Cancers and Geminis

Do they work out? I seem to have tons of Gemini friends and not a single planet in Gemini. I always feel like a big brother love you guys!

A male crab and lady twin probably has a better chance than the reverse.
I have seen it, although the crab moods will tend to exacerbate the twin and her moods.

Had a 4 year relationship with a Cancer woman up until last November. Was going to ask her to marry me until I found out she was doing the dirty on me. She'd cheated several times over the 4 years and I kept forgiving and she kept taking advantage of it and doing it. She was moody, bossy, would drop her bundle in public if she couldn't get her way, deceptive, secretive and manipulative. She also had a problem with admitting or accepting her faults and couldnt take responsibility for the things she'd do. It's taken the last 12 months of hindsight to see a lot of these things. It looks a lot different when you're in it and you're blinded by your love for someone.

Gave her my all, was faithful, sacrificed a lot for her and her happiness but could never seem to keep her satisfied.

Pretty much turned me off Cancers forever.

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Posted by SapphireGem
Had a 4 year relationship with a Cancer woman up until last November. Was going to ask her to marry me until I found out she was doing the dirty on me. She'd cheated several times over the 4 years and I kept forgiving and she kept taking advantage of it and doing it. She was moody, bossy, would drop her bundle in public if she couldn't get her way, deceptive, secretive and manipulative. She also had a problem with admitting or accepting her faults and couldnt take responsibility for the things she'd do. It's taken the last 12 months of hindsight to see a lot of these things. It looks a lot different when you're in it and you're blinded by your love for someone.

Gave her my all, was faithful, sacrificed a lot for her and her happiness but could never seem to keep her satisfied.

Pretty much turned me off Cancers forever.

Hope you're doing better...Cancer men usually scare me off..they get all lovey, dovey, kissy, huggy, wanna marry the first month...I don't trust people who jump like that....

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Doing much better... fallen madly for a Virgo and totally forgotten about the Cancer... the Cancer made herself very easy to forget with her "im perfect and have done nothing wrong" attitude (which I seem to encounter with a lot of other Cancers I know) and I have no acceptance or tolerance for that sort of crap, especially when she WILLFULLY chose to do the wrong thing.

And here I am, the Gemini, the one who's "supposed" to be the unfaithful one, the one who's "supposed" to flirt with everyone, lead people on, be secretive, have several "on the side"... and I was faithful from day one until the end. Just goes to show some stereotypes are completely and utterly incorrect. Sensitive, sweet little Cancer ain't so sensitive and sweet after all...

Happy to chase this Virgo now... she's so mysterious...

domz - Im a June Cancer the 23rd...Some people call that the cusp. Tho I got Moon and Rising in Virgo, maybe that brings a Mercury connection. Ive never dated a Gemini or had sex with one. Pretty close tho, but it never works out.

Sapphire - you had you truely a kunt of a Cancer for a partner, I feel for you. It must be easy to forget a woman who played with your heart and emotions like that. I dated a Scorpio for 2 years, he still runs across my mind. Can't get him out of it. Made me crazy, tricked me into the mental ward...All that fun stuff of dating a psychotic person.

I dont think im perfect, far from it lol Im a Space cadet and belive in Astrology. My Gemini friend is obessed with a Virgo, and she gets burned often. The Virgo cant seem to stay outta jail and abuse herion.

My BFF and my sister are both Cancers. One is 7/17 the other is 7/19. One of my exes is 7/18. And another is 7/3.
Funny thing is that my BFF and my sister are EXACTLY alike. It's really scary.

Anyways um the first Cancer guy I dated whose bday is 7/3 was a complete liar and a cheat.
The second on 7/18 Ive known him since I was 20 and I am 33 now. We dated it was pretty good.
Honestly he was way too boring for me, super duper laid back. We are still friends but he just married an Aries. HA good luck on that one. Even though it's funny how he was still calling me to get with me when he was with her (which I didnt do).

Most Cancer males that I have met are bat shit crazy. Mostly like self entitled egoists. I work with two and they are fucking psycho LOL!

I dont think a Gemini male and a Cancer female would work out very well. My BFF has talked to a few Gem guys and it just doesn't work out. She's way too clingy for them. But vice versa Gem females and Cancer males meh maybe. Just for me they are too boring, once I get past their weird ass ego issues. Super selfish people.

Anyways thats my .02.

Most of my friends are Cancers. I love them! I see a lot of Cancer/Gem friendships.. Relationships even.
I don't know how those Geminis do it, honestly ..lol.
Things are wondrous as friends, but my god o_o .. emotionally, Cancers just frustrate me.
Both M/F Cancer friends all have their Venus/Mars in Leo and their Moon in either Leo or Aries.
They all act ridiculously with who they are "seeing" at the time('seeing' because they never seem to be in a relationship for long). Hopping from person to person to person and are so nonchalantly casually fishing around for their next victim.
I know too much I think 😢
I'd still cuddle them to death though >.>

Lol Xin. They're definitely the most selfish sign.

Things I've noticed about every one of my Cancer friends:
- They'd rather call then text.
- If you text/call they'll answer when most convenient.
- They're always doing something and they won't just make time for you if they're preoccupied.(apart from Leo cusp cancer, she's secretly my favorite and she'll ALWAYS answer and make time no matter what... Sometimes, it's a little TMI going on and she really shouldn't have answered though -____- 😛 )

I wonder how many times on average the everyday cancer gets called selfish in a lifetime.
Lucky for them, they're such a bundle of happiness to be around that I can get past it.

Posted by Xin
My BFF and my sister are both Cancers. One is 7/17 the other is 7/19. One of my exes is 7/18. And another is 7/3.
Funny thing is that my BFF and my sister are EXACTLY alike. It's really scary.

Anyways um the first Cancer guy I dated whose bday is 7/3 was a complete liar and a cheat.
The second on 7/18 Ive known him since I was 20 and I am 33 now. We dated it was pretty good.
Honestly he was way too boring for me, super duper laid back. We are still friends but he just married an Aries. HA good luck on that one. Even though it's funny how he was still calling me to get with me when he was with her (which I didnt do).

Most Cancer males that I have met are bat shit crazy. Mostly like self entitled egoists. I work with two and they are fucking psycho LOL!

I dont think a Gemini male and a Cancer female would work out very well. My BFF has talked to a few Gem guys and it just doesn't work out. She's way too clingy for them. But vice versa Gem females and Cancer males meh maybe. Just for me they are too boring, once I get past their weird ass ego issues. Super selfish people.

Anyways thats my .02.

Hi

I'm intrigued by your comments on Gem females and Cancer males being a possibility. I have recently met a Cancerian and he is confusing to say the least. Could you elaborate on your statement re relationships between the two. It may help give me so insight. Also when you speak of the super selfish people and the ego issues - this guy is so diffident low self esteem, insecure about his looks, scared of loving I think yet we have a great physical connection——??

Posted by LunarMaiden
A male crab and lady twin probably has a better chance than the reverse.
I have seen it, although the crab moods will tend to exacerbate the twin and her moods.

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Hi
I'm a Gemini female involved (or at least I think I am) with a Cancerian male ??
Can you give me some advice on how this works ??

Cancers...ugh

i'm half gem/ half cancer due to my placements. i don't know if it helps, but i have an eternal battle going on internally....

Posted by SophiaGem

Posted by LunarMaiden
A male crab and lady twin probably has a better chance than the reverse.
I have seen it, although the crab moods will tend to exacerbate the twin and her moods.

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Hi
I'm a Gemini female involved (or at least I think I am) with a Cancerian male ??
Can you give me some advice on how this works ??

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I'd love to help sugah.

My co-worker dated a Cancer guy. He was very generous with her and liked to give her gifts at work.
She was kind of miffed because it embarrassed her. She wants to be the strong career girl but around him she was girly and soft.

You will need patience and strength yet remain feminine.
Be yourself but don't make fun of him or laugh at him when he is trying to be serious.
Don't be abrasive either.
I have been pursued by a Cancer guy before. My sister said I was like a kitten around him.
I guess that may be the key. He described me as strong once.
So strong yet like a kitten.

Posted by SapphireGem
Had a 4 year relationship with a Cancer woman up until last November. Was going to ask her to marry me until I found out she was doing the dirty on me. She'd cheated several times over the 4 years and I kept forgiving and she kept taking advantage of it and doing it. She was moody, bossy, would drop her bundle in public if she couldn't get her way, deceptive, secretive and manipulative. She also had a problem with admitting or accepting her faults and couldnt take responsibility for the things she'd do. It's taken the last 12 months of hindsight to see a lot of these things. It looks a lot different when you're in it and you're blinded by your love for someone.

Gave her my all, was faithful, sacrificed a lot for her and her happiness but could never seem to keep her satisfied.

Pretty much turned me off Cancers forever.

Awww I'm sorry you had a spoiled Crab. Sometimes too much of a good thing is taken for granted.
Don't count us all out, many of us are loyal, loving and faithful.

I loved a Cancer woman so much, she then left me and killed my soul.

Cancer here, just got out of one a few months ago that lasted a year and a half.
THEY DO NOT WORK OUT
The cancer will ultimately get ripped too shit and the gemini will move on in a flash, she stabbed at me the day after and said some nasty shit when I was just giving myself space. While she demanded for numbers and things that weren't even hers in the first place. I didn't even bother replying.

I think geminis are GREAT for FRIENDS ONLY relationships. Anything past that and you're getting into the danger zone.
In most cases.

Posted by GemStar05
Cancers...ugh

Short answer, nope.