Gemini woman ignoring me lol

This Gemini woman I've been talking to for almost a year acts so friggin shy around me the only way I can get her to talk is if I talk to her first. I haven't seen her in little over a month she was with another woman I can barely get any eye contact out of the Gemini.

Most Gemini woman I know don't act shy around guys this one I usually only get giggles out of her when she's alone she's a little more braver when she with another woman around.

It still puzzles me how a Gemini woman can be so quiet around a guy most Gemini women I know its not common for them to be so quiet. I haven't seen you in over a month the cat has your tongue, once I got her talking she gave me eye contact and smiled.

I've talked about this woman being hot and cold with me friendly one day then being a b*tch the next for no reason. She's single and she was in an abusive marriage for quite a few years. I have no plans of asking her out, I just find it amusing she is so quiet around me. I get this feeling that she is mad at me that I haven't asked her out she will chat up other guys with no problem at all why can't she do that with me I just want to be friends.

A Cancer and Gemini isn't going to work out air and water doesn't mix just the way it goes.

She was actually giving me eye contact when I seen her today and said hi, cat doesn't have your tongue today.

Guys that I know she doesn't know she's friendly as hell with them with me not the case I have to get her talking it's been that way since the day we met. We don't hang out with each other just see each other couple times a day couple days a week.

Posted by Stihl46
This Gemini woman I've been talking to for almost a year acts so friggin shy around me the only way I can get her to talk is if I talk to her first. I haven't seen her in little over a month she was with another woman I can barely get any eye contact out of the Gemini.

Most Gemini woman I know don't act shy around guys this one I usually only get giggles out of her when she's alone she's a little more braver when she with another woman around.

It still puzzles me how a Gemini woman can be so quiet around a guy most Gemini women I know its not common for them to be so quiet. I haven't seen you in over a month the cat has your tongue, once I got her talking she gave me eye contact and smiled.

I've talked about this woman being hot and cold with me friendly one day then being a b*tch the next for no reason. She's single and she was in an abusive marriage for quite a few years. I have no plans of asking her out, I just find it amusing she is so quiet around me. I get this feeling that she is mad at me that I haven't asked her out she will chat up other guys with no problem at all why can't she do that with me I just want to be friends.

A Cancer and Gemini isn't going to work out air and water doesn't mix just the way it goes.

Well, if she liked you more than friends, that could be the reason and be thankful, she is being that way. She needs to stay distant if you don't feel the same. I get very nervous around guys, I like and seem to fumble with my words. I get so nervous that I literally go blank on what to even speak about.

So keep away, let her lose her crush or whatever, if you genuinely want to be friends accept that this is the way it is. You can also tell her that you really like being friends with her so it's clear that you want nothing more.

Also, to say Cancer and Gemini don't go well is just silly. I'm Gem with Scorpio Moon, Venus in Cancer, I get on better with water signs than my own. The only way I really connect to other air signs is if they have water in their charts.

My close friends are either water Suns, or Water Moons. (aside from my Gemini bff, she has Aquarius Moon, Cancer Mer, Cancer Venus, Pisces 7th house, I'm 7th house Cancer. 🙂

My fear with her is hurting her feelings, if I felt a spark I wouldn't be worried but I don't feel anything. She's attractive but she's not my type.

Luckily she's moved departments at the company she works at I won't see her as often now and maybe her feelings/attraction will fade and I won't feel so uncomfortable when I see her.

I haven't been able to avoid her much she's still is in her old department part time I don't think we will avoid seeing each other.

This Gemini is funny she will joke and talk to me when she has another woman with her but soon as she's alone with me she turns fvcking quiet and barely gives me eye contact and acts shy.

She makes me laugh not sure why she acts so odd with me.

I don't want to hurt her feeling as I just want to be friends with her I'm a little hesitant to say that to her as I've had a few bad experiences with telling women lets just be friends. Avoiding contact with her isn't an option so I'm not sure what to do.

Posted by LonerLoop
OP,

Gemini are the shy individuals around the people they have crushed on. We won't talk that much with the person we like until we are really comfortable.

We do mirroring behaviors as well so maybe that helps on answering your questions?

At least, I am like that. 😉

Agree😉

i'm not a gemini sun...but i have a lot of gemini energy in my chart (asc, venus, jupiter,)......and I tend to do that back and forth thing around the person I like...and it's not intetionally, inside I may want to talk to you but still come across as being cold...or distant...i guess it's because i'm not sure if the oher person likes me...you can tell i'm confortable when i start being silly....if i like you i will try to make you laugh a lot🙂

What I don't get is she acts friendly with all other guys but me really what's your problem? I p*ss you off and I don't know about it?

Like I said I don't feel any spark with her anyhow plus the fact she has some red flags I know what they are I'm not going to list them off there is a reason why she's still single.