What will make our relationship lively and fun again!!

This topic was created in the Gemini forum by surferpisces on Friday, May 19, 2017 and has 29 replies.

How to Bring Excitement Back to a Gemini Relationship

To revive your relationship with a Gemini, introduce spontaneous activities, surprise him with new experiences, and keep communication lively. Show interest in his need for freedom while sharing fun adventures together to reignite the excitement and connection.

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@surferpisces
10 Years

I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

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@surferpisces
10 Years

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

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Interesting! I'm not gonna lie, I am probably not so daring in bed, but not boring either.. Can you please give me more detail about instigating trips etc...

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@Deedee86
10 Years1,000+ Posts

Make all of your time together fun.

My Lib and I could be watching grass grow and it would be a blast because we would be laughing and joking the entire time.

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@Wineaux15
9 Years1,000+ Posts

A lot of Gems I know like spontaneity and yes trips. Do like planning a surprise weekend trip somewhere close with a lot of fun pre-planned activities?

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Things where you move your body (no not just that 😛) .... Gemini energy is restless

Funfair, circus, ice skating, phone sex...chat, chat, chat, debates about what you are both interested in, dancing, bowling, fancy dress parties

For me, i was the most inventive with the hot stuff.....dressing up, sex in the car, in fields, beach, over farm gates lol, and the best ever in a bluebell wood....

Leave him breathless girl...he will never be bored

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@MagicMarch
9 Years

Sharing the same hobbies that you can do together.

Fitness, sports or competition games together.

Traveling, taking trips to new places

Maintaining a light, playful attitude towards him with fun conversations.

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

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You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presentce?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

Buy him pass to a circus as a good bye gift and set him free!

Pray he will find clowness who changes color of her nose daily!

Entertainment my ass!!!

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@EvatheDiva
10 Years1,000+ PostsPisces

Go to your local grocery store, Wally-Mart, or Tar-Jay and buy a copy of Cosmopolitan! 😈

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

PS: You're Piscean!!!!!!!! Girl, walk hand in hand to Victoria's Secret (mall). Have HIM pick out something for you! BTW, they sell perfumes, hand creams, etc, too! 😉

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presentce?

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That can become a bit predictable

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presentce?

That can become a bit predictable

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So if you married for years - you will be entertaining all the time?

Wishing you all the strength you can have🙂

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presentce?

That can become a bit predictable

So if you married for years - you will be entertaining all the time?

Wishing you all the strength you can have🙂

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But the lady asked for help with making the rship more lively and fun.....watching tv isn't always exciting unless you are confined to a chair and who is talking being married for years......she isn't

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@MyStarsShine
9 Years25,000+ Posts

OP

One of my exes had a loaded 3rd house, very intellectual .....we used to read to each other sometimes in bed in between the sex sessions 😛. So much better than staring at a screen

We also used to have parties in my bedroom......dance a lot and fool around....great fun!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presentce?

That can become a bit predictable

So if you married for years - you will be entertaining all the time?

Wishing you all the strength you can have🙂

But the lady asked for help with making the rship more lively and fun.....watching tv isn't always exciting unless you are confined to a chair and who is talking being married for years......she isn't

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Let's say she took advise and started to be fun! They get married! And he is bored again...then what?

OMG! Someone just told me I am over analyzing things as scorpionic...

Am I? Oy vey...?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Saggi212
Find something he considers interesting and do it with him.A gemini i knew loved to read or watch movies that have deeper truth ,meanings and stuff and then discuss it.Also talk a lot with him. Play with his curiosity.

Like now you see it - now you don't? Lol

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10 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

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Take this advice

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@Undine
13 Years5,000+ Posts

Don't forget some drama and torture! Also, initiate at least 40% of time.

Don't be nice and accommodating all the time. Remember, you are dating a sign which is highly compatible with the most difficult and hard-ass women: Leo, Aries, Aqua.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Be playful, tease, flirt be silly... together have fun 🙂 if you guys can have fun together just hanging out that's a really good sign. You do have to be a bit outgoing and goofy at times though.. just fair warning

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Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presence?

That can become a bit predictable

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Well maybe if you only watch then yes.....

Movies can provide so many ideas both for in and out of the bedroom

even just for convo afterwards.

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Undine
Don't forget some drama and torture! Also, initiate at least 40% of time.

Don't be nice and accommodating all the time. Remember, you are dating a sign which is highly compatible with the most difficult and hard-ass women: Leo, Aries, Aqua.

My Pisces ex-does this with her current Gemini husband and I swear he has never been more devoted to her since they got together.

He treated her like crap in the beginning when she was complacent.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Undine
Don't forget some drama and torture! Also, initiate at least 40% of time.

Don't be nice and accommodating all the time. Remember, you are dating a sign which is highly compatible with the most difficult and hard-ass women: Leo, Aries, Aqua.

My Pisces ex-does this with her current Gemini husband and I swear he has never been more devoted to her since they got together.

He treated her like crap in the beginning when she was complacent.

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True, you have to be firey and sassy they love that shit ?

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by nanobyte
If it doesn't happen naturally, I wouldn't try to force it. Imo, you shouldn't feel like you have to make large efforts to keep him interested, and if he were truly interested, he wouldn't be creating distance. Maybe you two just aren't compatible.

Exactly! If honeymoon is over and life is boring - fixing it would be too exhausting.

Must come naturally!

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presence?

That can become a bit predictable

Well maybe if you only watch then yes.....

Movies can provide so many ideas both for in and out of the bedroom

even just for convo afterwards.

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You read me 100% ! ?

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@Adreamuponwaking
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Moonbutter

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by Undine
Don't forget some drama and torture! Also, initiate at least 40% of time.

Don't be nice and accommodating all the time. Remember, you are dating a sign which is highly compatible with the most difficult and hard-ass women: Leo, Aries, Aqua.

My Pisces ex-does this with her current Gemini husband and I swear he has never been more devoted to her since they got together.

He treated her like crap in the beginning when she was complacent.

True, you have to be firey and sassy they love that shit ?

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Or moody.

Ex had an aqua venus and Taurus moon.......

was / is constatly irritated by everything.

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@Adreamuponwaking
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Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Adreamuponwaking

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by MyStarsShine

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

I was with an Aqua man for a while who said to me *you will always be thinking up different things till the day you die* lol.

Men never seemed to get bored around me but i think that is because i was always original, eccentric and inventive...always surprising, as the man said *thinking up different things*

What do you think he would like? I used to instigate trips, games, etc but i think the main thing that kept them interested (and sorry to be predictable), was my sexual wildness......dressing up, being theatrical, outrageous, daring

If you want me to go into more detail...let me know

😈

You serious?

How about just watch movie together and be dying from each other presence?

That can become a bit predictable

Well maybe if you only watch then yes.....

Movies can provide so many ideas both for in and out of the bedroom

even just for convo afterwards.

You read me 100% ! ?

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Geminis love role play.

These are the facts.

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@Moonbutter
11 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by surferpisces
I'm going to keep this short and sweet, but if you want any more details just ask..

I would say the "honeymoon" phase of our fling has started to end, where excitement is dying down and we're both kind of bored in what to do. Initially my gemini man came up to me with all these weird and exciting ideas to do, and i agreed, but never was the one to initiate. Anyway I can sense that he is starting to put distance between us, and after some analysing I think its coming down to simple boredom and his need for freedom.

I like this guy, and would love to keep the excitement in our relationship alive. I'm thinking about going over to his house spontaneously etc to go out and do some fun adventures again. What are some tips that will bring excitement back that will excite this gemini man??

Reading this again...you say fling which means temporary anyway. Gemini needs a foundation with their partner to keep it going... a mental and emotional connection. Are you just FWB or fuck byuddies?