@Summer Night
17 Years
Gemguy Commits? That just isn't natural!
That's fine gemgal.
I just didn't want to go into more detail. We have been apart for 4 weeks, and yesterday he came over to move his things out.
I can't figure out what T.O means
whats your sign summer?
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No, not commits suicide, well, actually, from a gemguy perspective, it could feel like suicide.
My gemguy, came buy with trucks and trailers to pick up his stuff. Vavush, it was over with him, over, over. Done, history. End of chapter, end of book, close it.
I still had some pangs of, am I making a mistake, will I look back and be confident. But my answer was, I need to have commitment or I'm moving on after three years.
I got dolled up and had my house spiffy clean. Why, I don't know, maybe a little pride, maybe a little spite, and a little, see-what-you-are-gonna-miss-out-on-buddy kinda thang.
So, he walks in the door and I immediate was glad to see him in his coveralls looking so adorable, and immediately wants to talk about what we can do to stay together. I told him flat out, commitment. For three years he has been like, " I do", "I'm not sure", "I need more time", he just had this, there-so-many-other-girls-I-haven't-met-yet-kinda-gemini-thang, if you know what I mean.
I won't give anymore detail out of a sense of decency, but we started kissing and the rest was history. Our 3yr relationship might have a chance after all. Well, maybe the 9th house was right after all. Maybe the shallow assesment "Doomed for Disaster" forgot about the power of true love. In three years we have broken up about 17 times, well, actually maybe a few more...who's counting.
Doomed or Hopeful. We've decided to think about it for a couple of weeks in T.O. away from each other, and decide to move forward or part ways cleanly by my request.
Well, we had a great work day together while he dug out some of my equipment out of the frozen snow, we spent the night together and have plans to go out to dinner tonight. I know it doesn't sound like time apart, but for a couple that has lived together for 3 yrs, if you're not living in the same house, it's definitely a T.O.
Wish us luck!