Cold feet

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by AnnaPhototaker on Thursday, January 10, 2013 and has 5 replies.

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@AnnaPhototaker
13 Years

Are Geminis known to have cold feet?
The "I really want something but take steps back when I'm close to get it" kind. Not the "I need socks" kind 🙂

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@guccigemini55
14 Years500+ Posts

Im guilty of that.. my friends joke that i should have been born a man, I think ive actually gone through that phase with everyone of my relationships :/ before it, soon after starting it, then i have to really push myself through that phase and tell myself ITS JUST THAT PHASE AGAIN! because i knew i liked them alot to start with, then comes the proposal and its WEE! WOO! then oh gawd :/ Ive stretched out the longest engagement, yeeks I know!! and im glad I did actually.. whats in my head is, if i marry its once and for keeps, an ideal yep, maybe its the aqua in me?? maybe its the gemini a sure double wammy of the need to feel free, but a longing also, forever seeking my soul mate, a girl made to run wild and free and someone just as wild and free to run with me, not to cage me or clip my wings.

Am i still like this? well hope not, I will find out with the next guy I date if I dont get cld feet before we actually get to a date 🙂

.. thats my algebra

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@guccigemini55
14 Years500+ Posts

Posted by misslissa
i'm not a male, but i've been known to procrastinate... for the plain fact of possibly getting hurt. *shrugs*

I think if so it would probably be more for that reason now, so this is why ive slowed down on relationships/ dating .. i want to be friends first and i dont want to hurt anyone either..

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@gemjam
13 Years

Personally, I go/work for whatever it is I want. However, when it comes to dating, I often find myself guilty of taking pleasure in the "chase". Even if im a woman, I enjoy the mental stimulation from strategizing in order to reel someone in. Then when he's "in",I relax or sometimes lose interest all together.

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@GemiGem
14 Years

I am. If I love a woman I can take forever to make a move. I care too much. Thats why we get cold feet.