Gemini's & cheating

Are the men more likely to cheat and lie?

Posted by ScorpioHarmony
I did date a Gemini man, it always starts off amazing with these guys until they show you their other gemini side..... it can get ugly!

Guard your heart and stay cautious with gemini men.

Best wishes.

It was the most amazing time of my life. I loved him so much.

The ugly side came out as lying and cheating.

I hope the bitch he cheated with gets to see the ugly side.

Posted by Tavrine
How a bout a gem man who's's around late 30th's? Are they more stable for relationship or still have the duel faces?

mine was nearly 37 when lied and cheated. He was a two faced bastard.

yep..... seen it time and time again.... i know 3 guys with the same bday... one of them my brother... i always had to cover for him... one guy... i found out he actually had a fiance. i had to cut him off

I'm a 36 year old Gemini male, I'll turn 37 the 7th of June. I was married for 10 years, steadfastly loyal the whole time, I'd not even speak to other women because I felt it was disrespectful towards my wife. I ended up being the one who got cheated on and then promptly kicked to the curb.

Mine cheated. And he can lie and twist the truth and forget the truth. It's like he makes up the truth as he goes along. Things that actually happened, he's twisted it until he believes that his version is the truth. Don't know how he convinces himself that his change in history is solid truth, but he does.

Posted by DarkGem
I'm a 36 year old Gemini male, I'll turn 37 the 7th of June. I was married for 10 years, steadfastly loyal the whole time, I'd not even speak to other women because I felt it was disrespectful towards my wife. I ended up being the one who got cheated on and then promptly kicked to the curb.

I'm sorry that happened to you. Been there.

But, yay for your faithfulness! I'm sure you're not the only gem man that's faithful. Probably a lot of yall out there.

I grew up in an environment where my mother (Pisces) was constantly having affairs and cheating on my father (Aquarius). However, my father would always forgive here and stay extremely loyal to her. In my late teenage years I met and married my ex (Cancer) and she couldn't then and even now remain faithful, however, I know that this is because of her up bringing and has absolutely nothing to do with astrology. My best friend is a Scorpio and he usually has about 3 different relationships going at the same time, with three separate women.

To be quite honest, I do not believe it is fair to stereotype any single star sign for this type of behavior, when, in fact, it's the entire human race whom is doing this. I strongly feel that unfaithfulness has absolutely nothing to do with your planetary alignment, but rather, it has everything to do with your up brining.

True. Anyone from any sign can cheat.

Posted by Rabbit
My 17 year old son is a Gemini.

He usually has at least 3 girls going at the same time.

SMH

Rabbit, he is 17yrs old?? OMG!! Why does it seem like he was 15yrs old last time I saw you post. :/

I never did, but my Gem bf of 4 years did. We were both in our mid twenties.

I think it's unfair to judge a person only by their sun sign. I know at least 3 different Gemini men who NEVER cheated on their partners. In a chart gives Venus a clue to your loyalty. When a Gemini man has, for example Venus in Taurus, he is probably very loyal. Astrological speaking is cheating caused by different aspects. One aspect in a males chart could be moon square Venus. In general I think a man does only cheat on a woman when there is something missing in the relationship??_

Yeah. What's missing is his integrity.

Posted by freemind
I think it's unfair to judge a person only by their sun sign. I know at least 3 different Gemini men who NEVER cheated on their partners. In a chart gives Venus a clue to your loyalty. When a Gemini man has, for example Venus in Taurus, he is probably very loyal. Astrological speaking is cheating caused by different aspects. One aspect in a males chart could be moon square Venus. In general I think a man does only cheat on a woman when there is something missing in the relationship??_

Well, my Gem has Venus in Gemini, conjunct his Sun. Aries Moon and Mars.

Should I be worried about something?

"Well, my Gem has Venus in Gemini, conjunct his Sun. Aries Moon and Mars."

@Undine: This is my combo. I have moon and mars in Aries (6th house). But I have Venus in Taurus (7th house) not in Gem. What's the Rising sign of your boyfriend?

Moon conjunct mars is the ultimate guarantee for a very passionate and impulsive temper. The emotions come very quick, are intense and strong.
My best friend has a Pisces moon and she is a very sensitive soul. She naturally feels the emotions of people who surround her. Aries lunars are usually very direct and —sometimes- a bit harsh, but we rarely want to hurt people. Be aware of this...

Posted by freemind
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@Undine: This is my combo. I have moon and mars in Aries (6th house). But I have Venus in Taurus (7th house) not in Gem. What's the Rising sign of your boyfriend?

Moon conjunct mars is the ultimate guarantee for a very passionate and impulsive temper. The emotions come very quick, are intense and strong.
My best friend has a Pisces moon and she is a very sensitive soul. She naturally feels the emotions of people who surround her. Aries lunars are usually very direct and —sometimes- a bit harsh, but we rarely want to hurt people. Be aware of this...

He's got a lot of self-control and authority, probably due to his Capricorn rising. He did raised his voice once, though. It was during our third date, and I almost dumped him (mentally).

My Mars (9??) is closer to his Moon (3??) than his own Mars (27??), so I'm sure irritating him would come easily 🙂. For now on it's more passion than irritation, since the relationship is only 7 months young. Besides, I could be blunt as well, I'm Sag rising.

What sort of astro combos do you find attractive?

Your boyfriend is a happy man when his mars is quite far away from his moon :-) I'm so jealous that I haven't more distance between these 2 planets in my natal chart.

"What sort of astro combos do you find attractive?"

Do you mean planetary aspects in general in a couples' chart?

Posted by freemind
Your boyfriend is a happy man when his mars is quite far away from his moon :-) I'm so jealous that I haven't more distance between these 2 planets in my natal chart.

"What sort of astro combos do you find attractive?"

Do you mean planetary aspects in general in a couples' chart?

More like Sun/Moon/Rising.

Both Gems I know have been married (and divorced) to Leos, one of them twice!

My ex was a Gemi. Were together 9 years. Never feared he strayed. I have venus in gemini which is supposed to make me a cheater too. Never cheated. These superficial descripts aren't really useful. Cheating has to do with other, non zodiac things, like childhood, parental dynamics, maturity and sometimes sheer boredom. It's not a zodiac thing. It's a character and maturity thing. Peace.

Posted by RoseAngel81
Are the men more likely to cheat and lie?

Honestly, I don't think it has so much do to with star signs. It's more about testosterone. And most men have a ton of it. Plus when you add to the equation that men can have tons of sex with numerous women and never bear the responsibility of getting pregnant.

It's biology for men to desire many women and have many offspring. The men who can control that urge, and live up to moral expectations in a relationship, especially marriage, will not cheat. Those who can't control those urges will cheat. It's not rocket science.

Gemini sun is very excitable when it comes to attraction. However the rest of their placement has to come into play as well.

I'm a gem sun, cancer moon, and Aries Venus with Leo rising. While at times I feel flighty because if my Aries placement, if I've made an emotional connection in a relationship I will always fight for it. If not, I will break off the relationship prior to endeavoring elsewhere.

I'm still a flirt because its my personality, but my rule of thumb is that I don't do anything with the opposite sex that my current girlfriend would be upset about were she present. Cheating to me is a lack of respect and discipline.