Gemini Woman Scorpio Man (Page 2)

that post made me giggle.

And that's all i gotta say about that.

I find this discussion very interesting...and to say the least I think Gemini women and Scorpio men are like two ends of the same pole. They're are almost entirely opposite, yet if both are mature enough and willing to put time and effort in each other a relationship will come to fruition.

I am a Scorpio man currently seeing a Gemini woman and I can say, we've fought more times than I can count. I've never fought with a girl the way I've fought with her and it's hard to understand her A LOT of the time. But the truth is I've never cared about anyone the way I've cared about her. She's made me think more maturely over the seven months or so since we've been talking and she's made me "mature" in ever sense of the faults a Scorpio has (jealousy, anger, etc). I just wish she could be more upfront with me. The way I see her she can see things I can't see and I appreciate her for how different she is from me. You know the saying opposites attract? Well it's like that in a way. We're both pretty opinionated and both pretty different. But when you can come to an understanding about each others point of view that is in a sense common ground that both of you can share and something which can perhaps bring about a relationship. We do have big differences in relationship experience though and we both see each other in different ways. I see myself as being caring whereas she sees me as annoying. We're still working on that part. I know she doesn't care about me to the extent I care about her but like with a lot of things you just have to go with the flow. One thing about the Scorpio which I've learned from myself is, we like to plan things out. If there's anything I've learned from her, it's that not everything goes to plan.

With this girl we argue and fight like crazy, but in a strange way I haven't learned from a girl the way I have with her. I've met other girls along the way and some of which have caught my eye. But for me, this girl captivates my interests like no other I've met. I like her BECAUSE she is different. I think that's the biggest obstacle that a Scorpio and Gemini have to overcome, their differences. Once they both mature and acknowledge their respective points of view I think that's when a relationship can begin to form. I'm very patient with her and regardless of how this dating turns out she knows I'll always be there for her as a friend or more. Sorry for the long comment. I guess I had a lot to get off my chest with this one 🙂

Awwww... I really hope things work out for you and Gem girl. =) I'm not sure about the nature of your fights but we kind of like to thresh an idea out in the open. Other signs will often think it's argument (Aries, Virgo, etc), but for us it's just discussion. And it's weird that I feel closer with someone who can take that and hold his own without taking it personally.

Anyway, good luck! =)

I am a Gemini, im 21 and have a 3 year old with a scorpio man. Our relationship is so difficult but so worth making the effort. He is an amazing man, loyal and manly! Not to mention tall, dark and handsome. Lately I have been realizing that being bipolar was the reason we fought so much, but in reality its just that me being a gemini and him being a scorpio is the conflict. I have lots of advice for dealing with a scorpio man the right way. And i'm also very interested in talking to other gemini's and othe signs.

well i've been happily married to a scorpio man for over 12 yrs and i'm a gemini. so i'm living proof this combo can work.

wow... this combo is starting to sound good. Maybe I should go find myself a scorpio guy.. hmmm....

Hi everyone, i'm new and it's so inspiring to read about the many wonderful sucessful combo of scorpio man and gemini woman.
Unfortunately for me, i fell hard for a scorpio man who told me i'm the first girl that's ever earned his admiration, then also told me that he thinks we are so compatible together and would love to see me again in the near future because we do live 3000 miles apart. The last time i was with him, he told me to give him patience, so i did that, then all of a sudden he decided to withdrawl from me and keep his options open by reposting his online dating profile. GO FIGURE! I feel pain and betrayed of my patience that i had given him. I wrote him a long nice email to end things between us because he's obviously not giving me a chance if he's going to keep his options open. Then he texted me back to tell me i'm the sweetest girl he's ever met. I'm confused as ever and i don't know if i should hang on to him and keep things as friends or really just forget him and move on. He's 40 and i'm 33 so we are two very mature adults and i have honestly told him how i feel many many times; we've known each other for only 4 months . When we were together, i sense he was head over heels for me and the things he did for me was so sweet and generous and i reciprocated the same sweetness, honesty, generosity, and sincerity.

Any advice from scorpio men out there as to why you are soo sweet and full of mangetism and then a sudden lost in interest and withdrawl? I just don't understand why he would still give me sudden text to tell me i'm sweet, i'm special, etc...but then wants to keep options open and see other people.

Posted by emeraldgem
Hi and welcome Bliss. There are many successful scorp/gem pairs here - do a little research and see. And lots of advice on the scorp boards. It's going to be a challenge, scorps and gems operate from very different points of view - but once you are aware of the differences and learn how to really communicate with each other, it can be a very rewarding relationship for both.

EmeraldGem, its been 2 years I've been reading your posts, and girl, you give me faith. You make me believe in shedding the stereotypes of being a Gemini, and reminding me that my Scorpio at some level will do the same if we truly want to be together.

we are going through a rough patch right now, which hopefully will lead to a place of true friendship even if it doesn't lead to love. Pray for me, and hugs to you for being you!

Posted by smartgem
Hey sexy gems🙂

I have a scorpio boyfriend. Sometimes I feels he talks to me only when he's finished off all his other commitments,when i give up anything i got to do and give first priority for him, especially when i am in a more critical phase of my career now.

He does whatever he wants and at the end of which, these scorpio guys know how to talk and somehow say something that convinces me. So, I just told him to delete everything that he received from me and get over it.

But it isn;t the first time i'm telling him this, each time i tell him, he ll say something or the other and make it sound like nothing he did was wrong, and that i have a wrong way of comprehending. I am sure any gemini woman, will hate to think her boyfriend thinks she is dumb. No way!

I tell him to get over it with the conviction that he really loves me and will hence, do something to recitify any pitfalls in our relationship. Knowing scoprio;s ego, even if he doesn't do anything , i am sure he will feel bad.

I am pretty confused right now..
wil post later..

ps : some one asked how other scorpio/gems make out..So far, We met up in only in public places , so we've never made out much, except twice, once - in a corner couples'seat in a theater... when we just kissed and he was feeling and fondling me all over in the dark. The next time was a beach side late in the evening, under the moonlight and in the car 🙂 and that was... ooommphhh... took my breath away..But I was only initiating most of the times. He was a bit concerned as it was a public place.

Scorpios are too private for their own good. You do what you're comfortable with, and he will secretly admire you for being able to do things in public, and will probably get off on it more than you!

They are passionate people, smartgem, and I have a feeling that's part of the attraction for you isn't it? As Gems, we love to see someone be so self aware and so in charge of their goals, because introspection is hard for us. I haven't met a single scorpio who wasn't a workaholic. I also haven't met a single (evolved) scorpio who wasn't equally devoted to making their relationships work...so there you go. For him, less is more.

And call him on his bullshit, he won't fight you because he knows you're right. But he still won't change for you, that's the problem, no matter how much he loves you! Doesn't mean he

Posted by emeraldgem
::disappointed::

I would have LOVED to see you working it out with a scorp!

me too 😢 !!

My Scorpio husband and I are a success story, but I had to wade my way through two other disastrous Scorpio relationships to find my compatible match. Our differences can sometimes be annoying, but on the whole I think they give our relationship strength.

Posted by Whimsy
My Scorpio husband and I are a success story, but I had to wade my way through two other disastrous Scorpio relationships to find my compatible match. Our differences can sometimes be annoying, but on the whole I think they give our relationship strength.

OMG you have a scorpio partner too! I have, er, had, er sorta have. Oh, its complicated but yay! 🙂
Hey originator of thread, I'm here to say, it can work. And yes, it can be disastrous, but they force Gems to look deeper and into murkier waters of their own darkness..which is a good thing. And we help them look into the light of their souls..even though they thought they didn't have one. They love darkness, we love sunshine. Its delightfully love/hate.

"And we help them look into the light of their souls..even though they thought they didn't have one. "


Ha ha!! Yeah, they delight in pretending there's no light in there...just darkness and moodiness and spiders and such.

water & air = foooooog

Im seeing a scorpio at the moment,he is such a sweet guy,could really build something with him.
Im more fascinated by hes dark sides,for example jealousy or when he gets frustrated in a discussion whoa then he really catches my eye since he is so coooool and sweet otherwise.

Sex is kinda hot,but not like with a perverted cancer/leo cusp