HATE is UGLY

I love when someone hates you & they can't even point out what it is they hate about you. *laughs* that is so sad. Let's all just sing cumbaya xD

Gemini hate me or love me. either way i am on your mind 😉

I am Gemini* damn friggen typos man >.

talk about a fucking big ego this one has one.

Sorry Pig I am not chic enough to get the bit o wit put out.

not to worry I seldom put thought into anything that is posted here except my conversations with a few on subjects that really interest me.

Tate, you know these Gems are all about themselves!

Lol

lildol you may have something there.

No no no. If you care so much of what others think you have no life. I don't care If ppl. Hate me,not everyone is going to like me. & i am very mature. Why are you getting mad for no reason? yes i am a gem,& proud dont like it,then be that how you want it.

He's always so nice the man hates no one and we all love him shuch a great mate.

Backfired.

Posted by Mr Nice
Anger is vented anger which can be equally destructive, I let it all hang out when I go the toilet, I do have a weakness for choc chip cookies and I also try to repress this problem but it hard, I bet thats something you would not admit too. Hope this helps

Heyyyyy... I love chocolate chip cookies. Why would anyone want to repress that? You just want to present yourself to the world as a guy who just eats meat falling of the bone kind of stuff?

Ya want a glass of milk to go with that? If you're lactose intolerant, you'll have a blast in the toilet. =P

Posted by Mr Nice
james tate, periperi, cool I've got you two on my team thanks guys. I really dont understand why she is taking my comments so bad there was no pun intended but, thats gems for it dont take much to hurt there ego, I not saying there all like this because theres two gem females that post on here emeraldgem, misslissa, I cant say either of them have ever said a bad word about anyone they two cool people.

thanks Mr Nice! i think you are pretty cool yourself! 🙂

Posted by Mr Nice
I cant do right for doing wrong with you gems you always seem to think I am beening horrible. I dont do chicken this is more my thing.

LOL... this is hilarious!!

I don't think you're horrible. Anyone who likes chocolate chip cookies are like Brontosauruses compared to a T-Rex or a Velociraptor. Just maybe woke up with a bullying streak today (or was it yesterday?) but who's to say you won't wake up without one tomorrow? Or maybe I'm just projecting a Gem's changeable nature onto you and you're really Mr. Not-So-Nice, lol.

Let's just dance bollywood, won't we?

Posted by periperi
I have a "friend" who doesn't act like a friend. He's a Gem. He's such a true good friend that he hangs out with the people that stabbed me in the back a while back. OK, that's fine. I understand he wasn't there and he wants to keep the peace and opted to give the benefit of the doubt. Yet, those same people backstabbed him as well AND he keeps hanging out with them.

You know, I kind of get what your friend did, being a Gem and all. It's not really being two faced but the rationale behind that is kind of:

1) you have an issue with those who stabbed you in the back;
2) he did not stab you in the back (so he doesn't have the stab in the back issue with you);
2) he doesn't have an issue with them;
3) even if they stabbed him in the back, he chose to forgive that transgression and still be amiable/conciliatory; (which is his call to make, not yours)

So since he knows who has issues with whom, that makes it easier for him to deal with everyone without burning bridges unless and until one of the parties (say you) want to draw a line in the sand to declare loyalties. He was your friend and I'm assuming, even if he was talking to the enemy (your enemy), he was loyal to you.

There are degrees with Gems. Most of the time we're just trying to get along. As Antoine Saint Exupery said, "What is important is invisible to the eye." And we get misunderstood for this time and time again.

The logic works. It's the same logic that the United Nations use when it comes to diplomatic relations between countries and I don't think anyone will admit that there's anything trickier to balance than trying to avoid war or hostilities between states with their egos on the line.

BUT.. I do not know all the details of your interactions with him and from what you wrote, I think what your friend lacked was the maturity to handle his Gem aspects. And maturity isn't a monopoly of ANY sign.

So if he doesn't have the courtesy or respect for you to give you a heads up when your "enemies" are coming around, yeah, you're better off without him. That wouldn't sit well with me either.

Posted by Mr Nice

I ok then I hear yeah so you aint gonna tie me up then whip me?

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Now, all you need is a whip....

Mr. Nice

she is just another Gem drama queen going of the deep end Just another proof postive for my drama queen board.

Posted by gemtaur
i think you guys miss one important detail: geminis vent openly. the rest of you are too afraid to let others see your weaknesses so you have to come down on someone who's just honestly airing her frustrations.

repressed types always question the motives of those who aren't afraid to let it all hang out, and mistake honesty for ego.

THANK YOU.! WELL SAID.

people ! are you serious?!?! *falls off chair* i have no ego. I simply was being honest & it is the TRUTH. people are getting mad for NO REASON. Fail. lol

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Posted by james tate
Mr. Nice

she is just another Gem drama queen going of the deep end Just another proof postive for my drama queen board.

Posted by james tate
NAW your to clean cut for that I don't mess with anyone but the drama queens or the real asses that mess with others.

Interesting... Just last week you seemed to have a completely different opinion. But you're not two-faced. Because you weren't born when Gemini was out in the sky. Riiiiight.

That butter might roll on other boards. But you don't want to talk out of both sides of your mouth on a Gem board.

ta ta

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Haha... spotting inconsistent statements is a Gem trait I love. =) It's interesting to watch other hardliner signs (or people regardless of their signs) wriggle out of the corner they box themselves in. That's why Gems make good use of disclaimers and qualified statements.

half of the people leaving comments, must have guilty minds. this post wasn't towards anyone FIRST off. SECOND, it was stating the TRUTH. THRIDLY, you guys are making me laugh. FOURTH, i am MATURE. FIFTH,damn most of you have no life cause half of you are WAY older and acting way younger. SO HONESTLY who is being the childish ones here? NOT ME.

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Posted by KrystleSade
half of the people leaving comments, must have guilty minds. this post wasn't towards anyone FIRST off. SECOND, it was stating the TRUTH. THRIDLY, you guys are making me laugh. FOURTH, i am MATURE. FIFTH,damn most of you have no life cause half of you are WAY older and acting way younger. SO HONESTLY who is being the childish ones here? NOT ME.

For some reason I want to take you out clubbing and start freaking.

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lol xD

Posted by sdgaf
SHUT UP BITCH I CANT STAND UR FUCKIN THREAD !!!

(lol.. of course)

does it look like i care? cry me river like Justin Timberlake. if you don't like it then GET OFF. plain and simple.

Posted by gemtaur

Posted by KrystleSade

Posted by sdgaf
SHUT UP BITCH I CANT STAND UR FUCKIN THREAD !!!

(lol.. of course)

does it look like i care? cry me river like Justin Timberlake. if you don't like it then GET OFF. plain and simple.

sweetie, he was joking here.

he's not a bad guy. just an air sign with too much time on his hand sometimes? hunh? 🙂

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ooh just checking lol ^^

Posted by gemtaur
Haha... spotting inconsistent statements is a Gem trait I love. =) It's interesting to watch other hardliner signs (or people regardless of their signs) wriggle out of the corner they box themselves in. That's why Gems make good use of disclaimers and qualified statements.

Not only that we see right through people. He's both a drama king and two-faced.

This is what frustrates me to no end when people say we're airheads. ha. We know exactly what's going on most of the time; we just don't say anything hoping you'll go away. But if you insist, then, I'm game. lol

*high fives* i totally on your side with that one . that is one trait that i cherish. 🙂

Posted by valeria25
Omg! this topic is amazing! 😄 LOL gemtaur, you're one feisty gem gal!! You must have a bunch of fire in your charts. heehee. You're making the boys crumble here. All of them. 😉

why thank you ^^ glad you like it 😉 step ya cookies up before they crumble xD FACT: i love Nicki Minaj

"I just hate seeing people bullying and demeaning others, even if they think it's just for fun. Gems are sensitive. Krystle's not bothering anyone, she's just posting on the GEM forum and then people come over all the time and cookiemonster her, and she's only 20. Geez people. Let her be. Is she bothering you? No. On your way, then."

speechless. thank you gemtaur. & you are correct ma'am. i don't bother anyone. people just love to start with me,then come to say i am drama? NO. then when i state TRUE facts,they get mad for no reason. this is why a lot don't like me. thus they don't know me first off. so they shouldn't be quick to judge. yup i am 20. & the people here are acting like they 12. such a shame.

Okay... kind of OT but... excuse the DXP newbie here but I get the "treetrunk" and the "butter"... but what on earth does COOKIEMONSTER filter?

Gem mouth AH never mind your not worth the effort people who are ate up with there selfs are ajoke anyway.

Posted by Joanie675
Okay... kind of OT but... excuse the DXP newbie here but I get the "treetrunk" and the "butter"... but what on earth does COOKIEMONSTER filter?

lol that's what i would like to know! xD i don't know what butter or cookiemonster stands for -_-"

lol @Valeria

Posted by james tate
Gem mouth AH never mind your not worth the effort people who are ate up with there selfs are ajoke anyway.

That would make us cannibals and you could very well be our next meal. Hmmm.

Krystle will likely be ok, once she matures and realizes that everything isn't about her.

I am unclear why you think you have a duty to do here ... do you honestly believe she is incapable of speaking for herself, that you must interject at her turns.

That makes you look small, though, I fully realize you actually think you look big.

Enjoy your delusion, while it lasts.

Posted by gemtaur
"You never have anything to add but negativity. You make very valid points many times, but you HATE people. Gems are people persons by nature, optimistic, and forward-looking."

Yeah, she just called me a douchebag in another thread but name calling like that -- I don't know. I'd expect something better from someone who's spent half a century on earth already.

P-ANGEL -- Negativity doesn't do anyone any good but I guess you don't know that because you thrive on it like a pumped up meth addict looking for your next negative fix.

You need DETOX, lol. Or, you know, if you're really not the optimistic type, then just let those who are be. Or maybe, you just need a good fuck. No disrespect intended but it does help relax.

I know Gemini's are sensitive really any sign is to a degree, but most of them wouldn't seem to be offended by the responses in here. Just thinking of the ones I know. They usually don't care much on who likes them or not.

Posted by prettyladii
I know Gemini's are sensitive really any sign is to a degree, but most of them wouldn't seem to be offended by the responses in here. Just thinking of the ones I know. They usually don't care much on who likes them or not.

That still holds true. The comment made to me was in another thread that was of a more personal situation but even so, I'm not taking it personally. People say stuff all the time and it's up to one to discern how much weight to give it to.

It may just be me, but after reading all the negative comments I find it quite humorous and ironic that a post titled "HATE is UGLY" drew in A LOT of HATERS...

Posted by gemtaur

.. rather than arguing with someone half your age.

**** Looks around, only sees gemtaur actually arguing ****

:: shrgus ::

can't say i exactly hated a person, too much energy involved 🙂