Help with crazy Gemini woman

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Gandor77
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Ok I'm a Leo and I met this Gemini woman 9 months ago, we both seemed to get on really well, there are things she does that I just don't like or understand and some I love, some would say they are typical Gemini traits. In the short space of time that I've known her I helped and supported her a lot, whilst she was in hospital and various other crazy issues regarding men in her life. I've never known a woman to attract so much attention from men and no I didn't pursue her she pursued me. My problem was never about how many male friends she had in her life but more about the so called 'male friends' that wanted more and it doesn't help that she has lied to me before, I have trust issues with her and she knows it.

Last week were in the middle spending a pre planned weekend together until she started to act strange and said I'd have to go as a family member had just texted her and asked her to meet her that day. I believed she was lying and asked her to prove it by showing me the text, she said no, so I told her no problem I'll leave but do not contact me again as I have had enough of all the lies. It went straight over her head, she proceeded to play stupid asking me how do I spell some word, as she was messaging a friend whilst I was talking!

Anyway I left on the Saturday with no intention of speaking to her again. In the early hours of Monday morning she texted me "Good night gorgeous, hope your not still sulking, love you x"

I never responded, then in the afternoon she texted "You still sulking? You are funny xx"

So later that day I texted back "No i'm not sulking, I'm in a good mood, obviously you ignored what I told you yesterday, just to clarify, I have no time for you or anyone else that I can't trust, you need to refrain from ever contacting me again"

she text me back saying "lol Bless, Love you. Just remembered its St Patrick's day, going out with work xxx"

on the Tuesday she emailed me to say "Hello Sexy Man! You going to sulk forever! Last night was brilliant, did you do anything fun? Miss you, Love you forever xx"

Then Wednesday evening she texted me to say "Just home sexy, love you x"

Is this woman for real??! She jokingly told me once that I'd never be able to leave her, now I'm thinking she wasn't joking! Why me though?? I know she's not like this with any other men, its normally them that act like that towards her!

Do I continue to ignore her and hopefully she'll get bored and disappear or do I reiter
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gemeliorist
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I believed she was lying and asked her to prove it by showing me the text, she said no, so I told her no problem I'll leave but do not contact me again as I have had enough of all the lies.





Oh good lord, just block her cheating butt. I would've first, stuck to our plans unless it was an emergency and try to included you if possible and secondly I would have shown you the text as there's nothing to hide. Wow, 9 mths and it comes to that.....she's not a keeper😢
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pinklibra
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Why you? I??ll tell you because you obviously don't get it??_its because men don't say no to her, she says no to men. You saying no to her she's like —Excuse me? But I'm me??_lol?? She thinks her behavior is cute and sexy, because it's like oh poor baby your mad, I??ll win you over eventually because everyone wants me. Most men are attracted to confidence and women that go after what they want, however she is on the childish side and I'm certain the men after her only want one thing, or they are normally players and with her they find a challenge because they are the ones getting played for a change.

You are different type of man, a grown ass man, and she's never had one otherwise she??d know when one means business. I say you block her, and keep it moving. This time choose a woman that's more grown, and mature, and can handle the men in her life. I have a lot of suitors as well being a sociable Libra, however if I find one that I truly like the others fall in line behind him, and if we make it official I will drop them completely. I keep suitors during the dating stage so as not to smother the one I truly like because I often want to spend every minute with the one I like without seeming clingy and not all guys like that.
Point I'm making is when a woman is single I see no problem in her having multiple guys call or try to take her out and stuff as long as she's not screwing all of them. But if she's in a committed relationship, the b.s single behavior needs to come to a halt, and you can't prance your way out of everything. She needs to grow up, admit her faults and prepare for another, because it seems like a closed case with you. Her bad. Lol.