How do Capricorn men feel about Gemini women?

How do Capricorn men feel about Gemini women?

From my experience, the Gemini gal I talked with was cute fun and an artist, so talented!
Do like how lighthearted things felt when spending time with her.

So positive feelings in my book.

Good, but sometimes flaky. My best friend's a Gem and we've been like that since Middle School. But for the women I think for Gemini I've been with more of them than any other sign.

In my experience, they are amused by us for a short time before they get exhausted. 😄

Posted by Sn1p3r187
Good, but sometimes flaky. My best friend's a Gem and we've been like that since Middle School. But for the women I think for Gemini I've been with more of them than any other sign.

That's good to know. I'm smitten with one, but he's into a Sag who he calls his best friend. We are good friends and we talk everyday by text because he's in another city. Known him for 15 years (OMG cannot believe it's that long) and back when I met him I wasn't interested in a committed relationship and knew I wasn't in a place suitable for him, so I declined a relationship. Now I'm ready and he's in love with her smh Explain to me why he's still into someone who isn't interested in him? She's made it clear she wants them to remain friends. She just started seeing someone as well.

Posted by ashley1734
In my experience, they are amused by us for a short time before they get exhausted. 😄

That's the thing he keeps saying my feelings are temporary, but I liked him from Day On. To be fair to him didn't carry on when I knew he wanted something more. He feels he's too boring for me, but he grounds me. There's no way I could talk to him all day every day if he was a bore.

Idk about Sun/Sun but I can tell you that my Cap Mars finds my Gem Moon playful and fun but wasteful of time and energy. Like Moon, chill the F out for five minutes so we can accomplish something with all these awesome ideas you have. jfc.

And this is just me judging myself, so I can only imagine what a Cap person thinks of a Gemini. lol

Posted by SirHorns
From my experience, the Gemini gal I talked with was cute fun and an artist, so talented!
Do like how lighthearted things felt when spending time with her.

So positive feelings in my book.

Thank you and good to know.

This is long, but need feedback:

End of 2015 I've visited him, in the city he's working in, a couple times. During the holidays he was undecided on coming home. Tried telling him I wanted to see him and if money was an issue I'd send him some (done it once before) but he was feeling all depressed because he had tried one last time to see if the woman (his best friend) he's in love with would change her mind about being involved and she still said no she just wants to be friends. He had asked during the summer after confessing his true feelings for her. I advised him if he didn't want to see me at least come down to spend time with his family so he isn't alone. Well he didn't bother coming and was miserable. I then offered to come see him for New Year's as he claimed he's been alone the last few years for that and his birthday, but he shut me down saying it was pointless, save your money. Then talked about nobody wanted to even see him if he came down during the holidays that's why he didn't bother 8-|

Here we are, a day away from his birthday and I was going to go see him if he wasn't coming down and he says to me I want to see what she's going to do first. Last year she forgot my birthday. Giving her until the day of to see if she makes any plans. Then said if anything he'll come down and go to this themed party he heard about. No invite for me. Then heard about some sports event and wanted to get tickets and had her in mind to take, but they cheaper tickets were sold out. Then said she's not working right now and maybe wouldn't even want to go to that type of thing. I said if I were in her shoes I'd love to . Nothing smh. He went all out for her birthday just about a month ago. He drove down here, bought her an iPhone 6 had booked a room at her favorite place. She declined the outings, but not the gift. It was after this fateful weekend he put it out there AGAIN and she turned him down. Watching him do this and act like I don't exist has been crushing. All because he feels all of a sudden I'm interested in him, but it's not true we use to hang out from time to time for years and I'm trying to get closer yet he's pushing me away. So I've stopped trying. I'm not sure what else I can do. He says I'm special and if I weren't he wouldn't talk to me all day every day, but he acts like I'm going through some phase. Says as soon as someone comes along you will lose interest. This girl always has many interests around her. When he went to bring her present a next guy was there and it's not the first time that's happened to him. He's gone out with her and her guy best friend or some guy interested her. I'm just confused by all this. Help. Should I just give up completely because some of this stuff angers and turns me off of him. I'd still be his friend, but feel a relationship may never work if he's going to be perpetually in love with this girl since he considers her his best friend so she ain't ever going anywhere. He said they are bonded for life. She's a Sag.

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Posted by ashley1734
In my experience, they are amused by us for a short time before they get exhausted. 😄

That's the thing he keeps saying my feelings are temporary, but I liked him from Day On. To be fair to him didn't carry on when I knew he wanted something more. He feels he's too boring for me, but he grounds me. There's no way I could talk to him all day every day if he was a bore.

Your interest in talking with him a lot can hint at a Sun (capricorn) trine Mercury (taurus) aspect., but if your Venus/Mars Aries squares his Sun (or other Cap placements), it can reflect how he feels rubbed the wrong way or vice versa (which requires more effort than a trine to work together). an interesting dynamic if they all line up.

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HMM That's interesting. He's also seen me carry on in terrible relationships that we've talked about. As far as he's concerned they were opposite to him. I must confess something else (covers eyes in shame) I did that was terrible. 10 years ago I made plans with him to go out one night and the Leo I was seeing at the time (we were in a fight) kept calling me and I finally answered. Basically he gave me an ultimatum: if I didn't work things out with him right there and then I was saying I didn't want to be with him anymore. So I cancelled on my Cap last minute and he had driven about 45 minutes. I know he's forgiven me because he says he has and it's really the only regret I have in life. Anyway, even though he's my friend I showed my flaky behavior and not sure he can truly see past that. Admits it was messed up what I did. He's absolutely right. Figure I don't deserve him now. I just been waiting patiently and being present. I'm not even dating or seeing anyone. He's what I want and if not him know he's the type I'm looking for long term.

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Posted by ashley1734
In my experience, they are amused by us for a short time before they get exhausted. 😄

That's the thing he keeps saying my feelings are temporary, but I liked him from Day On. To be fair to him didn't carry on when I knew he wanted something more. He feels he's too boring for me, but he grounds me. There's no way I could talk to him all day every day if he was a bore.

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Yes my Cap found me to be very fickle even when I felt I was being straight forward. He never really took me very serious.

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Posted by ashley1734
In my experience, they are amused by us for a short time before they get exhausted. 😄

That's the thing he keeps saying my feelings are temporary, but I liked him from Day On. To be fair to him didn't carry on when I knew he wanted something more. He feels he's too boring for me, but he grounds me. There's no way I could talk to him all day every day if he was a bore.

Yes my Cap found me to be very fickle even when I felt I was being straight forward. He never really took me very serious.

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I just noticed you were a Gem like me. It's so frustrating how my Cap views me.

So true @littlemeabyte. Love the screen name btw 😉 Thank you for the advice. You're absolutely right. I was back and forth on the giving up or waiting it out, but my feelings have waned so much it's like I'm not interested anymore. He even knows he's missing out on not being with me because he told me that straight up. Yesterday was enough of a slap in my face to let it go. I will remain friends with him because I'm not hurt enough to dismiss him and we have always been friends.

What's even more odd, today is his birthday and the Sag is going to visit and she was hoping I'd come too 8-) That might have been awkward. If I went with my impulsive side to just get the ticket this would have made for one interesting birthday for him. He hates surprises so I knew better than to just show up or tell him I was coming lol Anyway she kept asking if I was coming too, even after she booked her ticket. The interesting thing is feel she and I would become fast friends because she's a Sag. Our eastern signs are also very compatible Rooster and Snake.