Gemini out of control, help!

Please help me understand this gemini.

My ex is a Gemini and since we broke up a week ago he has been talking ill of me nonstop to all his friends. Going out drinking and partying and talking and talking about me to everyone. Contacted some of his exes. He tells his friend he's never going back together with me but he can't stop talking about me! He also asked a friend to spy on me. He sounds so upset and angry. I asked him to stop but he denies everything and calls me crazy when I have proofs of what he does. He's totally out of control. I am an Aquarius, all I want is for him to stop. What can I do?

Ps: I am the one who broke up with him.

Oh yea he salty lol...just stop all contact. Completely disappear from his life. He'll get over it someday

He's definitely not over you. And I agree with yung_wisegem. Don't even bother giving him any attention. That's exactly what he's trying to get from you.

Do what aquas do besy and completely dissapear. Block him and shit him out 100% . He'll definitely freak out and probably go a little more crazy but will eventually (in a while) get the point and move on.

I myself can get a little crazy (the way he is acting) if someone ended it with me and I still loved them/didn't want it to end.

Best way to deal with my crazy shit is to just block me out of your life. It burns deep but it's the only way I get the point...this seems to work with other gems I know also.

Haha my ex is an Aquarius but he has a bunch of Gemini in his chart. He was just like that. I think they don't know how to deal with lingering feelings so they cope with hate/anger rather than sadness.

Ha ha ha, I'm really sorry for laughing, but that just shows how weak he is. Don't take it seriously. Laugh it off. That will enrage him further and make him try to do what best he can to attract your attention. Soon, he'll get tired of it and he'll find someone and you could keep going your way.

live graciously and let him see what he is missing out... not that he has a chance.

Treat him like a toddler-- don't give him any attention.

My ex Gemini would literally try EVERYTHING to get my attention when we ended things. We were on and off quite a bit-- but if he even thought I was TALKING to another guy, he would call me a whore and so many other things.

He would spread nasty rumors about me to his friends-- when we lived next door to each other he'd come into my apartment and start a vicious argument and then leave but continue to fight via text, so I would storm into his apartment and down to his room to finish it but later realized that he did this to make me look crazy to his roommate.

He said so many insane things about me that when I came down to visit after our daughter was born, one of the guys he worked with actually apologized for his previous opinion of me and that I was nothing like what my ex described.

They have the tendency to try to make themselves appear as the better person in a break up.

Just walk-- give them no attention-- they will fade away.