4ever_confused
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how to handle this gemini?
he also started texting me randomly but i swear i NEVER gave him my number haha
Posted by blackphase
Got your email and your number without you having any knowledge of how he got it?
Run fast!!
yeah. someone else that goes to these events probably gave it to him but i'm still not sure how he got it....
Posted by blackphaseyeah it's strange. should i text him and ask him?Posted by 4ever_confusedThat would not sit well with me at all personally. :/Posted by blackphase
Got your email and your number without you having any knowledge of how he got it?
Run fast!!
yeah. someone else that goes to these events probably gave it to him but i'm still not sure how he got it....click to expand
Whats the end game for you? Like is he a fling or do you want a relationship??
Posted by blackphaseyes that's me!!
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?
a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.
Posted by blackphaseyeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.Posted by 4ever_confusedHe asked for your address too? :/Posted by blackphaseyes that's me!!
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?
a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.
I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.click to expand
my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..
Posted by LadyNeptunehi, yes i would like a relationship as end goal!
Whats the end game for you? Like is he a fling or do you want a relationship??
Posted by Moonbutteri'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..
Posted by blackphaseyeah that's what i was going to do, but they throw some of the best events. i've also introduced myself to my exes sister so there's no bad blood because i dont want to hold myself back because of my ex... my gut didn't see any red flag, but i am wary of my exes sister and knowing vindictive my ex is.Posted by 4ever_confusedAhh geez! Yeah due to the fact that your exes sister works for that label, i'd avoid getting too close to anyone that works there.. lord knows what people say. Just be cautious, that can be a tricky industry. But I am on the same page as you, I am not one to let random people I barely know come over. Just trust your gut on this one. Gemini guys can be super smooth and flirty, don't fall for it if you don't think he is being genuine.Posted by blackphaseyeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.Posted by 4ever_confusedHe asked for your address too? :/Posted by blackphaseyes that's me!!
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?
a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.
I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.
my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...
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Posted by blackphaseYeah he was asking me about some articles I write and where I'm from... He asked me before if I wanted to grab coffee but I was out of town. The sunday thing was very abrupt, I guess I will just let this one guy. it's a shame he's acting in this way.Posted by 4ever_confusedOh, so you didn't know her previously..Posted by blackphaseyeah that's what i was going to do, but they throw some of the best events. i've also introduced myself to my exes sister so there's no bad blood because i dont want to hold myself back because of my ex... my gut didn't see any red flag, but i am wary of my exes sister and knowing vindictive my ex is.Posted by 4ever_confusedAhh geez! Yeah due to the fact that your exes sister works for that label, i'd avoid getting too close to anyone that works there.. lord knows what people say. Just be cautious, that can be a tricky industry. But I am on the same page as you, I am not one to let random people I barely know come over. Just trust your gut on this one. Gemini guys can be super smooth and flirty, don't fall for it if you don't think he is being genuine.Posted by blackphaseyeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.Posted by 4ever_confusedHe asked for your address too? :/Posted by blackphaseyes that's me!!
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?
a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.
I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.
my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...
I honestly would be more concerned with his forwardness and access to your email / phone number. He is also trying to dive in very quickly, asking for your address and you mentioned that he was very forward in what he was texting you. Has he taken much interest in you personally? Your hobbies, interests? If the answer is no, then he is definitely just looking for a hook up.click to expand
Posted by 4ever_confusedSoo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you doPosted by Moonbutteri'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..click to expand
Posted by 4ever_confusedPosted by blackphaseYeah he was asking me about some articles I write and where I'm from... He asked me before if I wanted to grab coffee but I was out of town. The sunday thing was very abrupt, I guess I will just let this one guy. it's a shame he's acting in this way.Posted by 4ever_confusedOh, so you didn't know her previously..Posted by blackphaseyeah that's what i was going to do, but they throw some of the best events. i've also introduced myself to my exes sister so there's no bad blood because i dont want to hold myself back because of my ex... my gut didn't see any red flag, but i am wary of my exes sister and knowing vindictive my ex is.Posted by 4ever_confusedAhh geez! Yeah due to the fact that your exes sister works for that label, i'd avoid getting too close to anyone that works there.. lord knows what people say. Just be cautious, that can be a tricky industry. But I am on the same page as you, I am not one to let random people I barely know come over. Just trust your gut on this one. Gemini guys can be super smooth and flirty, don't fall for it if you don't think he is being genuine.Posted by blackphaseyeah like he wanted to come to my house on sunday after the event. it's very forward and i don't know why he got the impression he could come over, i don't let random people do that.Posted by 4ever_confusedHe asked for your address too? :/Posted by blackphaseyes that's me!!
I think I remember you posting a bit ago about getting into the music industry and all the Gems you worked with.. Am I right?
a lot of the same people go to these events so it's a smallish circle... he texted me at random and i didn't ask him at the time where he got my number. i don't really trust a few other people i've met that might have given it to him, but i could just be paranoid. he caught me off guard when he asked me on sunday what my address is, since that was my second time meeting him.... haven't talked to him since.
I'd be very wary of this man if I were you. I am also just a very suspicious person / not trusting, but still this doesn't seem right to me.
my exes sister also works for that label and my ex has caused a lot of problems for me, so i'm not sure if they told this gemini something false about me...
I honestly would be more concerned with his forwardness and access to your email / phone number. He is also trying to dive in very quickly, asking for your address and you mentioned that he was very forward in what he was texting you. Has he taken much interest in you personally? Your hobbies, interests? If the answer is no, then he is definitely just looking for a hook up.
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*let this guy go.
You're right the diving in and trying to rush things is a major red flag.
Posted by Moonbutterlmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basisPosted by 4ever_confusedSoo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you doPosted by Moonbutteri'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..click to expand
Posted by 4ever_confusedYes... I've been surrounded by Gems my whole life and LTR 3 of them. U gotta captivate them mentally be wittyPosted by Moonbutterlmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basisPosted by 4ever_confusedSoo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you doPosted by Moonbutteri'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..click to expand
Posted by Moonbuttermy only serious ex was a scorpio. i'm an aqua girl! what happened w ur gems?Posted by 4ever_confusedYes... I've been surrounded by Gems my whole life and LTR 3 of them. U gotta captivate them mentally be wittyPosted by Moonbutterlmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basisPosted by 4ever_confusedSoo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you doPosted by Moonbutteri'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..click to expand
Posted by 4ever_confusedSo is it impossible to tell him you feeling funny about him having your personal info? Why not to just open your mouth and ask?Posted by blackphase
Got your email and your number without you having any knowledge of how he got it?
Run fast!!
yeah. someone else that goes to these events probably gave it to him but i'm still not sure how he got it....click to expand
Being charming is their specialty to get what they want, don't give them what they want... be a challenge. They will either be into you or move on.
Posted by 4ever_confusedThey weren't right for me...different life goals/interests, etc. what is your mars and moon and Venus?Posted by Moonbuttermy only serious ex was a scorpio. i'm an aqua girl! what happened w ur gems?Posted by 4ever_confusedYes... I've been surrounded by Gems my whole life and LTR 3 of them. U gotta captivate them mentally be wittyPosted by Moonbutterlmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basisPosted by 4ever_confusedSoo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you doPosted by Moonbutteri'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..click to expand
Posted by GemitatiI didn't really care about how he got my number before until one of my friends asked me how he got it. I supposed I'll ask him next time I see himnPosted by 4ever_confusedSo is it impossible to tell him you feeling funny about him having your personal info? Why not to just open your mouth and ask?Posted by blackphase
Got your email and your number without you having any knowledge of how he got it?
Run fast!!
yeah. someone else that goes to these events probably gave it to him but i'm still not sure how he got it....click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterTaurus moon n evertin else is in capricorn FMLPosted by 4ever_confusedThey weren't right for me...different life goals/interests, etc. what is your mars and moon and Venus?Posted by Moonbuttermy only serious ex was a scorpio. i'm an aqua girl! what happened w ur gems?Posted by 4ever_confusedYes... I've been surrounded by Gems my whole life and LTR 3 of them. U gotta captivate them mentally be wittyPosted by Moonbutterlmao! i surrounded by a lot of geminis on a weekly basisPosted by 4ever_confusedSoo what's the rush? It seems he just wants to get in your pants. You want a relationship with a Gemin that's the last thing you doPosted by Moonbutteri'm not sure. it seemed like he was trying to rush things and get intimate with me. we are both in our 20s by the way.
Umm no, red flags... why is he wanting to come to your house? Can't take a Gemini..click to expand
Posted by MoonbutterI will do that!! ๐
Being charming is their specialty to get what they want, don't give them what they want... be a challenge. They will either be into you or move on.
Posted by 4ever_confusedHere's the thing, you don't know enough about this dude to want a relationship from him specifically. You want a relationship tho, so stick to that. If you see red flags don't compromise that end game.Posted by LadyNeptunehi, yes i would like a relationship as end goal!
Whats the end game for you? Like is he a fling or do you want a relationship??click to expand
So far he's already given you some red flags. Him hitting you up late at night/early am screams smash and dash. So I'd suggest taking things slow. Don't give up the pussy until you get a promise of exclusivity from him.
But for now, hit him up and start a conversation. See if there is anything there.
Posted by LadyNeptunei love this advice! so you think it's okay to initiate first with him?Posted by 4ever_confusedHere's the thing, you don't know enough about this dude to want a relationship from him specifically. You want a relationship tho, so stick to that. If you see red flags don't compromise that end game.Posted by LadyNeptunehi, yes i would like a relationship as end goal!
Whats the end game for you? Like is he a fling or do you want a relationship??
So far he's already given you some red flags. Him hitting you up late at night/early am screams smash and dash. So I'd suggest taking things slow. Don't give up the pussy until you get a promise of exclusivity from him.
But for now, hit him up and start a conversation. See if there is anything there.click to expand
If he got your number and email he must have gone out of his way to do so. As a Gemini (mind you I'm a female) I don't go out of my way for things like that unless I'm interested whether it be a relo or tap and gap.
If you could possibly want more than a tap and gap DO NOT hook up with him. Make him wait for it, be your elusive aqua self and he'll be hooked wanting more and more.
Aquas and Gems usually always get on well and have some weird type of connection and good conversation.
If you could possibly want more than a tap and gap DO NOT hook up with him. Make him wait for it, be your elusive aqua self and he'll be hooked wanting more and more.
Aquas and Gems usually always get on well and have some weird type of connection and good conversation.
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