Gemini man super confusing

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Princess420
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7 Years

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So this Gemini guy I just recently reconnected with us so on and off , he recently broke things off wih a sag 🤦🏽‍♀️I know because she ended up walking in on us before we even started dating he handled he situation well . We’ve dating now since oct or fucking idk really it’s super confusing we went on a couple dates and at first it was amazing like perfect bf material then he dead changes starts being distant , starts being very on and off . So I gave him his time and Space everytime . id tell him off also from time to time , continuously when I walk away he comes back or I dream of him . Recently me and him stopped speaking for a week I blocked him and I for sure thought it was done , and Valentine’s Day he texts me saying he got me a gift and card. Then we met up with one another , ended up having sex . I know he wanted to see me the next day but complications and now today since the night before he’s gone completely ghost no text back no phone call and he was calling me everyday . Checking in . This happens like every fucking Sunday . Deep down I think he has different choices
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HippieGem
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8 Years1,000+ Posts

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I agree with Nano. Gemini’s are all really different, but have some characteristics in common no matter how much we differ imo. We all need space and don’t like to feel restricted.

But that doesn’t mean we don’t want stability and crave the safety of feeling grounded. I’ll always make time for the people I really love and can’t imagine not being in my life. Which is mostly family and my S/O.

Even when I’m in a “ignore the world and I don’t care about anyone mood”, I won’t ignore them.

I do think Gemini men are the same in this regard. If he’s hot and cold, best to put him on the back burner rather than feeling like you’re stuck on it yourself waiting to hear from him and see how he feels. I think you know. If he was sure, you wouldn’t be able to get rid of him.

Good luck and just take care of you 🙂
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Moonbutter
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It’s normal for there to a short period of confusion when you guys are trying to figure things out between eachother. However, that period has come and gone so now the confusion you are feeling is between your head and heart. Please listen to your head(gut) on this one. He’s not the one. There is someone better for you that will not leave you in constant confusion.