Geminis Define Flirt

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LoveSeeker
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Posted by AirMan
i'm gonna be real and straight up with you all. i don't know what it means to flirt or if i were to see someone "flirting" i probably wouldn't even know it. i don't understand why people wants to label us as flirters. or if that's a girly thing or what. i mean i don't know. somebody define that for me too. i like to know myself.
I have absolutly no idea too,you gems confused me what does flirt mean seriously !
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WildHHeartGemini
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Personally I think we are just so playful, light hearted, like to laugh, have fun, & are open and sometimes people may take it as flirting? Maybe? I don't know LOL!

I personally feel the same as you Airman. I don't think I flirt, not even sure if I could intentionally if I tried LOL! And I'm ALWAYS clueless when a man is flirting with me. My friends will tell me "hey that guy was totally flirting with you" and I'm always shocked and like "yeah right, no he wasn't". Goes right over my head. I'm just genuinely nice & talkative and just think people are being nice as well LOL!

Maybe someone can post a video of what flirting looks like to help us out LOL!
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I am VERY self-aware.... So, I've noticed (and as I said in the other thread...) I don't realize I'm so-called "flirting". For me, I just see myself as being friendly or nice. Others see it as flirting. It's like the saying you see going around the internet... "friendliness and niceness are just SO RARE that when seen ppl mistake it for flirting!"

I'm a quiet person. So, if I'm asking you a million and one questions... if I'm hanging on your every word, extremely curious about your life, and wanting to know all your deep, dark secrets... I'm flirting! If I'm enthralled in an intelligent conversation... I'm flirting! I completely find intelligence as the sexiest thing on earth! So, I don't hold intelligent conversations with just anyone.

Just one. 🙂
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Posted by misslissa
I am VERY self-aware.... So, I've noticed (and as I said in the other thread...) I don't realize I'm so-called "flirting". For me, I just see myself as being friendly or nice. Others see it as flirting. It's like the saying you see going around the internet... "friendliness and niceness are just SO RARE that when seen ppl mistake it for flirting!"

I'm a quiet person. So, if I'm asking you a million and one questions... if I'm hanging on your every word, extremely curious about your life, and wanting to know all your deep, dark secrets... I'm flirting! If I'm enthralled in an intelligent conversation... I'm flirting! I completely find intelligence as the sexiest thing on earth! So, I don't hold intelligent conversations with just anyone.

Just one. 🙂
wow so you stop being nice and being friendly when you flirt ? you didn't explain xD

and what happen if your partner dosen't like it or hate it when you flirt with others ?

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No, mostly by choice and partly by nature, I'm always friendly and nice. My point was that it's so rare in the world. Ppl are just not friendly and nice to each other anymore... Observations from working in customer service. Ppl don't see it and they aren't being it, so ppl see being friendly and nice as flirting. Perspective is key in this instance.

I married a man with an aqua, pisces, leo mixture. He understands the gem, cancer, aqua mixture a lil too well. 🙂