have you ever........

fallen out of love with their s/o? Do you believe we actually fall out of love or is it that once the initial, euphoric feeling has vanished and we are left facing reality or conflict enters, we feel we have fallen out of love? Is it realistic to believe you will always feel that person is perfect, get instant butterflies, can't focus on work because they are all you think about?? I always thought once you get over that initial stage, and if you are able to make it pass clashes that you will come out stronger with an actual foundation that isn't based on initial feelings of lust, infactuation or whatever else? Why do we tend to give up on people once conflict enters??

** I asked this on the astrology board, but want my fellow Gem opinions also

just cuz i'm having a conflict with a loved one doesn't mean i stop loving them. just means i don't agree with them and that's okay... if i did stop then i would be asking myself if it was really just infatuation, which is not the same as loving someone imho. but that could be my cancer moon talking...

conflictual events affects individuals in a sense that creates haphazard thoughts.The Significant other isn't necessarily the cause but rather the effect of what the other one lacks. Being in a relationship is hard not because the actual act of loving or acceptance is difficult but rather..the mere nature of humans are physically and mentally incapable of elevating their well being and alleviating their pain. If we don't immediately change the relationship is doomed. That is pressure i feel causes people to just give up and for others to let go.