Help?! Scorpio Man /Gemini Women

Hello, I wanted to get some honest advise from the Gemini women on this forum. I just joined and find this forum very informative. First, a little history. I met my ex-girlfriend (Gemini) at work. However, at first we were friends for quite some time. Even though we flirted and were attracted to each other, we never acted upon our mutual lust, because she was dating a really good friend of mine, which she eventually married and divorced later. I eventually lost touch with her, until a strange incident 3 years ago brought us back together as friends. She was not involved with anyone, but I had a girlfriend at the time. I always wanted her, and of course one thing led to another and we started having sex(yes I know it's wrong to cheat, so please don't be to harsh on me). Now, I knew alot about her personally being totally irrational, overly emotional, etc, and thought that this was just going to be a "booty call", and that I could never be involved with her in a relationship, due to all of her issues and baggage she has carried through out her life. Also because I am mighty Scorpio, I could control the situation, and keep my heart out of it. Well, I was wrong, because one thing led to another, and I FELL DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH HER. The funny thing is that I got to her as well, and she fell deeply in love with me, which I know for a Gemini woman is hard to do with just anyone. After a while, I knew I wanted to be with her, so after telling my girlfriend the truth and us parting ways, we (Gemini girl and me) started a relationship together.

Unfortunately, due to so many outside forces trying to keep us apart and with all of her other issues, I couldn't take it anymore, and we finally ended the relationship for good, after a emotional, physical fight. I find that Gemini's for the most part can't really think for themselves, and are too concerned about what other people think about them and are easily manipulated. Gemini women seem to make good hosts and are the life of the party, but they are not really aware of peoples true intentions. We had broken up numerous time before this, but we would eventually reconcile and get back together. No matter how much I tried to help this women, it seems that she wouldn't listen half of the time and it was like I keep repeating myself over and over again telling her the same things.