@Moonbutter
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Going backward with a Gemini?
Posted by Goateeguru
It's feelings more like a friendship?
I ?♀️ I go back and forth between having feelings and feeling something is missing... we didn't start as friends so maybe just laying down that foundation?
Have you fucked?
Maybe I'm feeling effects of Venus Retrograde...
Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you fucked?
No, why? Does that matter?
Posted by LadyNeptune
Have you fucked?No, why? Does that matter?
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It's probably the reason your sliding into friends zone. Your spending a lot of time together but need to reach physical intimacy before you figure out if that attraction has staying power.
it doesn't feel like friend zone territory... I mean he hugs me from the back, holds my hand...
Posted by littlesnow
I think physical intimacy is important too, it makes you feels things. i feel like way too, its one of the things that make a relationship along with cuddling stuff
True...
Posted by Goateeguru
It's feelings more like a friendship?I ?♀️ I go back and forth between having feelings and feeling something is missing... we didn't start as friends so maybe just laying down that foundation?
Your threads are like gig saw puzzles Yo
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That's why I put it in Gemini board ?
Posted by Moonbutter
If you are seeing a Gemini and feel as though things are kinda sliding into friendship territory but still attracted to each other? Is this normal? What causes this? If anyone experienced such a thing ?Are you saying there is a lack of an emotional attachment?
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I think I'm missing passion... do Gems hold back in the beginning or is it a good sign meaning it's not just lust?
It's your own emotions you are feeling. Maybe you should ask yourself what's the matter with you?
I'm going through a cooling phase myself. For me, it's a break from a the roller coster of emotions I felt for a Gem during the last two weeks. I'm exhausted!
Posted by Moonbutter
If you are seeing a Gemini and feel as though things are kinda sliding into friendship territory but still attracted to each other? Is this normal? What causes this? If anyone experienced such a thing ?Are you saying there is a lack of an emotional attachment?
I think I'm missing passion... do Gems hold back in the beginning or is it a good sign meaning it's not just lust?
Missing passion?! Ummmm
I mean passion doesn't have to be expressed, not initially... but both of you would know how it is, right? I love it when things are prolonged, there is something about the anticipation part.... You know what I'm talking... and I did wait to get intimate. But there was no doubt about how we felt about each other in that way.
How long have you guys been dating?
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5 weeks
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Wasting your time.
Well maybe I'm pacing...
Posted by Goateeguru
You been scared of luuuooove and what it did to yoou
Are you saying subconsciously I'm preventing myself from falling?
Posted by Undine
It's your own emotions you are feeling. Maybe you should ask yourself what's the matter with you?I'm going through a cooling phase myself. For me, it's a break from a the roller coster of emotions I felt for a Gem during the last two weeks. I'm exhausted!
I was thinking about that ? I think it is me.. all in my head.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Wasting your time.Well maybe I'm pacing...
Look Geminis aren't for us, But good luck wasting your time
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What about with watery chart? I'm air dominant Cancer though...
Posted by littlesnow
not a good idea to emotionally depend on your gemI think the feelings are there
relationship with a gem feels alot like friendship especially long term.. so it's not about the passion
I dunno I'm excited and yet it's like that excitement is not enough
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Wasting your time.Well maybe I'm pacing...
Look Geminis aren't for us, But good luck wasting your time
What about with watery chart? I'm air dominant Cancer though...
OK I don't know. I read we marry Aries and Gemini and we divorce them the most too
But who knows. Don't mind me
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Oh jeez... I have an Aries that wants to marry me that's funny lol.
Posted by littlesnow
not a good idea to emotionally depend on your gemI think the feelings are there
relationship with a gem feels alot like friendship especially long term.. so it's not about the passion
I dunno I'm excited and yet it's like that excitement is not enough
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Not feeling that "high" when next to him like the endorphins or whatever...
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Wasting your time.Well maybe I'm pacing...
Look Geminis aren't for us, But good luck wasting your time
What about with watery chart? I'm air dominant Cancer though...
OK I don't know. I read we marry Aries and Gemini and we divorce them the most too
But who knows. Don't mind me
Oh jeez... I have an Aries that wants to marry me that's funny lol.
Is he a trump supporter? Do you guys go cow tipping together
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What do those 2 things have in common or anything to do with this?
Posted by Goateeguru
You been scared of luuuooove and what it did to yoouAre you saying subconsciously I'm preventing myself from falling?
Yes!
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Dang what do I do?
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Wasting your time.Well maybe I'm pacing...
Look Geminis aren't for us, But good luck wasting your time
What about with watery chart? I'm air dominant Cancer though...
OK I don't know. I read we marry Aries and Gemini and we divorce them the most too
But who knows. Don't mind me
Oh jeez... I have an Aries that wants to marry me that's funny lol.
Is he a trump supporter? Do you guys go cow tipping together
What do those 2 things have in common or anything to do with this?
Thought I'd troll you a little lol
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Well I appreciate your honesty 😄
Posted by Goateeguru
You been scared of luuuooove and what it did to yoouAre you saying subconsciously I'm preventing myself from falling?
Yes!
Dang what do I do?
Stop trying to figure everything out.
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Sigh... you are right.
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If you are seeing a Gemini and feel as though things are kinda sliding into friendship territory but still attracted to each other? Is this normal? What causes this? If anyone experienced such a thing ?