So my ex and I have been broken up for a year and 6 months now and I was making terrific progress throughout the time. She had found herself a new bf while her and I were talking about us. In short terms, she basically kept me as her 2nd option, and when she found the guy she wanted she tossed me away. Throughout the one year and 6 months we had been broken up she was going out with her new bf but replied to me when I wished her a happy new year. Then in the beginning of this year we started to slowly talk more and more until we finally met up in person. Well she had told me that she was still with her new bf so we agreed to not see each other. Then she contacted me later and we met up, talked, and then she told me that this was the last time we were ever gonna talk or meet because she was gonna start a family with her bf. I respectfully told her I accept her decision and just hugged her and left. Then recently, she called me from a private number (which is how she contacted me before). Funny enough though, I had been thinking about her too so I was kinda shocked when I picked up the phone and heard her on the other side. Well, again we met up and she basically told me she had NOBODY she can confine in, and that she had been dreaming about me, thinking about me, and that she would catch herself almost calling her bf by my name. We only got to talk seriously for like an hour but the matter at hand was that when I asked her why she called, she basically told me that she missed me, she realized that she took me for granted and that she is tired of her relationship because her bf is a dick to her and never wants to do anything. But weirdly enough, she told me that even if she were to break up with her bf, that she wouldn't go back out with me. So I'm fairly confused how she can tell me that I'm always on her mind but that she's not willing to give us another shot. Can any Virgo women give me some insight. I've tried to contact her but she still has me blocked off every social media app and I don't remember her ##

Any opinion is a great one, please :'c

@Lust

Tbh I think it's the fact that we were best friends before anything else so it was hard for me to let go of both my girl friend and my best friend

My guess..... Depending on wht im goin through with my gemini friend.... Maybe she feels something for you but something about you is making her not able to be in a relationship with you.. Do you have any idea what that could be?

I'm not a virgo woman, and perhaps you should ask on their board...

I think she's stringing you along until the next best thing comes... I could be wrong tho, but that's what it sounds like to me.

Posted by misslissa
I'm not a virgo woman, and perhaps you should ask on their board...

I think she's stringing you along until the next best thing comes... I could be wrong tho, but that's what it sounds like to me.

Yeh could be that too.. But shes not stringing him.. Hes the one who cant get away.. She already told him they wont get back together

Posted by TxOgal

Posted by misslissa
I'm not a virgo woman, and perhaps you should ask on their board...

I think she's stringing you along until the next best thing comes... I could be wrong tho, but that's what it sounds like to me.

Yeh could be that too.. But shes not stringing him.. Hes the one who cant get away.. She already told him they wont get back together

click to expand

True. But it sounds like she wants at least a companion till then. Sounds like she doesn't like being alone. She doesn't have to make a commitment to get that from him, cuz he's hung up on her. After a year and a 1/2.... he should have moved on himself! He's wrong for allowing her and she's wrong for her actions.

@TxOgal

I honestly don't know, she told me with the most sincere voice "I don't recognize the person I'm talking to, you've matured so much"

If anything when we met up I did mention one of my coworkers I've been talking to a lot. So maybe she felt like my feelings for her weren't as strong as she thought they were?

Posted by AlantheGemini
@TxOgal

I honestly don't know, she told me with the most sincere voice "I don't recognize the person I'm talking to, you've matured so much"

If anything when we met up I did mention one of my coworkers I've been talking to a lot. So maybe she felt like my feelings for her weren't as strong as she thought they were?

No sorry i dont think so.. dont try to analyze her words. It doesnt seem to mean anything.. I know geminis cant help but analyze every detail (sorry for generalizing but its true)

I had a lot of time to think after her and I had spoken, and tbh I had been a fool all along. There's not a day where I'm ashamed of still being hung up on my ex. It's a sad thing because what some of you said was right. Maybe I have matured but not the way I should have. I still need a long way to go. Thank you for your input.

@Lust ; as harsh as I kinda think you sounded, you're absolutely right. I over anyone and think everything so I basically let myself down by getting my hopes up for something that's not even there

Posted by AlantheGemini
I had a lot of time to think after her and I had spoken, and tbh I had been a fool all along. There's not a day where I'm ashamed of still being hung up on my ex. It's a sad thing because what some of you said was right. Maybe I have matured but not the way I should have. I still need a long way to go. Thank you for your input.

@Lust ; as harsh as I kinda think you sounded, you're absolutely right. I over anyone and think everything so I basically let myself down by getting my hopes up for something that's not even there

I understand ... My gemini friend told me the same thing yesterday... How hes still hung up on me even after me telling him there will be nothing more than friendship.. I told him this feeling will pass but he says no says he knows himself. Anyway i really hope you get over it cause i believe there will be someone worthy.

I'll have to say