to stop replying to you 'cause this is weird...

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Posted by Pearls
@xXxAliciaXxX - Yeahhh so I'm going to stop replying to you 'cause this is weird...

Great. You should have stopped a lot sooner.

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@xXxAliciaXxX - Okay.

Are you ignoring me or are you in your own world? 😉

@xXxAliciaXxX - Just ignore what I just said. How I replied initially in the original post/that quote is who I am but that's making me get beside my goal which is the reason for the post.

Disregard what I said to you because my problem is bigger than going back and forth with you on this thread.

I just really.... don't care right now. I'm really not interested at this moment.

I hope I communicated that clearly.

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Are you ignoring me or are you in your own world? 😉

Ha! Charming. But seriously I'm looking for answers.

I asked another Libra here and just from her replies....

I'm taking from it......

Does it make you feel guilty?

Posted by Pearls

Posted by LibraLovesHim
Are you ignoring me or are you in your own world? 😉

Ha! Charming. But seriously I'm looking for answers.

I asked another Libra here and just from her replies....

I'm taking from it......

Does it make you feel guilty?

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Do I feel guilty if someone is consciously ignoring me, no. I don't like things lingering in the air.

If you're in your own world-and I know you well enough to know thats just whats happening, its absolutely fine. Probably because I do the same. But if people try to bring me out of it-approach me or talk to me I wouldn't intentionally ignore them.

Posted by LibraLovesHim

Do I feel guilty if someone is consciously ignoring me, no. I don't like things lingering in the air.

If you're in your own world-and I know you well enough to know thats just whats happening, its absolutely fine. Probably because I do the same. But if people try to bring me out of it-approach me or talk to me I wouldn't intentionally ignore them.

Lol oh waiiiit. You're an air sign

but you're not included in this LOL

You have a Cap moon....I do too. It's like talking to the mirror when I speak to another cap moon about this. What you wrote looks like something I would write. Not too many of us get this (taking offense to someone's silence).

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Posted by LibraLovesHim

Do I feel guilty if someone is consciously ignoring me, no. I don't like things lingering in the air.

If you're in your own world-and I know you well enough to know thats just whats happening, its absolutely fine. Probably because I do the same. But if people try to bring me out of it-approach me or talk to me I wouldn't intentionally ignore them.

Lol oh waiiiit. You're an air sign

but you're not included in this LOL

You have a Cap moon....I do too. It's like talking to the mirror when I speak to another cap moon about this. What you wrote looks like something I would write. Not too many of us get this (taking offense to someone's silence).

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Oh well i'll just go back to my tea and toast then :-P *off to scour the cap forum*

@LibraLovesHim - Lol thank youuu though

Hmm reading through this thread, maybe a good question is, what's the best time efficient way to get an air sign to leave you alone and not offend them especially if time is something really important? Serious question, not meant as an offense.

@rabidtalker - Ha, idk

There's a lot of "Please don't get offended..." questions I want to ask by different signs though.

Does ignoring them also include going quiet or not wanting to answer some of their nosy questions, particularly when you don't know them very well? I wonder if they take it as ignoring... I just had this issue with my upstairs neighbour when he first moved in. I was coming out of an intense anxiety phase and I have certain topics that people consider every day stuff like "what do you do where do you work" and even "full time or part time" as though my worth is being calculated by my answers, but I don't like to talk about it until I know them better.

I found it funny that as soon as I turned and asked him those questions he looked a bit surprised. Probably due to my tone. LOL.

I dunno he's weird. I am sure he thinks I am fucking weird, and both of our versions of weird don't mesh well together. I miss my old neighbours.

Ignore me all you like, I refuse to be