Anxious much?

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by Geminihope on Monday, November 17, 2014 and has 18 replies.

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@Geminihope
11 Years

Am I the only one that gets super anxious when your love interest hasn't contacted you all day? I take this personally. My thoughts start going crazy thinking it was something I did to upset them or something I didn't do.

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@KittenLaRouge
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Posted by Geminihope
Am I the only one that gets super anxious when your love interest hasn't contacted you all day? I take this personally. My thoughts start going crazy thinking it was something I did to upset them or something I didn't do.

+1 million gemini moon we need communication

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@Geminihope
11 Years

d with a Cancer man and his need to live in quiet some days drives me batty! Maybe I should reconsider and date another gemini! Lol

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Posted by Geminihope
Am I the only one that gets super anxious when your love interest hasn't contacted you all day? I take this personally. My thoughts start going crazy thinking it was something I did to upset them or something I didn't do.

+1 million gemini moon we need communication

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Posted by Geminihope
I am involved with a Cancer man and his need to live in quiet some days drives me batty! Maybe I should reconsider and date another gemini! Lol

Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by Geminihope
Am I the only one that gets super anxious when your love interest hasn't contacted you all day? I take this personally. My thoughts start going crazy thinking it was something I did to upset them or something I didn't do.

+1 million gemini moon we need communication


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lol +1 silence drives me insane 😆

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@Geminihope
11 Years

s the worse!! Want to hurt a gemini, go silent!! _—

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Posted by Geminihope
I am involved with a Cancer man and his need to live in quiet some days drives me batty! Maybe I should reconsider and date another gemini! Lol

Posted by KittenLaRouge
Posted by Geminihope
Am I the only one that gets super anxious when your love interest hasn't contacted you all day? I take this personally. My thoughts start going crazy thinking it was something I did to upset them or something I didn't do.

+1 million gemini moon we need communication

lol +1 silence drives me insane 😆

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@Geminihope
11 Years

That is one thing I know is also true for me. I think it's because we are so adaptive. I think our symbol should have been a chameleon since we can change so quickly. If I get involved with a man and he exposes me to his hobbies or taste in music,
those also become my new interests. If a man complains he wants more from me then I give it! It's kinda pathetic in some ways but I think it also shows how deeply we love that we really want to make our partner pleased with us.

Posted by RainDancer88
Connection is in blood. I can.rearrange.my.life.to be his. But it's not.healthy

Its imperative I feel safe in my.roaming.waua

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@Geminihope
11 Years

Me too! I don't know why we torture ourselves! I know I am really good to blame myself and think I am not good enough, pretty enough, successful enough etc. It's a vicious head game.

Posted by Blue18
And then I get very very emotional. :x

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@SCORPIOGYRL
11 Years

My Gemini hubs will call me 21 times literally for nothing. Without shame. I asked him if we could limit our phone convo to 2-3 daily unless there was necessary communication that we needed to discuss re important matters like our kids or an immediate issue. He literally takes a deep breath and says "ill try not to call you anymore today but if you want to call me please don't hesitate". It can be very smothering. It makes me feel bad because I don't need to talk to him as much as he wants to talk to me and I feel as if I'm depriving him. He gets super anxious and tries to fight it then calls and apologizes saying "I can't help it I just want to hear your voice". Smh. It has become quite pathetic and quite a turnoff. Its hard to tell him because I don't want to hurt his feelings. So I sent him a screenshot how many times he calls a day and asked if he could just call less because it's just a bit too much. So yes I think Gemini gets anxious for communication. Just relax.

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@Geminihope
11 Years

@scorpiogyrl Aww it means he really loves you. I was married to a libra and he smothered me. I never felt I had to have daily contact with him while he was at work. I often only saw him in the evening. I thought I loved him but I guess I didn't really because I didn't feel a pull towards him and I didn't miss him. Eventually he went off and got attention from another woman. So if your husband feels he needs a lot of contact with you, it means you still float his boat. _??

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@duchesslibro
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Gemini moon here. During the dating phase, yes 100% . We've been married almost two years now and I'm ok if he's busy during work day and not communicating if nothing important to say. As long as he responds to me in a timely manner and converses when we are physically together, conversation at dinnertime is important to me now.

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@Geminihope
11 Years

Well I dont initiate contact with him. We aren't together but he knows I have feelings for him. I expected him to run but he hasn't. He has still texted me at least every other day since I told him but it still kills me! _??'

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@duchesslibro
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It's so interesting, Gemini and techie communication. I remember a Gem Sun ex bf like ten years ago, texting was not really a big thing. Nextel ridiculousness was more common! Lol! This Gem guy though, he was all about texting and I just wasnt ready to jump on the train. Probably why he dumped me. Lol

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@Geminihope
11 Years

Haha yea! He is all about texting. He never calls me. In fact the only time he has called me was when there was an emergency with my water leaking or when we had it out one night about where this was heading. But he just prefers texting all the time. He usually texts me all day long but then we had a hiccup for about 5 weeks where I walked away from him so things aren't right back on that level yet.

Posted by duchesslibro
It's so interesting, Gemini and techie communication. I remember a Gem Sun ex bf like ten years ago, texting was not really a big thing. Nextel ridiculousness was more common! Lol! This Gem guy though, he was all about texting and I just wasnt ready to jump on the train. Probably why he dumped me. Lol