Do Geminis like the chase?

Do you like to chase then after play hard to get? Or if you are interested do you persuade the person 100% ?

I ask this because this Gemini and i have started back communicating, we talked in the phone and face timed he even asked if we could go the same night we started communicating, we arranged to go on a date Thursday. He told me to text him today and I did around the night time but he wasn't so into it like he was yesterday so I stopped replying maybe he was just busy but I don't want to push him away if he is still interested but is just playing hard to get again.

he asked if we could go on the date the same day we started back talking*

Agreed. Dont chase. Not sure about how male Geminis are but I believe they prefer to chase than be chased. I am a female Gem and I do enjoy being chased to an extent. DONT overdo it.

If he didnt respond as eager as usual, just let it be and ignore him a little. He'll wonder whats happened and will get back in your good books.

Believe me, if a Gemini is interested in you, you'll know. We're not shy about that (even the ones with Cancer placements). If we're making regular contact, taking your calls, responding to your texts (in a timely manner) and communicating with you often even if its about basically nothing, then consider that Gemini interested.

I personaly dont think we play hard to get. If we like you, you'll know. Either by our actions or we'll just admit it to you... eventually.

If we dont like you, you wont be hearing from us regularly. Even if we're extremely busy and we're interested, we will ALWAYS find a way to communicate with you. One way or another.

Dont nag him or complain that he didnt text back as eager or as quick. Just let it be. Give it a few days and half ignore him and see where that leads you. Come back and re post!

Gemini hasnt contacted me and our date is suppose to be tomorrow. Should I text him asking if our date is still on?

I did and he said "Yea probaly" not to excited ....

I told him the movie we wanted to see isnt showing he said "oh shiittt" so I said "Lol yea all I see is Despicable me 2 and Grown ups 2. We can try another time if you want. "

Idk if I'm being to available but if hes not into me anymore I'm giving him a chance to leave and then we dont have to talk everrrr again lol.

I like to chase and to be chased. If I am chasing too, that means I find u interesting.

we liked to be chased and a challenge so definitely hard to get 🙂

Soooo me being impulsive I ended up telling the Gem off because I thought he was trying to flake on our date, I told him to delete my number (and other things) He responded saying just because I didnt text back and I said I didnt have time for games. I came to my senses after an realized I just messed everything up. Texted him again telling him to keep things between us and he said of course. Then I texted him again and said sorry for going crazy. No response. A couple days later I asked is we could start over he didnt respond for 3 days replying "what do you mean start over." I said he seemed like a good guy and I shouldnt have acted that way. Another 4 days go by and he texts me at 2 in the morning saying "yeaa you kinda forced it but yea we can be cool". So now I'm back in his good graces. I'm suppose to watch him skateboard one of these days and its my choice when so I think that will work out better since he said just let him know when.

Posted by GEM20
honestly we are waaaay to fickle for most average people. we don't even know what we want most of the time. best piece of advice i could give you on this is start ignoring him back a little. that always does it for me. i could also say it on behalf of most gems, that we can't stand being disregarded on any front.

+1 Very very true.
I cannot STAND being chased. Or someone who is way too available. Makes me wonder how clingy you get in the relationship if you are already doing it when we aren't.

Posted by eskay
we liked to be chased and a challenge so definitely hard to get 🙂

Only to be chased by ones we approve and I love challenges. But being chased by anyone overly and overtly turns me off big time.

NO, I do NOT like to be chased. When a guy is too eager, I respond by suspecting I have somehow become responsible for his feelings. It's stifling, and I'll try to get away. It doesn't matter how good the relationship could have been, because I won't be around to find out.

Now, COURTING, rather than chasing, is a different matter. If a man wants to hang out with me to see if there is chemistry, and if he wants to do it with a no-emotional-strings-attached attitude, then that's great. He needs to allow me a pressure-free space to make up my mind. It's very important that I make up my mind that I want him before he starts injecting emotion into things or having expectations of me.

i like to defend , but with 'attack is the best defense strategy .. as long as the other one starts i ll be happy to keep start running.. either direction