Capricorn crazy in love and confused by gemini man

Im super shocked to see that geminis admires cap i am a cap female with the craziest i wanna say awkward love story with a gemini male. We meet in 2012 and i guess he got out of a bad break up and he was so mean to me first meeting me he knew nothing about me but found ways to find out things about me. We both lived in fl and soon after i left and i thought ever hear from him again and then he would slowly appear when he would visit my state he would take me out real nice never try to step boundaries but everytime he would hint he wanted something serious i never took it serious. We always played a tom and jerry peter pan and wendy. We would get close and then he would disappear. Eventually i got tired and started dating someone and still like clock work he would pop up and always say if u werent taken or how he wants us to have a family. Yet i brushed it off because i knew he would disappear again. He disappeared for about 2 years i completely forgot kinda about him but since i met him was crazy about him.

Yet sadly enough the last visit brought up so much emotions physically and we always connect ppl say our signs dont match but he is everything i am inthe inside and wish someone would have the courage to bring out of me. Caps are not dull we need the right ppl.

But to continue the last time we saw eachother he told me he want getting any younger he knows what i want and need and he can give that to me he wants a family to get married etc he told me he was serious. But see i wwas in tbe process of ending a relationshup which i told him and i told him how i wanted us to build and how i know were different but i want us to slowly get into seeing where this goes for a few days and weeks he stood around. I finally managed to rnd my situation and i told him that even tho right now i wanted to focus on me and being the women he needs cause geminis have high standard i wanted it to be with him but i needed him to let me in more there so much about him i dont know just what he gives n i know it has to deal with his ex but

My thing is a man who brings me atound family keeps popping up saying these things and now its going on 4 mths no word since i sent him that deep msg just left me on read.

What does that mean?

Why is he playing games?

Am i dealing with an immature gemini?

He told me he loved me first and once i felt ready to take on this feelings he simply turns to peter pan. Sometimes i feel he never wanted me. I dont know where to go from here



I have never meant someone quite like him the way we connect and when good can talk for hours. Its just different maybe am just not understandin him

Sorry im a newbie to thus

Posted by littlenanobyte
I can try to help. I think it's pretty clear that his words are not meeting his actions, and you should listen to his actions... they are the most important. He is saying he is serious and wants a family on one hand, and on the other he is still pulling the disappearing act. He is immature and not ready. A part of him may be, but a bigger part is not.

I think that he is keeping you around in the distance as a backup plan. I would be willing to bet large amounts of money that he is pursuing someone else.

What is he doing in these months of no communication?

Does your curiosity get the best of you sometimes?

Do a bit of research... find the truth... set your self free.

Thanks for your response before we stop talking so suddenly he was depressed due to fracturing his ankle so he basically shut his self off from the world he decided to stay away from social media because he claimed he didnt like seeing others out having fun while he had to be stuck in bed in a cast healing. He was injured in late june and was set to be able to walk again last sept early oct. Duringhia recovery we talked like every day but i knew the injury was getting to him.



Im not sure if maybe i picked he wrong time to bring up something so deep. Ive notice he cant deal with too much at once or he goes into a shel

I do still date and focus on me but i just wanted to hear others point of view

And this is caps always falling for the bad guys ...y ...I say because deep down they bad themselves somebody just needs to press the right Buttons...and when they do the cap leaves that partner...so bad attracts bad .

Light over powers darkness and thats why caps hide they hate light.